Trying to stay away from (but also be there for) my dead psychologists GF

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every once in a while, a good girl will show genuine interest in me and I just can't do it even if they're physically attractive.

I'm sure that says a lot about how I think of myself psychologically, but I don't want to ruin these girls and I know I would, because that's what USUALLY happens :manny:

ie. My psychologist recently passed away, and me and a group of his clients have been making sure his GF is doing okay. I'm the only male in this group. Ive been socializing and being good about not using my dikk given the circumstances. She is a very wholesome girl from Africa.

The GF is alone and inside most of the time and she has invited me over, but I put it off until another time because I don't want to create those conditions to slip up and somehow fall in her puzzy. I want her to fully grieve and not ruin her and make this shyt worse for her and myself in this new friend group for once. I have to put up boundaries because I know myself:francis: . I've been calling her to check in with her and give support though.
 

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Man fuk all y'all then. Got no psychologist to talk to and even thecoli throws me away. This is why men never talk about our problems :mjcry:
 

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Homie in here with the dear diary letter.

:russ:

Either you fukk her or cut her off.

It’s apparent, you sexually attracted to her and at some point you’ll cross the line if you hang around there long enough.

She’s recently single/widowed and probably vulnerable emotionally right now so make your choice and stand on it.
 

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Homie in here with the dear diary letter.

:russ:

Either you fukk her or cut her off.

It’s apparent, you sexually attracted to her and at some point you’ll cross the line if you hang around there long enough.

She’s recently single/widowed and probably vulnerable emotionally right now so make your choice and stand on it.
I'm trying to establish healthy boundaries instead of going to either extreme by fukking or just leaving. I gained a few friends I don't want to lose from the situation and lust has always been an issue for me, so I'm tryna take the beast and reap the benefits. I don't wanna live like this breh :mjcry:
 

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I'm trying to establish healthy boundaries instead of going to either extreme by fukking or just leaving. I gained a few friends I don't want to lose from the situation and lust has always been an issue for me, so I'm tryna take the beast and reap the benefits. I don't wanna live like this breh :mjcry:
Healthy boundaries are cool, but the fact that your mind is even on this tells the whole story.

Move around if you know you don’t want to fukk her or eventually make things awkward.

Go find you some female friends that you aren’t attracted to and not interested in fukking.
 

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PLOT twist: the psychologist knew he was gonna die, his "clients" were potential suitors he was vetting to replace him in his inevitable absence. You made the cut breh. Ur now the man of that house :mjlit:
The crazy thing is, I've genuinely thought of it this way too which may be concerning :lupe:
Are you team sleezebag or you think it could be something serious?
Sleezebag which is why I can't fukk with these pure type of women :gucci:
 

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Healthy boundaries are cool, but the fact that your mind is even on this tells the whole story.

Move around if you know you don’t want to fukk her or eventually make things awkward.

Go find you some female friends that you aren’t attracted to and not interested in fukking.
:why:

I need to wrap my head around this
 

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Psychologist? You mean therapist? You were in a friend group with the therapist and the Gf? Why would you check on on your therapists girlfriend? That does not sound right.

If my therapist died I wouldn't be texting her husband (I'm not friends with my therapist or her husband). This is a very strange story. And you saying it's your psychologist tells me you are lying your ass off.
 

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Psychologist? You mean therapist? You were in a friend group with the therapist and the Gf? Why would you check on on your therapists girlfriend? That does not sound right.

If my therapist died I wouldn't be texting her husband (I'm not friends with my therapist or her husband). This is a very strange story. And you saying it's your psychologist tells me you are lying your ass off.
Yes, therapist. I checked on him while he was dying and his other clients were there too, including his gf. We were friends from there.
 
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