Use shaming tactics to get free meals brehettes

[Wild self]

Exactly! If these same IG folks said something like "Going to a man's house on the first date is perfect" these same posters were be worshipping her right now and encouraging us to be like her.

Bottom line, I'm not 'chilling' (never had a grown man come at me like this, talking about 'chilling') at the house of a man that I don't even know. Especially the first few dates. If he has a problem with that, too bad. He isn't the person for me.

These internet discussions, boy.....

I can understand, but that doesn't mean that I have to feed ya either.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

All that kind of shyt should get cleared up on the phone. Im talking to a few right now and only one ive taken out on dates. Theres this other chick Ive been talking to that's younger, still lives with her mother, has 2 kids, and does hair for a living

But she bad tho

Aint no way Im taking her out on a date. She likes to drink and smoke just like me. She's the type of chick I would just try to have come over and chill cuz I already kno theres no future beyond that. The one I have taken out I could tell after a few phone conversations that I wanted to take her out. She has her own crib, masters degree, been divorced for a year and has a daughter a year older than mine. She's the type I could see building with

Then you are winning with that second chick

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I still think mutual acquaintances are the easiest and CHEAPEST way to meet women. IF that is your real friend they will not put you together with someone crazy. Activities/organizations are in a close second. And miss me with that street game stuff. If nikkas had street game they wouldn't be stressing over taking women on dates :artumad: . But yea a chick who demands a free meal just to talk is not even worth fukking breaughs. She will be the one lighting that ass up for child support in a New York minute

 

[VFib]

I can understand, but that doesn't mean that I have to feed ya either.

I knew it was only a matter of time before you came to quote me.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

you sure about that?
(Genuinely asking)

"I just wanna lay up and get my booty rubbed on and watch movies" "why can't we just watch netflix and chill instead of fckn" are both memes started by women who just happen to be the biggest netflix watchers. So yes I'm very sure about that

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Your post had nothing to do with the op, and you also didn't quote anyone, so how was I supposed to know you were referring to the second picture? You made NO comment about the picture OR the comments under neath the picture (in the initial post of yours that I quoted)

Because the posters above me had already commented on the remarks being made under the posted picture you just didnt read and responded to the first thing that looked out of place to you.

 

[Wild self]

I knew it was only a matter of time before you came to quote me.

I'm just spitting the truth.

I can make you enjoy yourself without sitting on a table for food. That is, if you are open minded for new activity.

 

[Sterling Archer]

I can understand, but that doesn't mean that I have to feed ya either.

 

[miranda]

I can cook a damn good meal.

him : you should come over and ill cook dinner for you
me: oh, no thank you, but it was nice meeting you, thanks for the offer i guess
never return their texts or calls after that
but i also go years without a man so...

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Exactly.
Don't men expect women to 'put out' if they go to mans house to 'chill'? I mean isn't that the whole point of Netflix and chill?

I know when I made that thread about going to my bf's place after we first met everyone said he was going to be expecting sex.

Real talk why would I even want a woman I barely kno to come over unless Im trying to fukk? That's a waste of time. I can watch tv alone. Plus if you wanna see if theres a future with someone you kinda gotta kno how they act in public. But again you can learn these kinds of things on the phone for free

 

[VFib]

I'm just spitting the truth.

I can make you enjoy yourself without sitting on a table for food. That is, if you are open minded for new activity.

Like I said, dinner dates aren't a requirement for me. They're overrated, actually. I would do an activity date as the first date. I'm just not going to your house. I'm not playing arcades, either.

 

[Wild self]

him : you should come over and ill cook dinner for you
me: oh, no thank you, but it was nice meeting you, thanks for the offer i guess
never return their texts or calls after that
but i also go years without a man so...

Lol that man could have been your Prince in Shining Armor.

 

[Wild self]

Like I said, dinner dates aren't a requirement for me. They're overrated, actually. I would do an activity date as the first date. I'm just not going to your house. I'm not playing arcades, either.

So what do you do in your first date in public?

 

[Raava]

"Women don't know their place too independent" "TF a look like paying for dates "

 

[Wild self]

"Women don't know their place too independent" "TF a look like paying for dates "

Blame the women that didn't have an accountability partner to keep their actions in check. Because of them, the rest of the decent women got to suffer.