Under 30 with a Vasectomy. Here’s my Story

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Good job bdizzle and 6ixSigma! I don't have any kids nor do I want any of my own. I'm an uncle and I'm cool with being that. I have a cousin who's got four kids by four different women and is always on the prowl for some "New New" as he puts it:mindblown:. I like sex, have goals I still want to accomplish, and really don't want to do the whole "baby momma drama thing". Even if I did want to have kids it's easy as hell to meet a gal that already has some. I'm in a training class now with four black single mothers, asking me "You really ain't want no kids". I just give them the :childplease: "nah mah I'm cool'. LOL!
 

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It must be nice as a guy to get that done at that age, if I were to go in and say tie my tubes...they would be like nah :camby: have a kid or two.
Years ago, I was on another forum, where this woman said she had 4 kids and wanted to get her tubes tied and every Dr she went to refused to do it. Because although she had that many kids she was only like 24 or 25.
 

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I had my vasectomy at 27. Y'all nikkas don't know how good it feels knowing you'll never have to pay child support :whew:

To keep it 100 my only regret is I wish I had it done sooner :wow:

doesnt your girl want kids though?
 

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Am I the only one disgusted with the fact that OP lied about wanting kids to a girl just so he could get the p*ssy for a few months?

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I think if you are ultra selective about the Women you fukk you won't need a vasectomy. fukk intelligent career minded Women with shyt to lose if they get pregnant.

When you fukk with Women who have every thing to gain (broke ones with emotional probs) by having a children you are playing with dynamite. Upwardly mobile Women raised by a strong father are going to be more responsible with birth control and will be more conscientious of their cycle.

My Pops got a vasectomy at 45 or so it was funny the Doc was still asking him if it's OK I'm like he has 2 children and is divorced once and separated from his current Wife why the fukk you asking the man if he is sure??? He is in no shape to be raising another young child financially or physically. I think there is an agenda these White CAC docs are collaborating with government officials to keep Blacks in poverty or in sub-optimal economic conditions.

The only reason I never got a vasectomy was I trusted myself and my choice in Women - I was trained well and learned from my pops mistakes (after my mother he chose the devil from hell my sister's mother). It was already built into my brain never be without a condom and there is always a 7-11 nearby no reason to be fukking a bytch raw especially at such a young age when you have so much to lose as a Man. But I was fukking with White girls at that time and best believe none of them was getting pregnant by a Black dude who didn't complete his degree yet regardless :mjpls:

I think if you raised properly as a Man and you've never had a pregnancy scare then just wait for the 2 forms of BC for Men coming out in a couple of years. It is RISUG and Genderussa a herb that causes little to no side effects from Indonesia that immobilizes sperm for 24 hours. FDA should approve both by 2025. RISUG same as a vasectomy reverses naturally on it's own it's completing clinical trials in India now.

I think I will get a vasectomy at age 40 or so (if I'm not with my Woman I'm with now) because that's when the real risk begins and I will have a lot of shyt to lose if I get a bytch pregnant. I will have a pretty solid income and life setup by then and I don't want to lose any of it as we are all human and make mistakes. Docs will probably still give me problems even at that age because I don't plan on having children. I think I would be a good Father if I have the right cash flow incoming but personally I have other things I want to achieve and am selfish as I grew up mostly an only child - But in a way I'm not selfish because I'm not having kids that I am not 1000% confident I can't provide the best life for. I think those who say there is no right time to have a kid are full of shyt. They are just making excuses for their mistakes. Vasectomy is a good way to prevent human error but some better temporary options are coming down the pipeline. And it's gonna change how much control females have over a Man's destiny and can't wait to see what happens.

If I won the lottery tomorrow I might have a kid because I would be able to quit my job and focus on raising an ADDITION to society instead of a BURDEN like most nikkas are on our community and country. But for now with my limited resources I want to focus on mentoring those already born who have been improperly raised by their biological parents and will become a burden if not shown the proper path today.
 

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goons in the cut tryna talk you out yo necklace
Just got one 2 weeks ago and it went just like breh said. Although the nurse stayed with me though, she smiled a :takedat: smile when I pulled out, which boosted my confidence :jawalrus:. Took the jock strap off after a week and every now and then I feel a tweak of soreness but I'm good. I've busted about 17 nuts so I'm on my way to raw without worries at all times:blessed::salute: breh
 

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U gotta be a self loathing idiot to get one of these if you don't already have kids.

Cut off you manhood brehs
Clip your nuts brehs
:francis:
 

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U gotta be a self loathing idiot to get one of these if you don't already have kids.

Cut off you manhood brehs
Clip your nuts brehs
:francis:
chop the goolies brehs :mjlol:
remove yourself from the genepool brehs :mjlol:
 
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