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[johntheblackjew]

Couldn't maintain a normal family structure with a man in the house?

Honest convo.


I was thinking about this the other day, the older I get the more I'm exposed to women and their habits....sure I still love my mom...shes a lovely mother, I adore her but she absolutely has a way of emasculating a man. She's very head strong and the idea of a man being a man in the home seems to be the antithesis of her existence. Crazy thing is I see the exact qualities in my child's mom. Its to the point where I feel like wverytime I get off work I have to mentally psych myself for the new battle that is the "power struggle" of my home. It is exhausting.
For a long time I was very mad at my dad for leaving but the older I get the more I accept how it literally feels like the only choice you have left.

 

[sosayeth]

Good luck, brother.

My only advice is start stacking your money and finding a good lawyer who will represent you, should you need to fight a custody battle.

 

[Macallik86]

Couldn't maintain a normal family structure with a man in the house?

Honest convo.


I was thinking about this the other day, the older I get the more I'm exposed to women and their habits....sure I still love my mom...shes a lovely mother, I adore her but she absolutely has a way of emasculating a man. She's very head strong and the idea of a man being a man in the home seems to be the antithesis of her existence. Crazy thing is I see the exact qualities in my child's mom. Its to the point where I feel like wverytime I get off work I have to mentally psych myself for the new battle that is the "power struggle" of my home. It is exhausting.
For a long time I was very mad at my dad for leaving but the older I get the more I accept how it literally feels like the only choice you have left.

You are insinuating that women are to blame for a normal family structure while you went out and got a woman pregnant that was as toxic as your mother which means that the chances that the child has a healthy environment is close to zero.

Perhaps you should reflect on that instead of attempting to rationalizing becoming a deadbeat like your own dad and continuing the cycle.

I was raised by a single mother and I don't jump to these weird conclusions that don't acknowledge my own doing in the problems I encounter in life. Tbh, you sound like the 'stereotypical' woman you are talking about by placing all of the blame on the opposite sex.

Seek therapy

 

[-deleted-]

You are insinuating that women are to blame for a normal family structure while you went out and got a woman pregnant that was as toxic as your mother which means that the chances that the child has a healthy environment is close to zero.

Perhaps you should reflect on that instead of attempting to rationalizing becoming a deadbeat like your own dad and continuing the cycle.

I was raised by a single mother and I don't jump to these weird conclusions that don't acknowledge my own doing in the problems I encounter in life. Tbh, you sound like the 'stereotypical' woman you are talking about by placing all of the blame on the opposite sex.

Seek therapy

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[J.E.T.S]

Yeah. My mom is a scorpio.

she hell my boy.

At 17, my momma made me feel like I
overstayed my welcome... so I packed up my shyt and went for seldom

 

[Womb Raider]

Sounds like another brother woke up



I would never be comfortable having a child in this climate. Women can kill the family structure and never get blamed for it, shyt look a couple posts above me

 

[duncanthetall]

OP you outta pocket for this one

 

[johntheblackjew]

You are insinuating that women are to blame for a normal family structure while you went out and got a woman pregnant that was as toxic as your mother which means that the chances that the child has a healthy environment is close to zero.

Perhaps you should reflect on that instead of attempting to rationalizing becoming a deadbeat like your own dad and continuing the cycle.

I was raised by a single mother and I don't jump to these weird conclusions that don't acknowledge my own doing in the problems I encounter in life. Tbh, you sound like the 'stereotypical' woman you are talking about by placing all of the blame on the opposite sex.

Seek therapy

Fair enough.

It doesn't apply to you. Didn't expect it to apply to everyone.

 

[-deleted-]

Couldn't maintain a normal family structure with a man in the house?

Honest convo.


I was thinking about this the other day, the older I get the more I'm exposed to women and their habits....sure I still love my mom...shes a lovely mother, I adore her but she absolutely has a way of emasculating a man. She's very head strong and the idea of a man being a man in the home seems to be the antithesis of her existence. Crazy thing is I see the exact qualities in my child's mom. Its to the point where I feel like wverytime I get off work I have to mentally psych myself for the new battle that is the "power struggle" of my home. It is exhausting.
For a long time I was very mad at my dad for leaving but the older I get the more I accept how it literally feels like the only choice you have left.

Your mom is your mom and she’s also a person with faults. You’re bound to recognize these faults. I’ve shared similar sentiments. It is based on observations.

 

[2 one 3]

Moms is never wrong...


Moms never says sorry...

It really wasn’t until I became a man that I finally understood all the shyt my dad had to go through.

 

[B86]

My household was pretty stable and my dad was there until I was about 13, but now that I'm older I know EXACTLY why he left my mom. Not that he wasn't at fault too but she took shyt too far in the end.

My best friend and I were just talking about how people get older and still don't see their parents for who they really are. Like, you think most of these women out here are/were hoes but ya mom wasn't? Yeah, ok...

 

[Sterling Archer]

You are insinuating that women are to blame for a normal family structure while you went out and got a woman pregnant that was as toxic as your mother which means that the chances that the child has a healthy environment is close to zero.

Perhaps you should reflect on that instead of attempting to rationalizing becoming a deadbeat like your own dad and continuing the cycle.

I was raised by a single mother and I don't jump to these weird conclusions that don't acknowledge my own doing in the problems I encounter in life. Tbh, you sound like the 'stereotypical' woman you are talking about by placing all of the blame on the opposite sex.

Seek therapy

You trying too hard. He speaking specifically about his mother, specifically about his wife and to specific people who have came to similar conclusions about their mother. Not women. Not mothers. But your own. Stop being a fakkit for daps.

 

[Stir Fry]

My dad was a bum

 

[Mindfield333]

I wasn’t raised by a single mother but my mom makes things hard for us on a personal level. Cold, not very personable, she’d attack you with anything you happened to share with her. My dad is a strong man for holding it down and staying around tbh. For years I’ve wanted her to go to therapy but she declines.

 

[NatiboyB]

I can’t say anything about my mom she passed away while with my father...But I can say this my pops ex-wife I can definitely see why he was with her but he fukked that up.

I used to see how foul mouthed and loud and downright unpleasant some of my friends mothers were I can definitely see why their dads left.

I left my BM (broke up) because she’s a great mother and good woman. But she is the most petty creature walking this earth. I know my son will eventually ask me why me and his mom aren’t together....But she’s downright mean at times.
She’s the type to take take one battery out of every remote in the house when they need 2 to work.