BTW
The only thing you can do now is the 180 (google it)
Begging pleading being there just makes you lose your dignity.
If a woman wants to walk out of your life let her.
While women are emotional creatures when they are done with you they are DONE.
It doesn't just happen, its calculating could be months or even years the withdrawal takes place, she's talked to her mother, she talked to her good friendsm she's withdrawlinf emptionally while she's suckjng your dikk and making you dinner. She's mourning the end of the relationship when she's snuggling on the couch with you. Then when she finally gets to a point where she is strong enough she drops them deavours.
And men are so comfortable and so in love many times they get caught off guard but the signs are always there.
I'm sure there was a moment or moment when your gut told you something was up maybe you even brought it up bunny are you ok and you got a smile and yes I'm fine just work or whatever.
Now you sit

she's on your mind every waking moment. You check your phone no text msgs, you google how to get your wife back. You can't fathom this is real.
Don't give her time, act now talk to a lawyer get the divorce papers drawn up stay a step ahead.
The pain sucks nowz you'll prob lose weight, be sad, angry, frustrated. Struggle to cope but day by day you'll regian strength time heals everything.