Use shaming tactics to get free meals brehettes

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Not that serious if I go out to dinner with a chick it's prolly cause I'm hungry and bored maybe horny.

Y'all broke nikkas getting mad over nothing. But i will add I never took out a chick and not received some sexual favors of which I never intended to get.

Whether I chill imma get p*ssy or whether I drop 100 imma still fukk. Maybe not that night but i always smash if I want.

Getting p*ssy is easier than getting a job. If you not eating out here with all these desperate women, you're a lame

Ima lame then

 

[Neuromancer]

We always go Dutch until I feel a woman is worthy of my resources. End of story.

 

[Yesterday]

Calm down. I feel a lot of anger in your post.

You shouldn't be talking to ANYONE for months without seeing them in person. And lets not act like men don't play games, too and feign interest just to get sex. I read TLR. BOTH men and women do it. We just have to do a better job of figuring out who is genuine or not.

From my point of view as a woman, I'm more concerned with trying to figure out if he just wants to fukk or if he is trying to truly get to know me, not how much money he spends on food. I'm not broke. Going to his house after knowing him a week tells me that he wants to fukk. I do what works for me.

If you want a woman to pay, then you need to state your expectations from jump. If she says no, move on.
If you have a problem with a woman wanting you to pay for all dates, then tell her so. If she still doesn't feel the need to pay, then it's your choice to move on.

I'm not angry at all, just hate it when people play stupid.

I agree for the most part but the fact that I would have to tell a woman I'm not paying for every date from the jump is the problem within itself. And what you say sounds cute and political but the issue is every woman looks at dating as getting to know a person, but only when it's under her own standards and constraints.

For example, you still didn't address the fact that when we talked about spending money for dating, you said you'd spend money on your "man" but what about a prospect who's not your man yet? Because I imagine that doesn't fit your constraints of dating paying for a man you don't know like that. But that's our expectation.

I never mentioned men not feigning interest, it's not even the topic of discussion. But I know for a fact that most women expect a man to sooner or later spend money on her and I can't imagine you'd feel secure if the man only takes you on free dates for 3 months. No matter if you've assessed if he's trying to hit or not.

 

[VFib]

I'm not angry at all, just hate it when people play stupid.

I agree for the most part but the fact that I would have to tell a woman I'm not paying for every date from the jump is the problem within itself. And what you say sounds cute and political but the issue is every woman looks at dating as getting to know a person, but only when it's under her own standards and constraints.

For example, you still didn't address the fact that when we talked about spending money for dating, you said you'd spend money on your "man" but what about a prospect who's not your man yet? Because I imagine that doesn't fit your constraints of dating paying for a man you don't know like that. But that's our expectation.

I never mentioned men not feigning interest, it's not even the topic of discussion. But I know for a fact that most women expect a man to sooner or later spend money on her and I can't imagine you'd feel secure if the man only takes you on free dates for 3 months. No matter if you've assessed if he's trying to hit or not.

My answer is No, and I own it. If he has a problem, he is free to bush me.

 

[blackzeus]

I would rather do an activity than go somewhere to eat. It seems like it would be more fun.

I like eating by myself.

I don't understand why someone would want to talk and eat at the same time.

Because the country is full of fat f*cks, everythign revolves around eating

 

[DaRealness]

You know what, just get to know chicks as friends first and see where it takes you.

Dating or whatever you wanna call it nowadays is so fukked up with too many bullshyt mind games and everyone being scared of their own shadow while trying not to get played, that I don't even know what it is anymore.

This is why if the right one comes along then great, run with it. If not, there's a million other things in life you can preoccupy yourself with.

 

[notPsychosiz]

I'll let you brehs in on one of my keys to happiness as a man.
I don't make plans with or for women. I make plans for me, then if she wants she can tag along.

I don't ask her if she wants to go to the movies. I determine what movie I want to see, make plans to go, then tell her I'm going to the movies and she can come if she wants. If she declines I'm still going and invite someone else.

Its never "lets go to dinner" or "do you want to go to dinner?"
Its always "I'm going to dinner, you coming...?" or "I'm going to movies, you tryna roll?"

She needs to understand that your plans are never contingent on her.
You unhappy dudes are unhappy cause you have your relationship set to co-op. It should be on one player and she can press start to hop in and out as you progress regardless. I'm Sonic, she is Tails. If she wants to stand still the screen is not waiting on her... she is just about to miss out on some cool enjoyable levels.

 

[DaRealness]

^^^^Exactly.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

lol spend $200 on a dinner date with an IG thot that you'd probably never spend on your own mama brehs

 

[Soundbwoy]

I don't know if it's true but I saw a chick on Twitter that was mad her date didn't pay for her friend she invited on her date

 

[Another Man]

I don't know if it's true but I saw a chick on Twitter that was mad her date didn't pay for her friend she invited on her date

The nerve And you know someone's done it before so that's why she felt like it was okay

 

[The Maverick]

Funny thing is, there's a lot of dudes that would love to take a girl out and show her something new. But chicks are not looking at these dudes, at least not until way after the fact. And I'm not even one of these "girls don't like nice guys" folks, but women should realize that they are also culpable in where the dating climate is.

I've met a lot of women that would rather "chill" with the dude they are actually chasing, than let another dude take her out. Then turn around and blame all men. Knowing half these dudes can't even get laid, let alone keep a rotation.

 

[Wild self]

I'll let you brehs in on one of my keys to happiness as a man.
I don't make plans with or for women. I make plans for me, then if she wants she can tag along.

I don't ask her if she wants to go to the movies. I determine what movie I want to see, make plans to go, then tell her I'm going to the movies and she can come if she wants. If she declines I'm still going and invite someone else.

Its never "lets go to dinner" or "do you want to go to dinner?"
Its always "I'm going to dinner, you coming...?" or "I'm going to movies, you tryna roll?"

She needs to understand that your plans are never contingent on her.
You unhappy dudes are unhappy cause you have your relationship set to co-op. It should be on one player and she can press start to hop in and out as you progress regardless. I'm Sonic, she is Tails. If she wants to stand still the screen is not waiting on her... she is just about to miss out on some cool enjoyable levels.

The Sonic/ Tails analogy is perfect