Strange logic for an adult. Do better.
You know certain things are a problem but still purposely do them?On top of that make excuses
This is what I mean.
Adult males that I kick it with are gruff and unruly. Drinking and driving. Ho hopping. Illegal drugs.
If you're scared they got a seat at the church for you. No one is allowed to use bad words in there either so you'll be safe.