To y’all nikkas that say cold approach is dead…

[Arris]

Mouthpiece ? Never heard of it. Please give me an example

don't be ugly and don't put your foot in your mouth by being overly weird or neurotic. that's it, that's all. 65-70% of men who think they have "mouthpiece" probably actually don't

by "don't be ugly" I truly mean don't be ugly. even slightly below average brehs will get grace being slightly awkward on an approach. If a grown woman has never complimented you unprompted as a grown man your probably truly unremarkable or less in the looks department

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Cold approaching is for the bold and assertive

If you nervous, take a few deep breaths. If you drink, take a few shots or a beer

Honestly, charming broads isn’t hard. It’s fun. Stop being scared approaching these chicks. Focus on her. Pay attention to what’s she’s wearing, vibe, asks what she likes to do for fun, etc. Social cues is half the work.

How you say it is more important than what you say

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Mouthpiece ? Never heard of it. Please give me an example

Mouthpiece is being a smooth talker. Charismatic. Being vibrant.

Leading the conversation is very important

 

[MaxPain]

If you are scared to cold approach

Try this.

Go Nofap, no porn (I know that’s some of you guys problem), workout (especially legs).

Your T levels will be raging, you will be horny as fukk.

Then ask yourself this. Do you wanna stay this horny & frustrated forever? It’ll force you to grow a pair.

Guarentee motivation. You WILL step out there. That hornyness will be on Indian subcontinent levels.

 

[Dipsey Doo]

Cold approach is the best method to meet women.

Planting seeds and being patient helps as well.

Not everything has to start off as sexual.

Just smiling and saying hello goes a long way

 

[MrSpook]

Promise it ain’t. It’s the best way to start a genuine connection.

 

[T-K-G]

You were way too gassed off of just getting a number @Savvir

That'd only be thread worthy if you weren't used to doing shyt like that post that shyt in the dealing with women thread and keep it moving

AND you didn't even seal the deal with her shoulda waited until you smashed to make this thread, anyone can get a number and get dubbed, they just used you for the free drinks, women in relationships do that shyt all the time


I do agree tho cold approaching is easy as fukk if you're just in a general talkative mood and don't worry about how other people are gonna react.

I think it's the actual setting up dates/going on em that's become a lost art.

We live in a pull-up culture, most people used to just coming over to a strangers crib to watch movies and smash. When they meet that self respecting dime who's gonna wait a bit before inviting you over, nikkas have no idea how to proceed. Dinners be fukkin boring as hell, live music can be a major hit-or-miss situation, or you may just live in a city where shyt's not really popping like that so there's nothing to go to.

You need to have a mouthpiece to make even basic shyt like going for a walk or bike ride fun, but if she's lazy too

 

[JQ Legend]

Can an 18-yr buy alcohol or get into a club?

Leave the kids alone.

They can in your country

 

[Bigblackted4]

Itll never die

 

[DripSzn]

Once I get in shape, I'll have an easier time cold approaching.

I gotta be at the top my game physically to be confident.

 

[Child_Of_God]

If you are scared to cold approach

Try this.

Go Nofap, no porn (I know that’s some of you guys problem), workout (especially legs).

Your T levels will be raging, you will be horny as fukk.

Then ask yourself this. Do you wanna stay this horny & frustrated forever? It’ll force you to grow a pair.

Guarentee motivation. You WILL step out there. That hornyness will be on Indian subcontinent levels.

100 percent this.

 

[Savvir]

You were way too gassed off of just getting a number @Savvir

That'd only be thread worthy if you weren't used to doing shyt like that post that shyt in the dealing with women thread and keep it moving

AND you didn't even seal the deal with her shoulda waited until you smashed to make this thread, anyone can get a number and get dubbed, they just used you for the free drinks, women in relationships do that shyt all the time


I do agree tho cold approaching is easy as fukk if you're just in a general talkative mood and don't worry about how other people are gonna react.

I think it's the actual setting up dates/going on em that's become a lost art.

We live in a pull-up culture, most people used to just coming over to a strangers crib to watch movies and smash. When they meet that self respecting dime who's gonna wait a bit before inviting you over, nikkas have no idea how to proceed. Dinners be fukkin boring as hell, live music can be a major hit-or-miss situation, or you may just live in a city where shyt's not really popping like that so there's nothing to go to.

You need to have a mouthpiece to make even basic shyt like going for a walk or bike ride fun, but if she's lazy too

Nah… I went and popped off at her.

Between the time I made this thread and now I’ve done the same thing more times than I can count. Some turned out to be cool Homegirl’s. Some were down to smash.

The point is to get out there and have fun and not be scared of the hoes. That part is all this thread was about.

 

[Child_Of_God]

@Savvir how often do you get rejected?

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Cold approach is the best method to meet women.

Planting seeds and being patient helps as well.

Not everything has to start off as sexual.

Just smiling and saying hello goes a long way

True

Leading, escalating and closing for a meet is important

Overthinking what to say is what messes dudes up from approaching.

Situational openers are A1. Situational openers work best because they already give details for a person to work with.

Being well-rounded in a lot of topics is high key. It shows knowledge and influence. I tell brehs study, read and immerse in a lot of topics.

Most common topics being music, food, culture, history (black history if she's black), relationships, art, fashion, environment.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

You were way too gassed off of just getting a number @Savvir

That'd only be thread worthy if you weren't used to doing shyt like that post that shyt in the dealing with women thread and keep it moving

AND you didn't even seal the deal with her shoulda waited until you smashed to make this thread, anyone can get a number and get dubbed, they just used you for the free drinks, women in relationships do that shyt all the time


I do agree tho cold approaching is easy as fukk if you're just in a general talkative mood and don't worry about how other people are gonna react.

I think it's the actual setting up dates/going on em that's become a lost art.

We live in a pull-up culture, most people used to just coming over to a strangers crib to watch movies and smash. When they meet that self respecting dime who's gonna wait a bit before inviting you over, nikkas have no idea how to proceed. Dinners be fukkin boring as hell, live music can be a major hit-or-miss situation, or you may just live in a city where shyt's not really popping like that so there's nothing to go to.

You need to have a mouthpiece to make even basic shyt like going for a walk or bike ride fun, but if she's lazy too

Men should have the mentality "I'm in charge, she's just tagging along with me" Never pedestalize the chick. That's how dudes fumble with dimes.

The best dates are interactive. Recreational activities such as arcades, bowling, mini golf, rock climbing, painting, hiking, go karting, amusement parks, white water rafting, target practice, sky diving, snowboarding, scooting, rollerblading. This is just a few examples. I agree that Dinner dates are boring af. Too formal.