TMZ: Ciara didn't let Future see his son on Christmas

[wickedsm]

But you also have to realize that heading to a court is the recommended last course of action. That's why I said a divorce is different. You have to go through the courts to initiate and complete a divorce. With an OOW child, it's always recommended that both parents set up and agree to a co-parenting schedule, go through a legal mediator to settle any disputes, then take their grievances to court if it can't be settled.

You can go to court straight away with an OOW, but you're just going to get killed with fees that don't go towards raising the child. On top of that, if there is no pattern or dispute, or history of co-parenting, what is the judge going to base their decision off of - state law, which is automatically skewed toward the mother in most cases, and the child's age. At least if you attempt to co-parent, the judge may (huge may) rule in your favor if she has exhibited a history of broken promises and careless finances.

There's no reason at all to not get things legalized. Even if all you do as a couple is put in writing each of you what you're going to do and go to court and have a judge sign off. If the couple is in agreement there isn't any drama at all to court.
In my experience the only fees you get hit with for cs is if you're not paying what you're supposed to pay. Payroll deduction from the non custodial parents check goes to cse, cse disburses it to the custodial parent. Easy peasy.
I'm a custodial parent and a non custodial parent.

 

[TheNig]

But you also have to realize that heading to a court is the recommended last course of action. That's why I said a divorce is different. You have to go through the courts to initiate and complete a divorce. With an OOW child, it's always recommended that both parents set up and agree to a co-parenting schedule, go through a legal mediator to settle any disputes, then take their grievances to court if it can't be settled.

You can go to court straight away with an OOW, but you're just going to get killed with fees that don't go towards raising the child. On top of that, if there is no pattern or dispute, or history of co-parenting, what is the judge going to base their decision off of - state law, which is automatically skewed toward the mother in most cases, and the child's age. At least if you attempt to co-parent, the judge may (huge may) rule in your favor if she has exhibited a history of broken promises and careless finances.

All that shyt sounds good but you're really wishing on a star with the whole co-parenting thing. From the things I've witnessed (like the story I told about my cousin) it seems as if it never fully works out. This is why it is more than important to get these things legalized. My thing is, why take the chance?

And in a case like Future's, of course the case will be skewed more towards Ciara. She seems to be the one in a more stable environment while this guy has a hunnid different kids by different women. Nobody told that nikka to go raw in all of them hoes.

 

[LadyElle0301]

Ciara has full custody of the child. That was granted to her by the state of California as an unwed mother. Future never challenged it because he doesn't want to establish a set schedule. I doubt he's paying child support for that child. He has hood arrangements that he will see them, when he sees them. Which he admitted in an interview he did this past year.

He's just mad that he has to go through lawyers now and pay those lawyer fees to make that happen. Now if he doesn't like that then HE can file for some sort of custody arrangement.

 

[Deutsche Bank]

She's a ran through thot because she was in publicized relationships with 5 different men throughout the 12 years she's been in the industry?

According to coli convos around here y'all go through 5 females in a month.

Shut up, bytch.

 

[MammaSaidKnockYouOut]

This dude needs to go to court and get courtesy if he really wants to see his kid. Judging from the op she's obviously going to try and get whatever advantage she can if he lets her.

 

[Tha Sircus]

Doesn't Future have like 12 different baby mama's? Baby Future will see his *fair share of "mamas" too....

It takes a village to raise a child

 

[Notorious 1 E.Y.E.]

If Future wanted to see his son, he would have seen his son.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

no shade but I'm legit trying to figure out what your deal is. you got that mwanamke mzuri sana ( very good woman) in Swahili. then there was that whole you went to Yale whatever deal. and now you spelling everything ck with a double cc

I'm not quite sure I understand your dilemma.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

That doesn't mean he's a bad father though

Right because drug addicts and junkies make excellent fathers...

Any man who has multiple children with multiple women CANNOT be a good father.

 

[LadyElle0301]

Shut up, bytch.

I'm just now seeing this. Shut yo sensitive ass up.

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

Dude spoke on the game and still ended up getting played

 

[JayGatsby]

Right because drug addicts and junkies make excellent fathers...

Any man who has multiple children with multiple women CANNOT be a good father.

i agree

in fact il take it one step further and say it shows selfishness....

 

[The Mad Titan]

 

[Deutsche Bank]

I'm just now seeing this. Shut yo sensitive ass up.

No, you shut your goddamn whore mouth, right this instant.

 

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holiday dads on drugs lol