Truth be told, black men are the only ones who got it right when it comes to women

[How Sway?]

Pure foolishness

Yall talk a gang of shyt about how the black community is messed up yet call men who are eager to take responsibility 'simps' and glorify 'running thru these hoes' as if this is conducive to maintaining an adequate community. Smh

 

[bl2k8]

Yet black people have the highest single parent rates. Great advice breh damn y’all nikkas sound dumb sometimes

 

[Scott Larock]

Pure foolishness

Yall talk a gang of shyt about how the black community is messed up yet call men who are eager to take responsibility 'simps' and glorify 'running thru these hoes' as if this is conducive to maintaining an adequate community. Smh[/QUOT

We grow up differently than other races of men though. Alot of us literally get everything told to us by females, we rarely are close enough to educated brothers to give us direction and put us up on game (look at Tariq Nasheed and his following for "macking")

I think we grow up moreso trying to prove we men and we don't deal with that stuff so tempers flame when we get tested dude, we not about that foolishness.

Women will always want the easy way out, if they can get a man to "provide" not many will turn that down.

Kinda like hoes saying black men make bad tricks, we do cuz we really not built for that lane of paying for instant gratification that's not permanent but temporary and females have a problem with that who sell sex.

I feel you but it's a different ballgame for black males overall, we not to be compared to other races of men.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

Not everything has to be about hoes brehs How bout tryna build something substantial while you young and letting the bytches come to you and you weed them out. nikkas stay hustling backwards.

 

[1thouwow]

black men don't got shyt right and the women in the same boat

nikkas are out here broke, shackin up under some hoe or hoes house and always talking shyt like they ballin cause they have a 300m or known in a club or got the latest nikes, but have no sense of responsibility with their kid or kids with these fuked up in the head women..

in the 60s single mother rate was around 23% and now the shyt is up at 72%

I’m 27, mortgaging my own crib and live alone , my 2013 car been paid off since 2015, and I ain’t got no kids
fukk ima settle down for with just any bird just to live YALL American Dream

 

[SlimeyLilDude]

People are very heated in this thread about this thread is very telling. Y'all better quit trying to give black people props about anything on this site people true colors go come out

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Terrible thread. You've got all these single mothers and ain't shyt dudes and you want to repeat the same mistakes?
That's the definition of insanity.

If you want to be a piece of shyt keep that to yourself. But don't be out here telling dudes not to be married and raise families.

Separate issue. You're really making OPs point which is to not make like altering mistake with women when you're too young to understand the ramifications.

Only lames associate having a sex life with having a bunch of kids out of wedlock.

Not everything has to be about hoes brehs How bout tryna build something substantial while you young and letting the bytches come to you and you weed them out. nikkas stay hustling backwards.

That's the overall point. Build yourself and don't rush into making crazy decisions when you don't even understand yourself.

 

[Yo Mama]

I don't care what no one says, if you're under 28-29, there's NO reason you should be getting married. None. That shyt don't even make any sense. Do you know how long life actually is? Stop listening to that "life is short" narrative. If you living right, life is LONG and there's no reason to be making lifetime commitments to anybody at the 10 year period you're brain is still developing and you're still trying to find your way. shyt most people don't have themselves figured out til at least 37-45 sometimes.

I agree with this.

The first and last part sound like crazy coli talk to me.

 

[African Peasant]

I agree with this.

The first and last part sound like crazy coli talk to me.

This is also crazy.

Cats want to get married at 45 ?

When your first kid will be 10, you'll be 56 ? This is nonsense.

A man should get married between 25 and 35.

 

[Carlton Banks]

That's the overall point. Build yourself and don't rush into making crazy decisions when you don't even understand yourself

This should be in the bible

 

[bl2k8]

Separate issue. You're really making OPs point which is to not make like altering mistake with women when you're too young to understand the ramifications.

Only lames associate having a sex life with having a bunch of kids out of wedlock.



That's the overall point. Build yourself and don't rush into making crazy decisions when you don't even understand yourself.

OP brought up black men’s marriage rates being extremely low, yet we have the highest percentage of OOW births. So clearly a lot of these never married dudes are still getting chicks pregnant which is way more of a commitment than marriage

 

[March Madness]

OP actually has a point.


if you notice,


a lot of RedPill/MGTOW rhetoric is just CACs trying to re-package basic game and finesse moves nikkas runnin on hoes in the streets.

 

[Yo Mama]

This is also crazy.

Cats want to get married at 45 ?

When your first kid will be 10, you'll be 56 ? This is nonsense.

A man should get married between 25 and 35.

Some people seem to thrive from teenage sweethearts, to young adults together, to age old age together.

Most people after two years are fed up with each other.

It depends on the people involved.
30+ is good though.

 

[Serious]

Interesting discussion so far but I would omit the stats on marriage, single parents and out of wedlock births.....

Those points are all mute, when taking into consideration the societal forces at play.

 

[Ronnie Macho]

You hear these women say all the time that "every other race of men are looking to settle and get married by 25, except black men" or "black men don't want to get married" "black men can't be taken seriously" blah blah blah... We always under attack by someone. Then you see these white boys, Latinos, Asians, Indian men getting married and settling down waaaay too early and getting divorced even earlier. Like bro, you in your 20's why the fukk you not playing the field still? How you supposed to know what you really like if you don't have enough experience?

I don't care what no one says, if you're under 28-29, there's NO reason you should be getting married. None. That shyt don't even make any sense. Do you know how long life actually is? Stop listening to that "life is short" narrative. If you living right, life is LONG and there's no reason to be making lifetime commitments to anybody at the 10 year period you're brain is still developing and you're still trying to find your way. shyt most people don't have themselves figured out til at least 37-45 sometimes.

Brehs, we the only ones that got it right which creates envy amongst our brehettes because we smarter than the average cac who's a simp at heart. Don't let these women guilt trip us into thinking we're the immature one cuz we're using logic and rationale. Stay strong brehs!

#GMB