Those who are in a relationship with a single mom..

Learned the hard way them lil nikkas will never see you as nothing more than the nikka fukking they moms. Kids aren't stupid, they'll never love you unless you literally raised them AND they have little to zero contact with the biological dad no matter WHAT you do for them. Granted my relationship lasted all of 6 months so I dodged a bullet, but never again. In fact one woman in my rotation right now has a child that I haven't met and I'm about to bush her solely because of that, and she is arguably the baddest one or close to it I'm engaging right now. fukk that mess I only got time for my bloodline or at best a brand new baby/toddler whose pappy is dead/locked up forever

 

stay away from women with kids breh

 

I cut down on my grocery bills by taking them little nikkas snacks and juice boxes every once in awhile.

 

It still amazes me that brehs with no children deal with single mothers. It’s one thing if you have children of your own and you “blend” your family. But I refuse to believe the pickings are that slim for brehs out there. Even the most broke/ugly Breh should be able to do better.

 

Minimal. Unless you're looking to marry the woman don't get attached to the children.

TBH different ages also affect how you treat them. But it's too long to go into.

My no.1 piece of advice is never put yourself in a situation where the child can lie about your interactions.

 

A lot of single mom threads lately.

 

2022 the year of the "no single mom" movement

 

so the year is 2014...

had no intention of raising kids that weren't mine...

all of a sudden i grew close with the oldest one and never looked back

married my wife and we've been a tight family since. Do i recommend you get a girl with kids?? hell nah! but if that sh*t happens organically and you grow close to the kids and plan on marrying the girl, then life can be funny in some ways and life rewards you. The kid got a hell of an arm and is a pretty solid QB, so that also helped to seal the deal as well , but on the real, i enjoy going to his games and rooting for him. Met him at age 7, he's now 15.

 

Yall say don't date single mothers but what would you say a 35 year old broke boy should do? They can't get a younger chick. All that's left are single mothers for them.

 

My girl has two teenage daughters and I'm pretty involved in their life. I give them guidance and tell them when they are willdin out but I don't discipline them nor do I yell. Their father is in their life and imo it isn't my place to be that person even though they view me as a father figure.

But if they need something I got them

 

My ex had an 8 year boy whose dad wouldn’t let him see her and she had a newborn from the same dude who thought the kid was mine so he never claimed her.

Drama! And it was a red flag that these nikkas had kids so far apart together. The newborn and her stayed with me for a few months til they got their own place close by but…

Her baby was a screamin demon She would get annoyed and so would I. I slowly bushed her and she ended up moving in with her mom and moving out of ATL.

 

My girl has an 8 year old. I do minimal for or with him. We have a decent relationship my girl is just smart enough not to ask me to replace his father. I'm 37 going on 38. Everyone has a kid in my age group. I wouldn't recommend getting with a single mom if you don't have kids of your own, but if the shyt happens organically and she's not putting that on you to be a father, so be it.

I'd be hard-pressed to do it again because I think it would be too hard to have as smooth of a situation that I have now.

 

thats just not true and I’m 31 and still get 19 20 year olds hollering at jobs I go to

if they like u
They gon speak up or choose up

 

wish I found this post earlier.woulda just quoted u for this nonsense depressed babble