This is the basic requirement list every women should have when selecting a man

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wow , you took that personal


what if that 10 don't want a 10, or if that 10 have 1000's of options and just will settle for easy sex with no attachment...IMO you're trying to live a life that's in your head, how do you even define a 10?....that's why I say...all relationships should be based off values....a mental connection because that way y'all can ever lose.....

superficial things like looks, job, care...whatever is material and will fade eventually


also u might want to move

Of course I took that personal; I see that so many times on here and I've heard it over...and over...and over...while men are giving good game on how to "never settle". A lot of women don't think with their ovaries babe.

And if that 10 doesn't want a 10? Guess what? Move on to the next one. A 10 to me is a variation of things.

No one knows what goes on in our heads, and the same for the fellas. I want to perfect myself the way I want to so I can have options. I know what I want and I choose to go about it the way I've set out.

A life in my head huh? So because I have a plan it's all fantasy? Right......

And I agree on the values, but looks are the 1st thing that everyone notices. No woman looks at a man and goes "damn! He looks like he can cook a mean sweet potato pie! let me get his number!" No, women notice how well put together a man is. From features to even his suit, hell even his voice. A man notices the beauty of a woman. Brest, bottom, the flirtatiousness of her eyes, etc...then you proceed forward.

There goes that "look over the looks" bullsh*t men keep peddling. No n*gga I'm not going with a man that I don't want to see naked. That's that. If you so damn hideous looking like some geela monster looking lizard then I'm not going to want to do anything sexual or carry your seed. Let me enjoy the handsomeness of a man's body and face before the looks fade.

If he has the looks then I'll go in with caution with a conversation and I will then check where his head is at. Then continue on down the checklist to see if it's a man I want to build an empire with.

And don't tell me you'd f*ck some 2,000 b*tch that look like Ted Cruz with a good personality and aliens stuck to her body like warts because if you did you know damn well you'd be a liar!


And when I'm financially stable I'll move. Depends on the wrestling thing.

 

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Lived here since I was 8. Believe it or not they don't bother me at all but man....the amount of meth heads that walk the street here....smh....

And the thing is....these are the suburbs....majority 2-story houses. But they come over from the trailer park area to walk around drunk n sh*t. Nice houses but walk around and in the stores with shoes off.....


Smiling all sorts of huge with no teeth......


And I sometimes get "you're perty"........not "pretty".........."perty"

 

[Blackout]

Lived here since I was 8. Believe it or not they don't bother me at all but man....the amount of meth heads that walk the street here....smh....

And the thing is....these are the suburbs....majority 2-story houses. But they come over from the trailer park area to walk around drunk n sh*t. Nice houses but walk around and in the stores with shoes off.....


Smiling all sorts of huge with no teeth......


And I sometimes get "you're perty"........not "pretty".........."perty"

My condolences.

Im appreciative of always being in black areas.

Hopefully you can move someday to a good black area and connect with our people more.

 

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My condolences.

Im appreciative of always being in black areas.

Hopefully you can move someday to a good black area and connect with our people more.

That would be nice actually...

 

[InDePickWest]

Let it go fellas. Women are not going to lower their standards, and neither should you. Just stack your paper while you're young, and when you're older, the tables turn.

As long as you're stacking your paper, and don't get married or have kids, you'll be bagging chicks hotter than the ones curving you today.

Correct. But don't have these desk having job nikkas getting false hope. This for the ballets.

 

[Reginald Noble]

Look like nikka DrX can be right about some things but still trying to be Malcolm

 

[The M.I.C.]

3.5 outta 7 aint bad

We gonna get to that 4 eventually breh

 

[emerald]

So emerald, what does your romantic life look like, do u have a man?

Stop trolling. You wouldn't tell your own kids to date the lowest common denominators in life and your mom and every black woman, who has ever gave a fukk about your simple ass, has never advised you to lay down with trash so why get on the internet and tell a bunch of grown ass women to do it?

 

[The M.I.C.]

way too many women to choose from, if all else fails go overseas and lockdown a 8-10

Gems.

But a lot of dudes won't do this. This is why I when see these "battle of the black sexes" threads pop off every 24 hours, I just lurk now. Dude's won't believe the amount of cooperation you'll get overseas, especially in Africa... My god the women in South Africa and Ghana..

 

[Paradise]

The amount of generalizations in this thread are mind blowin.

I never have understood why the people of the coli can not understand what preference is.

Everyone has preferences and some have a long list of them and some don't.

What I like... the next person may not.

 

[The ADD]

This is one of those things that just doesn't translate well from what someone will tell you is ideal to what could actually happen in real life. Most of us have likely dealt with someone that on paper (at least initially) we likely would not have. Sometimes that's good and sometimes it's bad.

 

[Pazzy]

Common sense would tell you that Im only talking about women who are in happy/satisfied relationships.

My bad, I forgot that some people here might not have common sense.

Yeah but that all depends on perspective. You have women who are happy in an unconventional relationship like an open one or who is with what you might consider a bum or even a homeless guy. It's best to roll with an open mind as long as that person isn't going to be problematic to your life where theyre bringing you down or leaving you worst off than you were before you came to them.

There's way too many people being picky over shallow shyt. If a guy or a woman is working on bettering themselves, thats a plus. Someone is basically willing to take control over there lives but some people don't like that shyt though. Insecurity doesn't go far. If you're looking for someone to make you happy in life through a relationship then youve failed already. It's nobodies responsibility for your happiness except yours. All this talk about "he doesn't make me happy" or "she doesn't make me happy". Wtf is wrong with you where you need someone else to do something that you're supposed to do for you. A relationship shouldn't stop you from working on yourself or living your life. Too many immature people want love or relationships or sex but don't know how to deal with it. It's a game to them and it's not a game. If you're a player, you become played out.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Lower your fukking standards so you don't end up a 35 yo lady living with 12 cats.

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

females need to understand...not every dude can get a fly ...be a go getter....a sucka free dude with the balls to reach the top...like me for example....

the other dudes need loving to...and these guys are loyal and diligent...i know a lot of good brothers out there that don't get play, only because they just want simple lives, and just want to settle down and have a family

why should they be penalized for that

I'm afraid for the ladies...can u imagine when a guy like this get older...their dikks still dry, they still don't have kids ....they're going to turn into monsters....like

Funny because that man is only 21 right now still a baby carrot amongst real men such as myself. But then again he's been getting rejected by women throughout his life supposedly so.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Are guys in here trying to guilt women into wanting ugly men? Ya'll wild.