This is the coli brehs motto. But will u actually do this

[MeachTheMonster]

Precisely why waiting till your 25-30 to "settle down" is dumb as fukk.

By that time all the good ones are taken. Even if they have no kids there's something wrong with them otherwise they wouldn't be single with no kids.

 

[DreadBrown]

My BM has a 13 year old son but I’ve never met him so I dunno how much it counts

 

[wickedsm]

It's your right to request that as your life is greatly affected by this choice. Some people don't want to deal with that and there are millions of people without kids that can be viable dating prospects ​

@wickedsm

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You rang?

 

[Gully Bull]

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You rang?

Mentioned you because I remember sm in your username is step mom

 

[Shadow King]

Y'all must not go outside or live in some rural town with nothing going on. There are hundreds of thousands of 25+ and 30+ childless black women out there. Move to a DC/HOU/ATL. You will see them in droves. These chicks are wanting to finish school and get their careers poppin before settling down

If you have to move to America's "black mecca(s)" to find enough 25+ women without kids isn't that saying something?

 

[Shadow King]

Mentioned you because I remember sm in your username is step mom

Oh shyt

 

[the bossman]

If you have to move to America's "black mecca(s)" to find enough 25+ women without kids isn't that saying something?

you really don't. I'm just giving examples. Let's be real. Unless you are limiting yourself strictly to hood chicks, you can find 25+ childless black women with ease, just step outside. Where do you live?

 

[Voice of Reason]

I'm suprised this thread isn't longer.

 

[wickedsm]

Mentioned you because I remember sm in your username is step mom

Makes sense now. My H is a stepdad too.
Second marriage for both of us.

 

[semicko82]

Why don't coli posters want to get married? Marriage is one of the main points of our lives.

 

[semicko82]

Precisely why waiting till your 25-30 to "settle down" is dumb as fukk.

By that time all the good ones are taken. Even if they have no kids there's something wrong with them otherwise they wouldn't be single with no kids.

What age should you settle

 

[Shadow King]

you really don't. I'm just giving examples. Let's be real. Unless you are limiting yourself strictly to hood chicks, you can find 25+ childless black women with ease, just step outside. Where do you live?

Jersey. The 25-29 y/o bracket is about 50/50. 30+ you're dealing with single mothers.

 

[AlainLocke]

Why don't coli posters want to get married? Marriage is one of the main points of our lives.

The main point of your life is to bound to another person?

 

[MeachTheMonster]

What age should you settle

Not so much about settling but if you find somebody you click with it's better to start building with them early as opposed to thinking you are too young and wanting to avoid commitment.

 

[the bossman]

Jersey. The 25-29 y/o bracket is about 50/50. 30+ you're dealing with single mothers.

yeah bruh you might need to migrate to NYC or Philly. all my jersey partnas bounced after high school and never look back

Not so much about settling but if you find somebody you click with it's better to start building with them early as opposed to thinking you are too young and wanting to avoid commitment.

while there's a lot of 30+ single childless black women out there, I've seen they usually fall into two categories. they were either so focused on school/establishing career (you can def. work with this type) or they are just bat shyt crazy. I do remember other day on Tinder I matched this cute 34 y/o chick. her profile read 'I'm the girl your mom has been waiting for you to bring home". first thing she start talking about after I get her laughing a little bit is how she's such a great catch and said a lot of guys she meets just aren't ready for a woman like her. I shook my head and reminded myself why usually if you see a 34+ y/o chick who's attractive, yet single & childless, while wanting a relationship, then 8 times out of 10 she prolly got some major issues that no dude is signing up for.