Ok.I didn't say you specifically were but since you felt the need to quote me![]()
Ok.I didn't say you specifically were but since you felt the need to quote me![]()
Plenty of women getting screwed over by men who they deemed unsuperficial.
My philosophy is this I am hard working woman/I have drive I am willing to provide support and I expect the same in return. I am at the age where I can get with a man that is still building but he has to have his ducks in a row.
Many dudes talk the talk amd that's that. It is never smart for a woman to carry a man financially/emotionally/etc...some will be driven to better. Many will use and discard you.
. Telling you that you should have known better
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Plenty of women getting screwed over by men who they deemed unsuperficial.
My philosophy is this I am hard working woman/I have drive I am willing to provide support and I expect the same in return. I am at the age where I can get with a man that is still building but he has to have his ducks in a row.
Many dudes talk the talk amd that's that. It is never smart for a woman to carry a man financially/emotionally/etc...some will be driven to better. Many will use and discard you.
I don't watch tv. And dislike reality show. Most oof mt celeb info is through online forums. all that I talj about are based in real Liife with people I know and have interaction.Women need to be realistic and stop watching entertainment that has these super rich men acting like jackasses.
yeah, you have to respect the person you're with and people trying hard is respectableI'm not saying that the dude I date has to be making six figures, but I have to see that he wants more out of life and is working towards it.


Why would you do this?In any event not sure why you glorifying this. Do you want your daughters to be dating dude she met at the bus stop, especially as an adult? They were friends for a while. She probably saw his star rising and hitched on. Why not? Dudes always want women to expect the least. Practice what you preach then. Hook up with that fat chick at the bus stop because one day that ugly duckling will turn into a swan.![]()


I don't think anyone is disputing this at all actually. Its really about people in this thread focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive. The only criticism that's legitimate is related to the danger of doing something like this. I said before that no one is expecting black women to just go pick up random people off the street, but people conveniently missed that...I even addressed the fact that outside of the small minority of dudes that will use this as a means of bw bashing ..this is a feel-good story...yet we have claims of this only being praised because Tia is biracial...or its because she settled like "black women"...or how it really doesn't matter because it doesn't happen like this in real life, (which is the whole point of praising it) and all of these crazy hypothetical situations people in here made to distract from the positive of the story, ("if he dumped her yall would be dapping itI don't know why none of them are getting this. What she did was dangerous as fukk. Most women, even men, would not do this. This has nothing to do with money for me, it's about picking up some random dude. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad it worked out beautifully, but in all honesty Tia got lucky. Y'all dudes need to keep it real.
" )I don't like black men using these stories to reinforce the undesirability of black women.I don't think anyone is disputing this at all actually. Its really about people in this thread focusing on the negative and ignoring the positive. The only criticism that's legitimate is related to the danger of doing something like this. I said before that no one is expecting black women to just go pick up random people off the street, but people conveniently missed that...I even addressed the fact that outside of the small infirmity of dudes that will use this as a means of bw bashing ..this is a feel-good story...yet we have claims of this only being praised because Tia is biracial...or its because she settled like "black women"...or how it really doesn't matter because it doesn't happen like this in real life, (which is the whole point of praising it) and all of these crazy hypothetical situations people in here made to distract from the positive of the story, ("if he dumped her yall would be dapping it" )
I don't like black men using these stories to reinforce the undesirability of black women.
The sad part is that this thread probably hasn't even blown up yet.Yall are some negative motherfukkers man. It boggles my mind how yall could take a feel good story and still drag every negative connotation out of it just for the sake of arguing. And it's always the same people in every fukking thread. Cotdamn! Some of you nikkas need therapy!
that hypergamy is programmed breh
Its like you brehettes can't read.
If a guy doesn't make a certain amount its into the trash he goes regardless of character.
Your undeveloped minds would rather treyvathian making 110k a year who has a Rolodex of women and has no respect or deems you not valuable than a quality dude with good moralz and character traits making 30k building towards the future.
salute to Tia i've always liked herRace shouldn't matter....we're all AmericanOutside of the nikkas that will use this to shyt on all black women as usual, what's wrong with appreciating and celebrating something like this?
