DatBoiHawk
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bytch nikka crying more than van jones
Happy wife Happy life is bulltshyt. Lets both be happy. Reciprocity is everything to me as I get older. If a woman can't show equal appreciation and effort in our relationship its a nonstarter for me.Ding Ding Ding!!!!
And I would take it a step further. Generation X and beyond should never get married. This world we all inherited ain't made for that.
Its so bad that ppl really believe the "Happy Wife Happy Life" bullshyt. I was one of them too.
How many TV show, Movies, Comedy Specials, etc. Push that shyt where a man just has to do absolutely whatever to make his wife happy?
The whole thing is a farce and a recipe for disaster.
They even want men to be cool with his wife becoming "fat and disgusting" because she "had children".
But let you slip up in any facet of life and its curtains for you as a Man. And they will be applauded for their courage. But if you as a man even suggest any improvements she could make about herself then it's like "fukk that he don't no what he got".
A man leaves his wife for someone else because he's not happy, he's fukked up for it. A woman does the same thing and it's "y'ass girl do you"
Full Disclosure:
I just went through a divorce that I didn't forsee coming and I guess I fall into the "my spirit wasn't fulfilled category", whatever the fukk that means. But as the fukkin "catch" that I know I am. Women who encounter me have and will have a hard time...but also Hard dikk, because although I still have plenty to give, I will not offer them nothing else.
10 years ago he was flexing on everybody telling us the reason we are broke is because we choose to be. Dude had PF Changs in his house
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YepWait he had Sanaa and blew it?
You can tell a woman’s character pretty quickly with the right questions. He lacked discernment.
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Right. Tyrese is full of it. I have no doubt his exes married him for money, but I also have no doubt that he is insufferable and A LOT to deal with.10 years ago he was flexing on everybody telling us the reason we are broke is because we choose to be. Dude had PF Changs in his house
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You’re absolutely right- he has a lot on his shoulders. But this is where family planning comes in.One of my lifelong boys(seriously, our mothers were pregnant together and friends themselves from childhood) is currently in this situation and I'm ngl, I'm deadass highkey scared for him.
He n his wife have a gang of kids(3+) and she's never worked.
She's loves him and is hella solid(as far as I know) but carrying it all dolo financially is hella tough, and he's verbalized it(to me at least).
Legit one of the best dudes I know, loves her n the kids to pieces but my secret fear is her one day waking up n deciding its not what's best for her anymore.
His exposure is terrifying to me, but I just always speak life to him and pray for the continued thriving of their family.
And no, he's not a 6fig,6cert,6pack breh.
He does above the national average but that's still a ton to ask to support a family of like six people.
Child support ain't forever and unless he's in California, alimony isn't either if married under ten years. There's a lot of goofy women out there but there's a lot more good stories too. Don't let the nightmares you read about make You scared. If he chose well he'll be fine. That hot girl shyt a lot of these goofy broads glamorize is a front and has a shelf life. Solid dudes don't grow on trees. The smart ones don't have this problem.One of my lifelong boys(seriously, our mothers were pregnant together and friends themselves from childhood) is currently in this situation and I'm ngl, I'm deadass highkey scared for him.
He n his wife have a gang of kids(3+) and she's never worked.
She's loves him and is hella solid(as far as I know) but carrying it all dolo financially is hella tough, and he's verbalized it(to me at least).
Legit one of the best dudes I know, loves her n the kids to pieces but my secret fear is her one day waking up n deciding its not what's best for her anymore.
His exposure is terrifying to me, but I just always speak life to him and pray for the continued thriving of their family.
And no, he's not a 6fig,6cert,6pack breh.
He does above the national average but that's still a ton to ask to support a family of like six people.
He isn't 6figs but he's two stones throw away n they're dmv based.You’re absolutely right- he has a lot on his shoulders. But this is where family planning comes in.
Did he start off wanting a stay at home wife and multiple kids? That’s a lot, especially if you don’t have a high salary or live in a state with a low cost of living…
As long as they love each other and they are solid, they should be aight. And as the kids get older she may find it easier to seek employment while they’re in school. I’ve known a few moms who were home with their kids and then went back to work when they were in grade school or middle school, they just made sure they’d be home around the time their kids got back from school![]()
word homie is damaging his career.He needs to be off camera and take a year off(minimum) to recover.
Maybe spend that time putting his thoughts on paper as lyrics and reconnecting with gospel music.
He has a luxury others don't have. He has money and that's as close to having more time as anyone can get.
It's pretty fresh it was finalized a few months ago and the separation started late last yr.Breh just dropped a Ted talk
Tyrese isn’t drawn to good women. All the same cuz he doesn’t seem like a good dude either.He saying all this but can't see that the current chick he's with is going to do EXACTLY THE SAME thing to him![]()