This is the basic requirement list every women should have when selecting a man

[DrX]

@Chelsea Bridge the avg man in amica is built like 2016 busta rhymes

Finding a man with a six pack is going to be hard....even dudes that work out don't have six packs...alotta pro athletes dont even got one,..pause....my advice is to just get a charming guy with a gut .... That love u...because looks will fade anyway

 

[Pazzy]

Basically, most people need to be real and deal with what's out there vs what's in their mind. If you hold what's out there against what's in your mind, you will always find something wrong with someone even if things are bearable. Like you got people with checklists and of course, those people usually end up with nothing or someone that doesn't match most things on it. If you are serious about love, you will let it find you instead of you finding it.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

@Chelsea Bridge the avg man in amica is built like 2016 busta rhymes

Finding a man with a six pack is going to be hard....even dudes that work out don't have six packs...alotta pro athletes dont even got one,..pause....my advice is to just get a charming guy with a gut .... That love u...because looks will fade anyway

That was a joke. I don't care about a six pack but someone who thinks about how they look and goes to the gym on a regular basis is good enough for me.

I would like to workout with my SO and considering how much I enjoy going to the gym, the guy would have to value it as much as I do and in my experience it's usually the fit ones that do.

 

[Pazzy]

Why do married and long term and commuted women make the best requirement lists for women? You ask?

Well if a chick is married or in a relationship for a long time she is def doing something right especially compared to a single one.

Its basic common sense.

Doesn't mean they are in happy and satisfied relationships.

 

[Blackout]

Doesn't mean they are in happy and satisfied relationships.

Common sense would tell you that Im only talking about women who are in happy/satisfied relationships.

My bad, I forgot that some people here might not have common sense.

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

Be what you want to attract

I'm not telling none of you chicks to settle but, be what you want to attract I don't make $200,000 a year but, I promise you on God if I was I would not be looking to date one of you plain janes. At all. You wasting your time if you barely a 6 thinking a 10 gonna tell the girls who look like Sanaa or Gabrielle, nah sweetheart, I want this super average ass broad over here. Keep dreaming.

Exactly. People need to realize standards are a two way street.

A lot of girls be on some, I don't want a man unless he has a good job, a car, his own place, no kids, muscles, etc. Then you look at them and they aren't bringing shyt to the table.

As long as you understand though, have whatever standards you want. Would never ask anyone to settle. Threads like this are for the women who set super high standards...when they are basic as fukk. I have a friend like this, dude was a virgin all through college waiting on his supermodel to come thru while turning down average girls who showed interest.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

interesting

 

[:-)]

Your standards seem unreasonable... When was the last time u seen a perfect nikka? Do he even exist? Will Smith was suppose to be that...and even he fukk other dudes

I think u need to find a nice local guy and call it a life....have some babies and be happy to have somebody to talk to...y'all ladies want somebody that don't exist

Local huh? First of all I don't date "nikkas". When you say that men like "Lil Wayne" or "Gucci" come to mind, so I will never lay with "nikkas".

My standards are perfect for ME. Locally I live in a town of rednecks and h*nkies, so I will not date locally. Perfection is in the eye of the woman/man.


My standards might be too low for some, while for others they might be high. You're talking to someone who will be training in wrestling school this summer so my standards fit the lifestyle I plan on living. I find men who keep up with themselves the most attractive in the industry/industries I've always wanted to get into since a young age and I will never aim lower because some men feel butt hurt at the fact that a lot of us just don't want yo crusty stank butt a**.

And if I want someone to chat with I'll call my girl up. Some of you fellas can't stand the fact that women aspire for men on a caliber that a lot of you cats can't or won't achieve.


And each woman is different. Hell some women might find a man like Idris Elba perfect while others might find a man like Farrakhan perfect for them, or even a Brad Pitt ( just using them as examples).

If the fellas came here saying that they want a Beyonce or a Rihanna I would never down that!!! Hell so far I haven't! I'm very quick to tell a man to keep his standards very high and be that of what/which he wants.

And I've even responded on multiple threads telling the fellas here to keep striving! Physical attraction matters!

But when us ladies start on the same subject we're told to settle and just start having babies and make you some food.


Da f*ck son!!!................

 

[Dominicansbelit]

Repent? I'm an angel I have nothing to repent for. And I do cook and clean or else I'd starve and my house would be trashed.




Breh physical attraction is important, don't you guys constantly complain about women not having sex with thwir husbands? It's because. Their husbands are gross and they can't pretend to be attracted to them anymore.

You just proved something.. women will stop finding you attractive if you lose something she values.. and this thread sucks cuz no female is gonna agree with this :/

 

[:-)]

Exactly. People need to realize standards are a two way street.

A lot of girls be on some, I don't want a man unless he has a good job, a car, his own place, no kids, muscles, etc. Then you look at them and they aren't bringing shyt to the table.

As long as you understand though, have whatever standards you want. Would never ask anyone to settle. Threads like this are for the women who set super high standards...when they are basic as fukk. I have a friend like this, dude was a virgin all through college waiting on his supermodel to come thru while turning down average girls who showed interest.

EXACTLY WHY I AM NOT COMFORTABLE DATING RIGHT NOW. I want to be a "10" in my eyes in order to attract a "10".

I agree with everything you said! As much as it would be nice to have companionship I don't have what I would love to bring to the table. I have high standards and I've always had them, so I'm working on being the very thing/person I want.

It's a 2-way street. Nothing wrong at all saying you want all these wonderful things, but just as long as you're working on it. It never bothers me when a man say this at all because I feel you all 100 percent.

And to your friend! You never want to give it up to someone just to say you're not a virgin anymore.

 

[Blackout]

Locally I live in a town of rednecks and h*nkies

 

[DrX]

Local huh? First of all I don't date "nikkas". When you say that men like "Lil Wayne" or "Gucci" come to mind, so I will never lay with "nikkas".

My standards are perfect for ME. Locally I live in a town of rednecks and h*nkies, so I will not date locally. Perfection is in the eye of the woman/man.


My standards might be too low for some, while for others they might be high. You're talking to someone who will be training in wrestling school this summer so my standards fit the lifestyle I plan on living. I find men who keep up with themselves the most attractive in the industry/industries I've always wanted to get into since a young age and I will never aim lower because some men feel butt hurt at the fact that a lot of us just don't want yo crusty stank butt a**.

And if I want someone to chat with I'll call my girl up. Some of you fellas can't stand the fact that women aspire for men on a caliber that a lot of you cats can't or won't achieve.


And each woman is different. Hell some women might find a man like Idris Elba perfect while others might find a man like Farrakhan perfect for them, or even a Brad Pitt ( just using them as examples).

If the fellas came here saying that they want a Beyonce or a Rihanna I would never down that!!! Hell so far I haven't! I'm very quick to tell a man to keep his standards very high and be that of what/which he wants.

And I've even responded on multiple threads telling the fellas here to keep striving! Physical attraction matters!

But when us ladies start on the same subject we're told to settle and just start having babies and make you some food.


Da f*ck son!!!................

wow , you took that personal

EXACTLY WHY I AM NOT COMFORTABLE DATING RIGHT NOW. I want to be a "10" in my eyes in order to attract a "10".

I agree with everything you said! As much as it would be nice to have companionship I don't have what I would love to bring to the table. I have high standards and I've always had them, so I'm working on being the very thing/person I want.

It's a 2-way street. Nothing wrong at all saying you want all these wonderful things, but just as long as you're working on it. It never bothers me when a man say this at all because I feel you all 100 percent.

And to your friend! You never want to give it up to someone just to say you're not a virgin anymore.

what if that 10 don't want a 10, or if that 10 have 1000's of options and just will settle for easy sex with no attachment...IMO you're trying to live a life that's in your head, how do you even define a 10?....that's why I say...all relationships should be based off values....a mental connection because that way y'all can ever lose.....

superficial things like looks, job, care...whatever is material and will fade eventually


also u might want to move

 

[mrfortune]

way too many women to choose from, if all else fails go overseas and lockdown a 8-10

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

way too many women to choose from, if all else fails go overseas and lockdown a 8-10

More women than men on this planet so we get to be the picky ones.

 

[Osmosis]

@daria @Dollfacecraze

where the fukk yall been?