Tichina Arnold "What can black women do to stop the aiding in the emasculation of black men"

[Henri Christophe]

Black men left behind black children

Everything I got and everything I know is due to the achievements of my father and grandfather.

This is why this anti-black male rhetoric triggers me to my core.

Idk about all these alcoholic abusive deadbeat black men that women on twitter are always complaining about.

 

[Thingsfallapart]

It is enough because it doesn't feed into the foolishness that is destroying the community. I mean, we could feed all the men acting up into a literal meat grinder, but the same would have be done for the women acting up in which case, you would just end up with genocide or something far worse. That's not practical. As for actual tenable things that can be realistically done so far, being normal and actually cracking down on anti-black behavior. I will say this, being angry at men, blaming men, attacking me, fussing at men has been tried for literal decades and all we have to show for it is a backwards slide in regards to black collectivness and a rise in black male suicide. That tactic, the one we see on display in Arnold's timeline now, is not working at all and will literally be the death of the black community, at least in America.

What do you think should be done?

So if “being a normal person” is enough for black
Men and there is nothing else they need to take accountability for, despite being the ones doing all the killing. What accountability is there for women to take? Are there not women “being normal people”?

 

[tuckgod]

When a sister reaches out for healing dialogue, what a real man does is meet her halfway, not bring up the past or generalizations like a broad.

The other broads are doing what broads
do.

Their thoughts should be of absolutely no concern to you if they don’t have your last name, and entertaining their words in any way will absolutely have an effect on your personal interactions with women.

Do you think that’s a wise use of your time and energy?

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

How do you know this?

When Farrakhan got erased from Instagram Tichina Arnold went under Rizza Islam Instagram post talked about donating money to the NOI and how it was unfair they did that to the minister

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

thank you.

Now that we have confirmed that you are not a real black man - please stop quoting me.

Can't you see its black men in here talking?

These topics are none of your business, my boy.

fukk up bytch ass nikka, Black women hate you so much, you’ve convinced yourself that they can’t love a Black man that isn’t in their family.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

When Farrakhan got erased from Instagram Tichina Arnold went under Rizza Islam Instagram post talked about donating money to the NOI and how it was unfair they did that to the minister

Do you have a screenshot? Or can you direct me to the post where I can find it?

 

[Thingsfallapart]

Everything I got and everything I know is due to the achievements of my father and grandfather.

This is why this anti-black male rhetoric triggers me to my core.

Idk about all these alcoholic abusive deadbeat black men that women on twitter are always complaining about.

But we’re talking about the collective, not you specifically.

And please no one post that self reported study on how good of fathers the men swore they were.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Do you have a screenshot? Or can you direct me to the post where I can find it?

You’re going to have to find Rizza Islam page fam. Sorry king

 

[High Art]

So if “being a normal person” is enough for black
Men and there is nothing else they need to take accountability for, despite being the ones doing all the killing. What accountability is there for women to take? Are there not women “being normal people”?

To be fair, some men should take accountability for turning a blind eye to anti-black behavior in our community. That's the thing. We should be mad at some of their inaction and enabling of anti-black behavior. Like the criminals, they should be held accountable. My issue with black men being blamed for this and that is that being mad at black men for not being full of toxic masculinity, then attacking them for having said masculinity or standing up for men as a whole is stupid. As for women, you're seeing it on display. Those women will not be held accountable for perpetuating anti-black behavior. Men could hold them accountable, but then said men would be attacked and derided for even caring, let alone doing something.

In the end, men and women should both be working to punish people who perpetuate anti-black behavior, both online or otherwise. It should be encouraged in women so they too can have a voice in all of this and counter such toxic rhetoric.

 

[1LurkerChick9]

I don’t (nor have I ever) cuss the men I date out so I feel like this doesn’t apply to me

I don’t emasculate anyone

Do black men even feel emasculated like that tho?(No I haven’t read this 12 page thread)

If i were a BM, I’d find this question emasculating tho lol

 

[Henri Christophe]

Black women hate you

This is why my ancestors killed mulattos too - along with the whites

Y'all come around black men and start talking stupid.

 

[Ahadi]

Thread/

 

[DaHNIC82]

The responses prove that nobody wants accountability for shyt and there is no community

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Twitter was the wrong place to post that.

Most people there hold deep seated resentment for men. Their mothers chose men who were emotionally unavailable, didn't want to be fathers or had otherwise awful taste in men. They then contribute to the cycle because the model of manhood the absorbed growing up was men who could never commit or do right by their mom. They grew up to be adults who choose those men while complaining about them. They don't know how to relate to people other than through complaints so they seek out drama so they have something to talk about.

Its plenty of good men out there who care and will do whatever it takes to make their partner and their kids happy, but these kind of women don't want those men because they're boring. They're short, they make too much money and it makes them feel insecure or hes too good looking and it makes them insecure or hes fat or hes too thin or he doesn't dress the way she wants. Any reason they can think of, they'll cling onto it and exaggerate it.

Then if that dude complains that he keeps getting rejected or can't find a woman who is serious and wants to have a real relationship, hes called entitled, or a woman hater and then made fun of or insulted by these women. Literally insulting the same thing they say they want.

 

[The Fade]

To be fair, some men should take accountability for turning a blind eye to anti-black behavior in our community. That's the thing. We should be mad at some of their inaction and enabling of anti-black behavior. Like the criminals, they should be held accountable. My issue with black men being blamed for this and that is that being mad at black men for not being full of toxic masculinity, then attacking them for having said masculinity or standing up for men as a whole is stupid. As for women, you're seeing it on display. Those women will not be held accountable for perpetuating anti-black behavior. Men could hold them accountable, but then said men would be attacked and derided for even caring, let alone doing something.

In the end, men and women should both be working to punish people who perpetuate anti-black behavior, both online or otherwise. It should be encouraged in women so they too can have a voice in all of this and counter such toxic rhetoric.

The whole Black Women being their own race is thing is because those type of black women wanna say c00n shyt without being called a c00n