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I know her type. It's bad enough she's from my country assuming she's a real person and reinforcing bullshyt stereotypes of us that I've seen other posters angrily spout off in that thread about black couples.

We all got problems and issues to overcome, but I start to lose sympathy for people who just want to go around and force others to be just as miserable and unhappy as they are. Trust me I've probably got more of a reason to be bitter about life than most on this forum, but I'm not leaving a trail of darkness (no pun intended) in my path and I recognise something called self responsibility. If you've been offered help and refuse to take it, then that's on you.

We're just assuming she's an overweight dark skinned chick with problems. It could just be that she's a trolling idiot who just loves to piss everybody off.
 
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DaRealness said:
I know her type. It's bad enough she's from my country assuming she's a real person and reinforcing bullshyt stereotypes of us that I've seen other posters angrily spout off in that thread about black couples.

We all got problems and issues to overcome, but I start to lose sympathy for people who just want to go around and force others to be just as miserable and unhappy as they are. Trust me I've probably got more of a reason to be bitter about life than most on this forum, but I'm not leaving a trail of darkness (no pun intended) in my path and I recognise something called self responsibility. If you've been offered help and refuse to take it, then that's on you.

We're just assuming she's an overweight dark skinned chick with problems. It could just be that she's a trolling idiot who just loves to piss everybody off.
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I never assumed she was overweight......but she talked about the big elephant in the room that no one wants to acknowledge
 
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I look at it like this: if it is true that she is a woman with a dark complexion and is over the 200 pounds mark, it wouldn't be a stretch to say that she has been this way most of her life- dark and heavy (and I don't mean that in a negative way). Who knows what the people who were in her life from the beginning did to her self esteem, her perception of things. She probably heard she was unworthy and unlovable from the jump, who knows what type of men her mother dealt with if she was unmarried, who knows what type of woman her mother was; saw the black men she liked or loved do things that indirectly reinforced that (chasing after slimmer women and/or ones with lighter complexions) and it all snowballed into the person she comes off as online. It's all a defense mechanism to mask whatever pain and hurt she may have experienced.


I appreciate it regardless. :hug:


I mentioned that above. So if those types of men don't want her and she attracts men she doesn't want, what should she do to change that? If she is heavy and that's an issue, there's plans for that, so many free and paid resources. If her skin color is an issue, nothing you can do but embrace it and liven yourself up. If she has a shytty personality, then she needs to reevaluate herself and seek therapy if it's that bad.
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You're giving her the benefit of the doubt but she's a troll. She does shyt for kicks. She don't care.
 
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