Use shaming tactics to get free meals brehettes

[Bless't]

i told y'all back in 08 to get your labeling system right.
if you got that part of it right, then you can move forward and start trying to win.
if you never get that part exactly right then you will always lose.

learn the accurrate labels and what they are.
do you guys know them?

art barr

I'm good breh.

 

[Yesterday]

The women YOU choose.

I contribute and don't have a problem treating my man. Like I said before, find a woman who dates like you want to date. It makes dating less frustrating.

When I said it wasn't serious, I meant dinner isn't the only thing you can do on a date.

You also shouldn't be investing time with anytime you don't even see yourself with or who you resent because you feel you have to pay to spend time with them. Like BMore said, getting to know someone over the phone is free. You can get a feel for whether or not she is someone who will use you for free food or if she is really interested.

MY whole thing was that I'm not going to your house on the first or even third date. We must meet in public as I get to know you.

You're not dumb. You can know or gauge a person off a phone conversation. You can talk to a nikka for hours for months and still not be compatible on a deeper level and in person. Women who play the game know how to feign interest.

You say you have no problem treating your man but what about a man you're getting to know? What about a stranger? That's the difference, let's not play stupid. That's what you're expecting of us.

 

[JayGatsby]

i hate paying for women that I dont claim



"il order the rose......large"

well.....thats her budget gone for tonight



the chick n her friends called me cheap

lo and behold,at the end of the night the chick had no money to withdraw from her account

 

[VFib]

You're not dumb. You can know or gauge a person off a phone conversation. You can talk to a nikka for hours for months and still not be compatible on a deeper level and in person. Women who play the game know how to feign interest.

You say you have no problem treating your man but what about a man you're getting to know? What about a stranger? That's the difference, let's not play stupid. That's what you're expecting of us.

Calm down. I feel a lot of anger in your post.

You shouldn't be talking to ANYONE for months without seeing them in person. And lets not act like men don't play games, too and feign interest just to get sex. I read TLR. BOTH men and women do it. We just have to do a better job of figuring out who is genuine or not.

From my point of view as a woman, I'm more concerned with trying to figure out if he just wants to fukk or if he is trying to truly get to know me, not how much money he spends on food. I'm not broke. Going to his house after knowing him a week tells me that he wants to fukk. I do what works for me.

If you want a woman to pay, then you need to state your expectations from jump. If she says no, move on.
If you have a problem with a woman wanting you to pay for all dates, then tell her so. If she still doesn't feel the need to pay, then it's your choice to move on.

 

[Wild self]

Dont fuk with bums...quite the opposite. There's two types that fall in that category...some feel they are too good to pay, and others are too broke to pay. I think it also depends what city you're in. The false sense of entitlement is high in big cities...especially NY or LA...bytches feel with so many options coming at them with their wallet out, no need for them to ever pay...thats the type I was referring to.

NY is the worst because if too many dudes and tricks. Every popping spot has guards that push dudes out and only let average hoes in. In the ATL, that shyt the opposite. All the upscale spots, there are very few dudes who have their shyt together. with more friendlier women and more straight to the point.

 

[Giselle]

my initial dates are activities(pool hall,mini golf,arcades,bowling) or cheap shyt like ice cream and coffee

you aint getting dinners out of me lol. Plus it lets me know how fun a chick is.

I would rather do an activity than go somewhere to eat. It seems like it would be more fun.

I like eating by myself.

I don't understand why someone would want to talk and eat at the same time.

 

[William F. Russell]

I love how women ALWAYS resort to calling men "bitter" and accusing them of being sexually-deprived when those men are merely sharing their not-so-pleasant dating experiences with SOME women.

Yet women can complain til the cows come home about their problems with some men and they're rewarded with talk shows, television specials, magazine articles, and pseudo-scientific studies and surveys validating their lies, misconceptions, and half-truths about all men.

Gender equality.

 

[Wild self]

I love how women ALWAYS resort to calling men "bitter" and accusing them of being sexually-deprived when those men are merely sharing their not-so-pleasant dating experiences with SOME women.

Yet women can complain til the cows come home about their problems with some men and they're rewarded with talk shows, television specials, magazine articles, and pseudo-scientific studies and surveys validating their lies, misconceptions, and half-truths about all men.

Gender equality.

Their Web of lies.

They ain't slick at all.

 

[Uncle Kendrick]

Now that I think about its quite clever/sneaky how women use men just to fill their belly up for the night. Homeboy thinking he going out to build a relationship and possibly getting some gushy but will end up going home with a broken heart and blue balls.

 

[Woman of god]

I don't think it's about the dinner as it is the appreciation of a man making set, defined pre determined plans. That shows dedication and effort. Lets chill is very non chalant and non committal. I think it would be equally as appreciated if the guy said "I'd like to go for a walk around the park" or something free. Because it's about the effort

 

[blackzeus]

what kind of bottom of the barrel chicks are you fukking with?

I should ask OP that question. You inviting randomn chicks you never met off the internet to your house to "chill"? Make sure you got renter's insurance Ain't no classy b*tch in her prime finna meet a randomn dude in his house to chill unless he's Will Smith or Brad Pitt, and even then 9 times out of 10 those bishes are pros A classy bish would want you to take her to a nice place for you guys to get to know each other first

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

You're not dumb. You can know or gauge a person off a phone conversation. You can talk to a nikka for hours for months and still not be compatible on a deeper level and in person. Women who play the game know how to feign interest.

It takes two to play the game. As a man you don't have to and probably shouldn't be cupcaking and pillow talking a woman you're not fukking and don't know.

You say you have no problem treating your man but what about a man you're getting to know? What about a stranger? That's the difference, let's not play stupid. That's what you're expecting of us.

Again you seem to be allowing women to dictate the parameters of your interactions with them. There are other ways to get to know women besides dating. In fact, as a man in 2015, seeking to date a woman you don't know is risky as fukk and not a good move IMO. It is very easy to get to know women without all this wining and dining nonsense.

 

[MF budz]

So if you just say let chill to a girl that means your a boy? Wtf and all these bytches think they are kardashians. Haha no bytch you don't get paid to look pretty. So I'm going to lie and hit it and not even be remorseful.






Unless you want to start a relationship then don't lie .

 

[sanityovar8ted]

i aint use no shaming tactics 2 just got an offer for a free stack of pancakes from some pancake house here, depending on how far away it is i just might take them up on this offer, n also depending on exactly how cakes r in said stack cuz i aint traveling more than 20 mins for no 3 dayum cakes

 

[HoloGraphic]

I have no qualms paying for the whole date if I genuinely like her as person.