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Why are you just doing dinner dates? There are so many things you can do on a date. Look for free events in your area, too.

It's just food. It's not that serious.
Once again, it is not that serious then why are we expected to do it every time? If it's not that serious then why don't you do it? Evidently it is if women have such a hard time contributing.

It is that serious because especially in large cities even doing stuff like museums add up. You have cabs, entry fees, snacks. If you're hanging out a few days a week it will surpass the amount of money that will have future impact. And all for what? The slight chance that said woman will be there when that financial security would have come to fruition?

Women kill me trying to dictate when something they're not contributing is "serious" or not. Men invest too much into women these days and they put nothing on the line. Men are starting to smarten up though, which is why you have Netflix and Chill
 

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Huge time waster......the fact dude offered to take her out and made her pay her own way will look cheap in her eyes. Back to square one again. Fuk all that....go somewhere free and chill.:yeshrug:
Or.....you can suggest somewhere you can go, and let her know before hand you wanna go dutch? If she agrees, cool, if not, she failed the test. Move on. Either way, be assertive and don't let her control the situation.
See that's the problem with dudes these days, we've led ourselves to want to go through hoops just to please these females we're simply interested in and now are scared to death of not meeting their expectations. This is what happens when you let women dictate what a real man is. Nah, a real man does what the fukk he wants and women can either get with it or get left :camby:
 

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Or.....you can suggest somewhere you can go, and let her know before hand you wanna go dutch? If she agrees, cool, if not, she failed the test. Move on. Either way, be assertive and don't let her control the situation.
See that's the problem with dudes these days, we've led ourselves to want to go through hoops just to please these females we're simply interested in and now are scared to death of not meeting their expectations. This is what happens when you let women dictate what a real man is. Nah, a real man does what the fukk he wants and women can either get with it or get left :camby:
Cast your rod for that 00.1% down to go dutch on the first date. Not saying you wont find her, but the weeding out process will be long and draining I guarantee it.:francis:
 
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Cast your rod for that 00.1% down to go dutch on the first date. Not saying you wont find her, but the weeding out process will be long a draining I guarantee it.:francis:
That would depend on the type of women you're looking for :jbhmm:
I've been on quite a few dates where we paid our own, and still got the cheeks :manny:

Matter fact, my current g/f of three years was one of these chicks :manny:
Might wanna check your standard in women and stop fukking with bum ass bytches :ehh:
 
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That would depend on the type of women you're looking for :jbhmm:
I've been on quite a few dates where we paid our own, and still got the cheeks :manny:
Might wanna check your standard in women and stop fukking with bum ass bytches :ehh:
Dont fuk with bums:whoa:...quite the opposite. There's two types that fall in that category...some feel they are too good to pay, and others are too broke to pay. I think it also depends what city you're in. The false sense of entitlement is high in big cities...especially NY or LA...bytches feel with so many options coming at them with their wallet out, no need for them to ever pay...thats the type I was referring to.
 

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Once again, it is not that serious then why are we expected to do it every time? If it's not that serious then why don't you do it? Evidently it is if women have such a hard time contributing.

It is that serious because especially in large cities even doing stuff like museums add up. You have cabs, entry fees, snacks. If you're hanging out a few days a week it will surpass the amount of money that will have future impact. And all for what? The slight chance that said woman will be there when that financial security would have come to fruition?

Women kill me trying to dictate when something they're not contributing is "serious" or not. Men invest too much into women these days and they put nothing on the line. Men are starting to smarten up though, which is why you have Netflix and Chill

The women YOU choose.

I contribute and don't have a problem treating my man. Like I said before, find a woman who dates like you want to date. It makes dating less frustrating.

When I said it wasn't serious, I meant dinner isn't the only thing you can do on a date.

You also shouldn't be investing time with anytime you don't even see yourself with or who you resent because you feel you have to pay to spend time with them. Like BMore said, getting to know someone over the phone is free. You can get a feel for whether or not she is someone who will use you for free food or if she is really interested.

MY whole thing was that I'm not going to your house on the first or even third date. We must meet in public as I get to know you.
 
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