Those who are in a relationship with a single mom..

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Meh. I try not get involved except for the usual hi bye type greetings. Cuz when things end with their mom and she’s in shambles, I don’t want to have to deal with the arduous task of disentangling emotional connections with them. Kids or no kids, I get with a girl specifically to have a good time. Mixing obligations into that arrangement breeds nothing but resentment.
 

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I don't. I'm not going to see the kids, nor am I taking care of them.

As mentioned before, you pump and dump single moms, you don't keep them around unless they know the deal. She can call you "boyfriend" all she wants, just make sure to not get involved with her children.
 

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You shouldn’t have any involvement with the kid unless you’re engaged to the mom and living together (i.e. starting a family).

I remember a story about a single mom bringing a dude she just started fukkin to her child’s birthday party. Ofc the child’s father was there, got mad and beat the dude’s ass :francis:
 

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You shouldn’t have any involvement with the kid unless you’re engaged to the mom and living together (i.e. starting a family).

I remember a story about a single mom bringing a dude she just started fukkin to her child’s birthday party. Ofc the child’s father was there, got mad and beat the dude’s ass :francis:

 

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Meh. I try not get involved except for the usual hi bye type greetings. Cuz when things end with their mom and she’s in shambles, I don’t want to have to deal with the arduous task of disentangling emotional connections with them. Kids or no kids, I get with a girl specifically to have a good time. Mixing obligations into that arrangement breeds nothing but resentment.
But how long can you hold off if she wants you to meet the kids
 

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Well.. I actually was expecting to have a family with my ex

Her son and I didn’t engage much because he lived with his dad. But we had a lot of things in common. He seemed like a smart kid, reminded me of my nephew, and wanted to get into my career field.

We were a lot alike honestly. He was quiet and to himself when I did see him. Defended him a few times when his mom would nag at him about dumb shyt (like he’s playing videogames on his bday in the middle of a pandemic… wtf did she want him to do?).


Now that it’s over with his mom, I would help him when it came to him learning what I do but that would be about it. I have zero interactions with his mother now so I’ll have zero interactions with anyone she’s close to
 
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