*UPDATE PG 2* Grade A simping right here!!! Gotdamn!!!

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the sad thing is he isn't aware he has given up his other options

a true choice (with follow-through commitment) is based on an awareness that you are discarding these other possibilities

i mean 3 months is still information-gathering
like is this compatible?? are we on mutual terms?? what are the risks/rewards??

it'd take me 91+ days (as a grown ass man who has been aroun the block multiple times) to make a contingency-based decision to proceed further
then we'd have to go through a shared adjustment period (mutual)
then lockdown into a lasting commitment

dude just breezed past the information and decision steps
spent 3 months adjusting to HER adjustment
now he's locking down at whatever works best for her

there's a chance it might work, but he is playing the lowest odds and taking unnecessary risks without any added benefit

tl:dr he seriously fukked up
 
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You're right. I don't need to applaud or admonish
I'm just posting my opinion on the internet.

I quoted and was responding to your post which mentioned "picking apart his family"
I posted that 3 months in they aren't a family.

Happy to agree to disagree though.
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when does an adopted child officially "become" a part of a family though?
that's all I'm saying, outsiders can look in, but we aren't the judge that validates their relationship

but yeah, I'm not trying to argue about it :handshake:
 

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Smh so sad

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Wait till that kid is 17 and hits him with that "nikka you aint my daddy!" :umad:
That shyt happened to my brother he has 3 kids with the chick but the 4th one isn't his but he raised her. It was hilarious after she graduated hs she told him she was going somewhere and he told her no. She said "you're not my father I do what I want" :mjlol:
 
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