Really, any man should only view women as a means as an end to building up his dynasty, making sure he has healthy, attractive, intelligent children, and that his household is as stable and successful as possible.
Men have to understand that a woman may step out regardless of how much or little he provides, and get this modern western ideal of women out of his head. To fully understand women, you can be affectionate and show love to them because thats oxytocin and biology, but you can't love them entirely.
If you go for marriage, try to protect your assets as much as you can (prenup), and properly vet any woman you aim to build a dynasty with. Her race, socioeconomic level, relationship with family, career, etc. and no matter what she looks like, if you see red flags, heed them.
The woman should be more into you than you are her, and have everything to lose if things go south. That's where her being from a traditional family comes into play. She should be willing to put her own money, time, etc. Into building up your dynasty. She should be the one pushing for marriage.
Understand that women want you for a reason, and make sure you maintain a masculine frame at all times. She should never be all the way comfortable with you.
But most importantly, just live your life and don't be a simp. If you are in a good career, making bread and enjoying your hobbies, you are winning regardless. Women should be an addition to that, and kids should be viewed as your future.