This is why Fathers and Father Figures are so important in the Black Community

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He should be focused on the black boys who actually want to be there, stay out of trouble and do what theyre supposed to do. We baby YNs way to much.

Can we please stop telling our boys that sports and crime are their only options lol.
 
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Sadly we're moving far away from Male Authority and leadership in the Black Community. Black Women are in charge and are the ultimate authority.. :yeshrug:


The Men still take the brunt of the blame but that's just how things go in Matriarchy.



Are you implying that black men need black womens permission to be men?

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Not in my sector of black men. The problem you Babylonian black men have is that youve built your masculinity around black womens vaginas. What type of man do we have to be to get the p*ssy jumping. What type of man do we have to be to maintain a "roster" and succesfully con women into believing in us for the sake of fukking them.


Yall dont even realize you can be men indepenently from black women. Because without the vaginas,whats the point in being a man:respect:?


No matter what black women were doing or not doing. If we were really acting like men of respectability as a collective,black boys would be looking at the example we set. Black youth would have respect for your words and authority,because they'd have credibility. And believe it or not,black women would actually have to look at us and follow suit. This is according to universal law#TheChildOfMan:wow:
 

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One thing i will say is alot of these coaches do way too much. And having a white coach is practically a pipeline to c00ning. They will get disrespectful and just expect you to accept it.


"Oh im sorry,does your fukkING VAGINA hurt:damn:?"


Then turn around and try to use reverse psychology when you dont wanna play for they ass.

"Oh okay,you wanna leave because you cant handle the pressure. I knew you didnt have the toughness it took. Do you think Terrel Owens quit everytime he got mad son:damn:?"


They really hit you over the head with that "son" when your good or they need you due to injuries:mjlol:


I was raised its not okay to Latrell Sprewell men old enough to be your grandfather. Needless to say i ended my promising NFL trajectory in highschool:respect:
 

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Are you implying that black men need black womens permission to be men?

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Not in my sector of black men. The problem you Babylonian black men have is that youve built your masculinity around black womens vaginas. What type of man do we have to be to get the p*ssy jumping. What type of man do we have to be to maintain a "roster" and succesfully con women into believing in us for the sake of fukking them.


Yall dont even realize you can be men indepenently from black women. Because without the vaginas,whats the point in being a man:respect:?


No matter what black women were doing or not doing. If we were really acting like men of respectability as a collective,black boys would be looking at the example we set. Black youth would have respect for your words and authority,because they'd have credibility. And believe it or not,black women would actually have to look at us and follow suit. This is according to universal law#TheChildOfMan:wow:


Yes, many Black Women have been raised to not trust nor desire a Black Man to lead a household she's in. I think a lot of children have been raised this way also, were they're uncomfortable with male authority and leadership.
 

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Yes, many Black Women have been raised to not trust nor desire a Black Man to lead a household she's in. I think a lot of children have been raised this way also, were they're uncomfortable with male authority and leadership.


The majority of black women that are in relationships are dating or married to a black man. You can think what you want to think, but the reality is that good male leadership is respected within the community. And it is not always posted online. There are black men teaching boys combat sports,sports,fishing. Education and different trades. And yeah they are women that have been raised without that positive father figure. But those women can learn to appreiate a good male figure.


This is why I tell brehs to stop watching manosphere content because it pushes a false narrative, and it skews your perception of things.
 

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Are you implying that black men need black womens permission to be men?

wVDOf3.gif



Not in my sector of black men. The problem you Babylonian black men have is that youve built your masculinity around black womens vaginas. What type of man do we have to be to get the p*ssy jumping. What type of man do we have to be to maintain a "roster" and succesfully con women into believing in us for the sake of fukking them.


Yall dont even realize you can be men indepenently from black women. Because without the vaginas,whats the point in being a man:respect:?


No matter what black women were doing or not doing. If we were really acting like men of respectability as a collective,black boys would be looking at the example we set. Black youth would have respect for your words and authority,because they'd have credibility. And believe it or not,black women would actually have to look at us and follow suit. This is according to universal law#TheChildOfMan:wow:
To be clear this thread is about Fatherhood not Manhood. In our society you absolutely need the mothers buy in (or an overruling court mandate) to interact with your children. ...
 

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Are you implying that black men need black womens permission to be men?

wVDOf3.gif



Not in my sector of black men. The problem you Babylonian black men have is that youve built your masculinity around black womens vaginas. What type of man do we have to be to get the p*ssy jumping. What type of man do we have to be to maintain a "roster" and succesfully con women into believing in us for the sake of fukking them.


Yall dont even realize you can be men indepenently from black women. Because without the vaginas,whats the point in being a man:respect:?


No matter what black women were doing or not doing. If we were really acting like men of respectability as a collective,black boys would be looking at the example we set. Black youth would have respect for your words and authority,because they'd have credibility. And believe it or not,black women would actually have to look at us and follow suit. This is according to universal law#TheChildOfMan:wow:
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And this is why we have so many brothers behind bars and underground. Prioritizing and following the whims of immature, insecure, damaged women is the fast track to misery AND a fukked up community.

The irony of course being that being pressed for p*ssy will get you less while not being pressed for it and standing on your principles is actually gonna get you more. Which is why the game that these alphamanosphere types push involves pretending not to be pressed. A man who knows and respects himself and is about his business regardless of what is poppin is a superhero.
 

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To be clear this thread is about Fatherhood not Manhood. In our society you absolutely need the mothers buy in (or an overruling court mandate) to interact with your children. ...
How can a thoroughly vetted wife keep a man from interacting with their kids that live with them?

You get blinded by the ass and nut up in a nut ass broad, that's on you. Thats exactly what he is talking about. If you handle your business as a man and have willpower and self respect and make good choices you dont end up in such situations. Real chicks want their kids to have a strong bond with their dad, even if she don't fukk with him. And no there is nothing (legal or moral) that woman can do to keep a man that is doing what he is supposed to do from his kids.
 

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If you handle your business as a man and have willpower and self respect and make good choices you dont end up in such situations.
Seeing as how most of our boys grow up without a father...

the chances of them growing up to be men with "willpower and self respect" is lower than it should be...

these are the boys/men we need to be talking about helping...

the dynamics of their reality should be the focal point...

talking about the dynamics of men who already had proper guidance isn't really solving anything
 

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Seeing as how most of our boys grow up without a father...

the chances of them growing up to be men with "willpower and self respect" is lower than it should be...

these are the boys/men we need to be talking about helping...

the dynamics of their reality should be the focal point...

talking about the dynamics of men who already had proper guidance isn't really solving anything
I get your point and agree to a point. But the dynamics of their reality is also the problem that we are trying to address. You cant fix something by leaving it be. You cant correct something without understanding what correct is.

So yeah, you gotta meet them where they are at but you also have to have expectations where they could be. Even as a man with guidance that can be uncomfortable but its necessary.
 
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