Use shaming tactics to get free meals brehettes

[EpicStoryTeller]

A man can do whatever he wants.

I am not going to chill at a man's house that I just met. I don't even 'chill' at friend's houses.

There's no reason to get frustrated. Just find a woman who would enjoy sitting in your house like you do.

Have found quite a few, 2 of which I ended up being in long relationships with. This mentality that women are too good to chill at home with a person they claim to be interested in, regardless of first date or not is ridiculous.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Have found quite a few, 2 of which I ended up being in long relationships with. This mentality that women are too good to chill at home with a person they claim to be interested in, regardless of first date or not is ridiculous.

Breh that shyt ain't safe nor is it good for presentation.

Some random nikka meet you on the street and say I got some weed come back to the house and smoke with me, would you do it? so why would you expect a woman, who is physically more vulnerable, to do the same thing with you?

If she come over and just chill at the house I wouldn't even consider that a date.

 

[VFib]

Have found quite a few, 2 of which I ended up being in long relationships with. This mentality that women are too good to chill at home with a person they claim to be interested in, regardless of first date or not is ridiculous.

That's your opinion. People make dating more complicated and frustrating that it needs to be, then run to the Coli to make threads venting about it. Find the woman who thinks like you and you should be OK. No one else should matter.

Take care.

 

[Larry Lambo]

This is why after about age 24-25, you should just date women you already know pretty well. I've had to learn the hard way, but too many women are willing to go on dates with zero interest in the guy.

I was on LSA and a girl started a thread about a guy who asked her out even though she wasn't feeling him. 2/3rd's of the women were telling her to go on the date because it would be entertaining and to get a free meal.. I know that's an unscientific survey but it's pretty consistent with my experience, and my female friends over the years. We aren't taking the right women out, so we're just better off going after women we've known for a while, and usually will get better results. I'd rather her say no than say yes and nothing comes out of it.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Breh that shyt ain't safe nor is it good for presentation.

Some random nikka meet you on the street and say I got some weed come back to the house and smoke with me, would you do it? so why would you expect a woman, who is physically more vulnerable, to do the same thing with you?

If she come over and just chill at the house I wouldn't even consider that a date.

I'm talking about AFTER the date, within the same night. I never said meet up with strangers from the Web for the first night, but let's not act like women don't do it

 

[Sterling Archer]

Getting to kno someone is free. You be able to do that on the phone. I aint taking a chick out on a date till I kno I really like her

Exactly. Brehs with options know not to spend time and effort on someone until you know they are at the very least, an interesting person. Until that point, she can tag along with something I already had planned. Hopefully she is able to show you she's someone to like and THEN I can discern courting tactics in regards to dating, not before.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

That's your opinion. People make dating more complicated and frustrating that it needs to be, then run to the Coli to make threads venting about it. Find the woman who thinks like you and you should be OK. No one else should matter.

Take care.

Women complicate dates with their "take me out to eat if you want to get to know me" when you don't have to do all that just to get to know someone on a deeper level. The female interest is now based off how well you can dine her and not your character, but play fool if you want to.

Have a nice day

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

Can you blame a chick for not wanting to go over some nikka crib she barely knows tho?

Exactly.
Don't men expect women to 'put out' if they go to mans house to 'chill'? I mean isn't that the whole point of Netflix and chill?

I know when I made that thread about going to my bf's place after we first met everyone said he was going to be expecting sex.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Exactly.
Don't men expect women to 'put out' if they go to mans house to 'chill'? I mean isn't that the whole point of Netflix and chill?

I know when I made that thread about going to my bf's place after we first met everyone said he was going to be expecting sex.

I need to log off for a while, women are the ones who created netflix and chill.

 

[VFib]

Women complicate dates with their "take me out to eat if you want to get to know me" when you don't have to do all that just to get to know someone on a deeper level. The female interest is now based off how well you can dine her and not your character, but play fool if you want to.

Have a nice day

The women YOU chose. If that's not for you, then you can choose not to entertain them further. IMO, a dinner date (or lunch or breakfast, whatever) is intimate and allows you two to face each and talk. You can get the nervous energy out of the way. It works for someone like me who's very introverted, but it isn't a requirement.

I wouldn't bush a man who wanted to do an activity date, but I will bush him for thinking I'm going to his house. I'm not frustrated with dating because I simply don't entertain this. It works for me.

 

[Wild self]

take anything that comes out of the mouth of human beings with vaginas seriously brehs

Exactly. Reason why I don't take girls out to eat ANYTHING these days.

We can go to miniature golf, bumper cars, or laser tag before a damn dinner date

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

So why would you respond to my comment without knowing the full details

Your post had nothing to do with the op, and you also didn't quote anyone, so how was I supposed to know you were referring to the second picture? You made NO comment about the picture OR the comments under neath the picture (in the initial post of yours that I quoted)

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I need to log off for a while, women are the ones who created netflix and chill.

you sure about that?
(Genuinely asking)

 

[Wild self]

So if I dont want to go over to a mans house to "chill" , I'm some type of gold digger?

I can cook a damn good meal.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

The whole point is to get to know them, just like how a chick has reservations about giving her number out and going on a date. If you can't trust them enough to not go over to their place and trust that no harm will come to you, then you shouldn't be talking in the first place.

Why would I want to pursue any type of relationship with a female who don't trust me past a phone conversation? But they expect to be taken out for a free meal? Fck that bull shyt

All that kind of shyt should get cleared up on the phone. Im talking to a few right now and only one ive taken out on dates. Theres this other chick Ive been talking to that's younger, still lives with her mother, has 2 kids, and does hair for a living

But she bad tho

Aint no way Im taking her out on a date. She likes to drink and smoke just like me. She's the type of chick I would just try to have come over and chill cuz I already kno theres no future beyond that. The one I have taken out I could tell after a few phone conversations that I wanted to take her out. She has her own crib, masters degree, been divorced for a year and has a daughter a year older than mine. She's the type I could see building with