Use shaming tactics to get free meals brehettes

[Gold]

It's never just dinner. If I spent 100 a week on just dinner, that's 5,200 a year. Compound in my IRA that could be hundreds of thousands down the line.

If it's "just dinner" then you'd have no problem splitting the check for such an insignificant amount

You gotta let your girl that's not your thing.

The girl i'm talking to right now, she comes over to my place and we cook nasty ass vegan shyt (she's doing some vegan diet till 2016)

But its cheap as hell, and I don't have to touch it.


Don't break the bank to be with someone. You will resent them for it without even knowing it

 

[The Mad Titan]

You gotta let your girl that's not your thing.

The girl i'm talking to right now, she comes over to my place and we cook nasty ass vegan shyt (she's doing some vegan diet till 2016)

But its cheap as hell, and I don't have to touch it.


Don't break the bank to be with someone. You will resent them for it without even knowing it

truth

 

[BmoreGorilla]

It's never just dinner. If I spent 100 a week on just dinner, that's 5,200 a year. Compound in my IRA that could be hundreds of thousands down the line.

If it's "just dinner" then you'd have no problem splitting the check for such an insignificant amount

that's why I let them kno from the beginning my money is tight. They already kno what to expect from me. But they see I work hard and own my own stuff so I see I got my priorities together and have ambition. A real chick will respect that and most likely admire it

 

[Gold]

truth

Yeah i've been there. years ago, before I got my career rolling, I dated someone who... I admit... I was intimidated by how much money she was making. So I would do everything in my power to put up a facade of a lifestyle that I presumed that she wanted (although she never asked for it) and secretly every night be looking at my account like "Dis evil juju woman has brought wahala to my bank account deliver me from poverty Jisus"

 

[Drake's Tan]

Why do people go around passing dumb shyt like its wisdom?

Because they're morons.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Lol that man could have been your Prince in Shining Armor.

He could also have been a rapist or serial killer

 

[Youseenmywork]

Say you don't care where you go and you want men to make decisions but turn around and criticize where the man picks to go brehettes

Women do not have stress tolerance to the degree men do. Men are both culturally and genetically wired to handle stress better. As a man, making a wrong decision is a bummer; as a woman it ruins her entire day and likely has her running off to her Prozac cabinet.

Women will step up to responsibility when they have to, but they dread every second of it and will pass off that anguish to you. They don't want to lead. They don't want to decide. Making her do either is synonymous with giving her stress. That's why they get mad when you don't act like a masculine figure and get shyt done around the house. She does not want an equal, she wants a problem solver that makes her life as easy and effortless as possible.

At the end of the day she's simply a child, and the one thing a child needs more than anything is someone to take care of her.

Women run from responsibility. You can barely get a woman to decide what restaurant to go to for dinner – she wants you to decide, because she doesn’t want it to be her fault if dinner sucks. She wants you to lead. She wants you to make decisions. She wants you to shoulder the burden, so that if anything catastrophic happens, or fukk, if she just doesn’t enjoy something, it’s your fault instead of hers. From reddit.com

 

[badtguy]

Not that serious if I go out to dinner with a chick it's prolly cause I'm hungry and bored maybe horny.

Y'all broke nikkas getting mad over nothing. But i will add I never took out a chick and not received some sexual favors of which I never intended to get.

Whether I chill imma get p*ssy or whether I drop 100 imma still fukk. Maybe not that night but i always smash if I want.

Getting p*ssy is easier than getting a job. If you not eating out here with all these desperate women, you're a lame

 

[Art Barr]

More proof that the nineties dope dealer gold digger wife game and era is dead.

Exactly! If these same IG folks said something like "Going to a man's house on the first date is perfect" these same posters were be worshipping her right now and encouraging us to be like her.

Bottom line, I'm not 'chilling' (never had a grown man come at me like this, talking about 'chilling') at the house of a man that I don't even know. Especially the first few dates. If he has a problem with that, too bad. He isn't the person for me.

These internet discussions, boy.....

So that is why you are on the coli,... to gain an insight and to raid the male braintrust?

Art Barr

 

[Bless't]

All that kind of shyt should get cleared up on the phone. Im talking to a few right now and only one ive taken out on dates. Theres this other chick Ive been talking to that's younger, still lives with her mother, has 2 kids, and does hair for a living

But she bad tho

Aint no way Im taking her out on a date. She likes to drink and smoke just like me. She's the type of chick I would just try to have come over and chill cuz I already kno theres no future beyond that. The one I have taken out I could tell after a few phone conversations that I wanted to take her out. She has her own crib, masters degree, been divorced for a year and has a daughter a year older than mine. She's the type I could see building with

See, this is exactly how to date nowadays. Categorize the importance of each lady you're conversing with and move forward accordingly.

 

[Bless't]

You gotta categorize these chicks from the jump.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I take these broads to the park for the first date. I'm too broke to be subsidizing someone else food budget

 

[Youseenmywork]

If your broke should you be dating ?

 

[Art Barr]

i told y'all back in 08 to get your labeling system right.
if you got that part of it right, then you can move forward and start trying to win.
if you never get that part exactly right then you will always lose.

learn the accurrate labels and what they are.
do you guys know them?

art barr

 

[Art Barr]

If your broke should you be dating ?

you get way more women broke living at your mom's crib than paid and living on your own.


art barr