A lot of us aren't really ugly, but we feel like we are. Sometimes it comes off as attention whoring, but no one cares to understand why you feel how you do.
I personally feel ugly sometimes because of constant rejection and being told that other women look better than me.
Why do y'all feel ugly?
First off, rejected how? Are you asking dudes you like out and they're on some
? Friendzoned? And I can't imagine men in your life constantly on some "you know Sherry look better than you right
" what's the context of this?
And to answer the thread, I've never been the object of anyone's desire, or at least anyone that was objectively good-looking. Looking back, there were some cute girls in high school that may have had a crush on me but not getting validation from the "bad" ones or ones you at least know were supposed to be "easy" affected me. Basically from the jump I was categorized as the nice guy girls would make wait, while I could never use my looks to just have a sexual ordeal with a female in this free sex era. Now that I'm in my early/mid-20's, looks don't mean anything and you need to be "established" and you need some proof of it: well-dressed, certain whip (if it ain't luxury, it should be on the new side), your own spot, good job, IG showing you travelingx vacation, living it up, etc. I don't have that, and I'm not a 6-foot, 9% body fat nikka so I can't fall back on raw sex appeal.
When women don't validate that you actually look good, you're not gonna walk around thinking you're Idris the Everyman. I know where I stand, and it's pretty low on the totem pole for what a 24-year-old (black) male needs to "eat" in this climate.