today ive realized... @funeral

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

I've felt like moving to New York I had to move fast but move slow and dillegently at the same time. While I have friends here now, I had to build up my social circle. Its crucial to have that especially when being new in a new city. It helps also to not feel alone. Like I can go out and see atleast 3 of my friends outside of my roommates on any given night. And plus with having those friends, you can meet women in their circle and so on and so on.

My friend told me to find a local neighborhood bar and post up shop their to build that up. It worked brilliantly. So now I got a spot where I can be seen and I have my peoples and whatnot (my problem is my body shuts down after 12:00 o'clock though) and meet women from there.

At the end of the day, considering what I'm about, I just think I fit in here better than anywhere else I've been an that has made me more confident in approaching women nowadays. I've honestly been trying to work on myself really so a relationship at this point is out of the question at the current moment in time...but cuffing season (spring summer) is approaching and I want to be at the top of my game. So...any jewels the Coli can drop will be greatly appreciated.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

And please don't follow no damn advice from a book like that,it ain't geared to your personality and you gonna fukk up even more trying to incorporate it into a conversation instead of just being yourself and fukking up.

Why run some bullshyt game when in the future you gonna slip up and show your true colors?

it's too late. he done already spent the money on the book might as well read that fukk shyt

be a father to your sons brehs

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

yea trial by fire is the only way to learn the game. may have to take a few Ls

but if u learn from your mistakes you would be aight

It's all about not being afraid to hear "no" a couple of times.

Alright...I did a bullshyt sales door to door job last year when I was trying to find work. They were talking about trial and error and the game of numbers. For every person that says no...there's going to be those that will say yes. I think some nikkas is afraid of rejection to the point that it cripples them. Not the way to be. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Everyone can eat for free.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

And please don't follow no damn advice from a book like that,it ain't geared to your personality and you gonna fukk up even more trying to incorporate it into a conversation instead of just being yourself and fukking up.

Why run some bullshyt game when in the future you gonna slip up and show your true colors?

The bolded....yeah. I dapped that cause I've always been interested in Tariq Nasheed's stuff but knowing me...that ain't for me. Not to say that there aren't possible gems contained therein that can be applied to one's life regardless.

 

[Chill]

The bolded....yeah. I dapped that cause I've always been interested in Tariq Nasheed's stuff but knowing me...that ain't for me. Not to say that there aren't possible gems contained therein that can be applied to one's life regardless.

You mean just general life rules and having respect for yourself? Man you don't need a book for that really. Just take care of yourself, speak confidently when you do decide to talk (don't have that in ya voice), know when to say the right things like navigating thru basic social situations and don't be prone to drama.

You don't need a book for all that breh

However, having a general "bachelors lifestyle" thread stickied would be great.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

The bolded....yeah. I dapped that cause I've always been interested in Tariq Nasheed's stuff but knowing me...that ain't for me. Not to say that there aren't possible gems contained therein that can be applied to one's life regardless.

2 ways-
letting her know intent vs. exclusivity

1. letting her know intent
you are putting the ball in her court and shouldn't be done without signs from her that she digs you. this leads to thirst, and sometimes micro aggressions of thirst and subconscious thirst is worse than blatant thirst. life aint no fairy tale. she don't care that you wanna fukk. she knows a lot of men already want that from her, so by showing intent you either will initiate a shut down from her, or a chase.

2.exclusivity
it is best to approach a bytch showing reserved, mild behavior. actually have a conversation with her before you compliment her. don't ask about relationship anything. let her initiate interest.

and look for a conversation starter! if you can't hold a convo and keep her interest you loss from the jump.

you focused on looking for bytches and going to where they are in NYC.. they are everywhere! stop trying to go to where you think they at, let them come to you. simple eye contact and a smile could be an initiation of conversation


or she could be a bird

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

you can't teach macking. you either got it or don't. you can teach techniques, but you can't teach experience. experience is the best way to learn how to mack.

Oh, I thought you guys knew I was kidding tbh

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Oh, I thought you guys knew I was kidding tbh

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

And please don't follow no damn advice from a book like that,it ain't geared to your personality and you gonna fukk up even more trying to incorporate it into a conversation instead of just being yourself and fukking up.

Why run some bullshyt game when in the future you gonna slip up and show your true colors?

Because I'm a short term ass nikka

 

[Chill]

Because I'm a short term ass nikka

I mean if you just looking for some quick shyt go ahead. But even at that you'd have to go thru such a personality change to fully implement what he says in the book without it looking awkward. My point is just be yourself .

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

at the gif

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Only talk to the women that look at you and smile back at you.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

at the gif

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I mean if you just looking for some quick shyt go ahead. But even at that you'd have to go thru such a personality change to fully implement what he says in the book without it looking awkward. My point is just be yourself .

I'm just kidding bro, I'd never get that book lolol.