Elle Driver
Veteran
Even though I have her on ignore she should be banned.
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I just thought about this.
She thinks so little of herself as a black woman.... that she believes black men are hell bent on hurting her in the most vicious ways possible..... that she is unworthy of the love of a black man....
She doesn't say this outright, but the subtext is there.
She thinks so little of herself as a black woman.... that she believes black men are hell bent on hurting her in the most vicious ways possible..... that she is unworthy of the love of a black man....
She doesn't say this outright, but the subtext is there.
You might have something there. You believe she hates being a black woman?
This too.
I tried to rep your other post but couldnt.
Damn limited rep supply here
*shakes fists in air*
Nah the black men she want ain't checking for her and saying illogical dumb shyt is her only way to cope
I look at it like this: if it is true that she is a woman with a dark complexion and is over the 200 pounds mark, it wouldn't be a stretch to say that she has been this way most of her life- dark and heavy (and I don't mean that in a negative way). Who knows what the people who were in her life from the beginning did to her self esteem, her perception of things. She probably heard she was unworthy and unlovable from the jump, who knows what type of men her mother dealt with if she was unmarried, who knows what type of woman her mother was; saw the black men she liked or loved do things that indirectly reinforced that (chasing after slimmer women and/or ones with lighter complexions) and it all snowballed into the person she comes off as online. It's all a defense mechanism to mask whatever pain and hurt she may have experienced.
I appreciate it regardless.
I mentioned that above. So if those types of men don't want her and she attracts men she doesn't want, what should she do to change that? If she is heavy and that's an issue, there's plans for that, so many free and paid resources. If her skin color is an issue, nothing you can do but embrace it and liven yourself up. If she has a shytty personality, then she needs to reevaluate herself and seek therapy if it's that bad.
@LadySimone come let the coli help you with your pain. Tell uncle yagirlsideman your life story and why you feel the way you do today.
She seems hesitant to accept her own faults and self improve.I look at it like this: if it is true that she is a woman with a dark complexion and is over the 200 pounds mark, it wouldn't be a stretch to say that she has been this way most of her life- dark and heavy (and I don't mean that in a negative way). Who knows what the people who were in her life from the beginning did to her self esteem, her perception of things. She probably heard she was unworthy and unlovable from the jump, who knows what type of men her mother dealt with if she was unmarried, who knows what type of woman her mother was; saw the black men she liked or loved do things that indirectly reinforced that (chasing after slimmer women and/or ones with lighter complexions) and it all snowballed into the person she comes off as online. It's all a defense mechanism to mask whatever pain and hurt she may have experienced.
I appreciate it regardless.
I mentioned that above. So if those types of men don't want her and she attracts men she doesn't want, what should she do to change that? If she is heavy and that's an issue, there's plans for that, so many free and paid resources. If her skin color is an issue, nothing you can do but embrace it and liven yourself up. If she has a shytty personality, then she needs to reevaluate herself and seek therapy if it's that bad.
FukyourFort
All Star
Got her on ignore 
Definitely but we know how mods are with trolls.
can yall stop sayin mods, only admins can banDefinitely but we know how mods are with trolls.
