Those that grew up in a single mother household, when you got older, did you realize why Ur moM

[ThrobbingHood]

This thread is fascinating.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Pops said the tipping point happened when he accidentally kicked the bed frame getting up for work and thought he broke his foot. Rather than get up to see if he was ok mom was like “keep it down I’m tryna sleep...”

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[FaTaL]

My parents split when I was 24... shyt still sucked because that was all I knew. In my opinion (and even my dad will admit to this) they were equally responsible for the divorce.

My mom started having health issues and rather than do what the doctors recommended she wanted holistic treatment. Anyway she never went back to work and didn’t do much around the house anymore. My dad tried to be supportive but after awhile he just cracked. nikka was working 2 jobs, doing everything around the house and more only to come home to no dinner and apparently they hadn’t fukked in 3 years...

Pops said the tipping point happened when he accidentally kicked the bed frame getting up for work and thought he broke his foot. Rather than get up to see if he was ok mom was like “keep it down I’m tryna sleep...”

My mom low key took my dad caring for her for granted and he had enough of that shyt. She of course had enough of my dad not being emotionally supportive anymore. Pops tried to be amicable about the divorce but my mom didn’t want him to leave and tried to take his ass to the fukking cleaners. Still love her but I’ve looked at her differently ever since.

If you ask my dad he’ll say he wishes things worked out differently, if you ask my mom she’ll say the nikka tried to leave her for dead, has taken no responsibility for him leaving and is still bitter 6 years later.

I forgot to mention I still lived with them the whole time and my dumbass didn’t notice none of these issues until my dad all of a sudden rolled out one night.

U knew, u just didn’t want to deal with it.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

There you nikkas going to defend your mother when there was no need homie ask a legit question and he had people with similar stories confirming it. And here you are with fukking cape on.


another bytch nikka

@Bmezy is a beyonce Stan. Any male nikka proudly proclaiming such title should renounce their heterosexuality henceforth.

 

[Cape Town JHB]

She didn’t teach me to be single, she has always touted marriage as something she wants for me. On the other hand she has always been honest that everything isn’t roses. The only thing she talked me and friends out of his feeling forced to have children. She has told me from a young age children aren’t everything and don’t make you a woman. She loves me to pieces and is so proud of me but she has always said I was enough for her and she had no time for men she was dating or relatives who told her she needed more children.

Sounds like a passive aggressive way of telling you that you're the one that slowed down her life and she didn't want you.

But hey you know her better than me

 

[Bmezy]

@Bmezy is a beyonce Stan. Any male nikka proudly proclaiming such title should renounce their heterosexuality henceforth.

This thread nearly a month old.. I dnt even remember what this shyt about or my posts in here for that matter lol
Was this nikka even referring to me? I don’t have any quotes from him.
How u figure I’m a Beyonce stan?
I know u, breh?

 

[Tryna Makit]

I realized this at about 16 when i left lol

She's a tough Brownsville woman who never lost that toughness
But shes been
A cop
A soldier
A corrections officer

So she dated guys like that...she raised guys like that.
And was always a member of the "I dont need a man" clan
But that toughness drove both her sons away at a young age.
She just aint ladylike......shes an old battleaxe and them old nikkas aint tryna hear that..thats why she still single now.

 

[MJ Truth]

Couldn't maintain a normal family structure with a man in the house?

Honest convo.


I was thinking about this the other day, the older I get the more I'm exposed to women and their habits....sure I still love my mom...shes a lovely mother, I adore her but she absolutely has a way of emasculating a man. She's very head strong and the idea of a man being a man in the home seems to be the antithesis of her existence. Crazy thing is I see the exact qualities in my child's mom. Its to the point where I feel like wverytime I get off work I have to mentally psych myself for the new battle that is the "power struggle" of my home. It is exhausting.
For a long time I was very mad at my dad for leaving but the older I get the more I accept how it literally feels like the only choice you have left.

You should have seen those qualities before you impregnated her. Take accountability youngster.

 

[johntheblackjew]

You should have seen those qualities before you impregnated her. Take accountability youngster.

Listen...ultimately, thst is the case. But I feel like something came out once the kid came that she never showed or perhaps I was oblivious to, but honestly, I don't think was there.

Ones women feel like they have you, whether it's by marriage or kids, they seem to drop all pretense...atleast that's been my observation.

 

[Estarossa]

U knew, u just didn’t want to deal with it.

I legitimately didn’t notice... I’m a late bloomer when it comes to women and relationships in general so while there were prolly signs I just didn’t pick up on them. My mom is real religious so my parents never talked to me about relationships or anything.

When I got home from work or college I literally sat in my room all day and played video games. There were never arguments or anything... at least not around me.

When shyt hit the fan believe me I did not want to be there. My mom turned into a whole different person.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Relationships are hard and they are not for everybody.

Our parents had flaws. Hard to accept but they did and do.

Forgive them. You share their blood, anyway. Yeah it sucks blah blah...forgive them. You'll feel better.

 

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[richaveli83]

 

[KingFreeman]

Lesson of the thread: Stop nutting in trash women

Don't matter how fat her ass is, how bouncy the titties are, or how light her skin is

Wrap it up or pull out and keep it movin'. You might have to level up your life ot move to a different area, but there is much better quality out there.

 

[FaTaL]

Couldn't maintain a normal family structure with a man in the house?

Honest convo.


I was thinking about this the other day, the older I get the more I'm exposed to women and their habits....sure I still love my mom...shes a lovely mother, I adore her but she absolutely has a way of emasculating a man. She's very head strong and the idea of a man being a man in the home seems to be the antithesis of her existence. Crazy thing is I see the exact qualities in my child's mom. Its to the point where I feel like wverytime I get off work I have to mentally psych myself for the new battle that is the "power struggle" of my home. It is exhausting.
For a long time I was very mad at my dad for leaving but the older I get the more I accept how it literally feels like the only choice you have left.

Are u divorced yet? U seem massively unhappy