A lot of women have said this a lot on here, but of course we get attacked for it. This thread is the perfect example. OP has yet to say, why exactly he hasn’t gone for a custody or visitation agreement. Courts are pro-child having a relationship with both parents. Even abusive parents are given visitation rights. Literally nothing stopping him, or anyone else on here who has similar stories, from being able to have access to their child but
What kind of man goes to a court and ASK what will probably be a white man,or white woman for rights to his child?Do you not understand how emasculating that would be for a black man. Don't know if I could do that myself,I could easily see "kidnapping" my child first.But my righteous attachment isn't unreasonable,so I know it would never come to that. I'd rather my child know I tried to kidnap them then to have to tell them the same ol sad story when they get older "Bu bu but I went to court and asked the white man but he said it was up to your mama
". You really don't know how humiliating and disrespectful what you just said was,but I get it. This is how the system has caused our women and men to think unfortunately.