I once dated a single mom for a year whose baby daddy was locked up. He got 11 years. I remember her posting a pic of him on IG saying “Happy Birthday! We love and appreciate you!”. I left lol.
Got involved with a single mom of 3. Two baby daddies. Ignored red flags. Beautiful but very immature for her to be 30+ years old. Reposting Justinlaboy memes and showing cheeks online. She would go silent or storm off when she was mad lol. Piss poor communication and emotionally unavailable. She dealt with rappers/sketchy nikkas and her mentality was that if she went half with a man she wasn’t submitting.
Her daughters were just like her. Early teens listening to Nardo Wick and Pooh shiesty. Always in some mess with other kids and bragged about fighting. “nikkas ain’t shyt” mentality probably got that from listening to rap. Always on Social Media and taking tik tok videos. Reciting rap lyrics. It was their life.
her son was like 6 or 7 had anger issues and was super messy (left trash and food everywhere) and hard headed. He would be on YouTube listening to King Von and Lil Durk. Knew every word. I told her that he shouldn’t be listening to that shyt. Boy, why did I do that?…
Needless to say I’ll be dealing with younger chicks over 21 with no kids. I rather deal with their growing pains than that shyt again.