To y’all nikkas that say cold approach is dead…

Savvir

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Let me slow down. The poetry book is a joke.

Last chick that let me smang asked if I wanted watch Hallmark movies with her. She said explicitly that her teen daughter was home and we would not be smushing. I went anyway. And knocked it off quietly with all the lights off after the daughter went to her room.

Not literally poetry book. Whatever works. Netflix. Video game. Just saying asked her to come to the room to help you decorate or anything. Once she's in the room she'll usually slip and fall on a dikc
oh...

i just let the chick know I wanna smash before I bring her in my room

no need to beat around the bush
 

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I guess I better get a little more desperate this summer cause I done got old and "it's" not working like it used to:

But I don't think there's any reason to just walk up to someone and start shooting your shot. Except maybe "Good Afternoon" just to see where her head is at.

But generally, a woman that is checking for you will actually call you. Very subtle, tho. Flip the hair, maybe touch as she slides past you, stare of course, smile at you.

So my overall plan was just to wait til I catch one "calling" to me and then I go see what's what.

You can easily talk yourself out of it so you still have work to do, but at least you can know that she likes how you look or whatever.

Pro tip. From there, just keep it simple. Phone number. Let's link up. Lets go to my room and look at my poetry book. If she agrees to come to the room then you're in. No need to even bring up sex during the early phase.


Is that supposed to mean you disagree?

You keep a poetry book in your room?

You serenading these hoes?

:laff: :laff: :laff: :laff: :laff:
 

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So you bought them drinks just to kick it with them? And then you came here making a thread like you already fukked just cause one of them agreed to hang out again during the weekend. You do know that you may never see these women ever again? Maybe they saw you as a quick drinks lick instead of the playa that you think you are.
 

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So you bought them drinks just to kick it with them? And then you came here making a thread like you already fukked just cause one of them agreed to hang out again during the weekend. You do know that you may never see these women ever again? Maybe they saw you as a quick drinks lick instead of the playa that you think you are.
talk to a nikka for an hour and a half...

ask for his phone to put your number in and text yourself....

feel up on a nikkas arms, chest and face..... yeah... ok...

all for a $12 drink... lol

and I got her the drink before we even started talking...

one drink...

she kept it going to finesse me for the other drinks she never asked for and I never bought her?
 

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Ran up,asked if they they mind if I buy them drinks. Ended up vibing with this salvadorean one out of the two.. talked for like an hour and a half. Numbers exchanged. Planning to link on the weekend.
So you bought the bottle of beer…

:ufdup:

What I’m reading is you bought them drinks and had convo with them while they drank said drinks. They kinda had no choice

Also you said y’all gona ‘link this weekend’. That value is like a car the value/likelihood of “linking” goes down the minute you out of their presence, especially without a set in stone plan. ‘We gon link this weekend’… its already Friday :mjtf:

And this ain’t hate and you didn’t do anything wrong fr, just pointing out there’s a reason people be off cold calling. Chicks flake. Getting the number is only half the work. We all been there you may never see these chicks again bruh
 

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So you bought the bottle of beer…

:ufdup:

What I’m reading is you bought them drinks and had convo with them while they drank said drinks. They kinda had no choice

Also you said y’all gona ‘link this weekend’. That value is like a car the value/likelihood of “linking” goes down the minute you out of their presence, especially without a set in stone plan. ‘We gon link this weekend’… its already Friday :mjtf:

And this ain’t hate and you didn’t do anything wrong fr, just pointing out there’s a reason people be off cold calling. Chicks flake. Getting the number is only half the work. With apps you can passively go all the work and ensure a link up
my text messages this morning disagree with your assessment...

:francis:

I'm trying to push her off until Sunday....
 

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I’m 6’5…
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We don’t wanna hear everyday man babble from no 6’5 ngga bruh. Update us when you bag J Lo ngga that’s what we expect from you:mjgrin:


iF I wAs 6’5 id be draped in dimes lol @ cold calling. I’d be too busy catching corner 3s playing for a chip right now
 
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