Vivica Fox: Regrets missing out on Motherhood

[PhonZhi]

50 cent ruined this woman to me. Now when I see her all I can think of is that she eats ass

You gotta be one foul as chick to do some shyt like that.

50 said she did that?

 

[Scott Larock]

I always thought modern dating was just a way for white dudes to fukk foreign and black chicks, literally thst word wasn't around before integration.

afterwards all type of new terms came out to male other races do things whites didn't but whites fell for it as well.

never understand dating all thst much, what's the real purpose to date? you're fukking for free with no real commitment.

thought conservatives just made up negros terms for non whites to feel special.

 

[Scott Larock]

Typical behavior of the bad boy chasing hypergamous modern day feminist. No man except the very best are good enough.

And as usual, the very best doesn't consider them good enough

I mean she was in her late 30s, early 40s chasing 50 Cent so you already knew what her mindset was.

All the feminist shaming language in this thread can't change the facts. She's 51 and will die without having any biological kids because of her poor life judgement.

I'm her defense and many other women who are in her situation America completely represents the bad boy era these days, hard not to see it. I see as much women with tats as men. women are growing up being somewhat programmed what's cool.

religion is getting laughed at these days. commercials laughing at so called nice guys.

 

[FukkinDatHo]

Oh well ho, i guess 2 cant play that fukking game can they?

Thats melissa ford in the next 5-10 years, ho act stuck up all her life and end up alone still waiting for some athlete or rap nikka to save her, water drips.

 

[:-)]

I don't understand why another person's misery is funny. I hope she still finds someone that she can have a baby with. At least she has options/men at her feet. Some of us can't even find a man with teeth and in shape lol.

 

[BulletProof]

A shame.

Those are good genes to pass on.

Helped to get me through puberty.

 

[SouthernBelle]

I doubt she can have her own child now (or even wants to). I just think she has regrets. I wish her the best.

 

[filial_piety]

I guess I have to be the one to say what everyone else is thinking... but the cold, hard, reality is that society (both men and women) consider women who haven't or are unable to have children as "lesser" women. It doesn't matter how accomplished, how famous, or how down trodden a woman is, if they have kids they are truly seen as being worth something to man-kind.

And for whatever reason, fair or unfair...society doesn't view men in the same light. And to make matters worse, most men outside of some medical problem can change that at any given time in their lives.

This eats a lot of women up knowing this....but it eats them up even more knowing that men know this as well....

So yes, life sucks, nature sucks, and the truth sucks ...but it is what it is


Now as for Vivca, I can't say I feel too sorry for the likes of her. Both she and Tyra Banks were the epitome of the "too good for the average" types walking around 15-20 years ago. They had the black girl "imma diva" steez that a lot of them were on back then. 20 years later, a few tummy tucks, a face lift or two and some breast augmentation and they are wonderin what happened.

 

[Yo Mama]

Its not that people (well me) think it's funny that she had to find out the hard way.

It's funny that we keep telling women that once they older that that's when they will realize that this whole me, 1st career 1st, no kids is not what's up.


The same thing goes for men, but we luck up and can go a but longer before it really really becomes a problem.


It's good to wait until your ready, but you also have to respect mother nature. You can test her if you want

This is sooooooo... true. I'm all for feminism but we also have to be realistic about obvious biological facts/realities.

Men have a longer window to have children.

Women can and should do it all but be realistic.

 

[LadySimone]

Now as for Vivca, I can't say I feel too sorry for the likes of her. Both she and Tyra Banks were the epitome of the "too good for the average" types walking around 15-20 years ago. They had the black girl "imma diva" steez that a lot of them were on back then. 20 years later, a few tummy tucks, a face lift or two and some breast augmentation and they are wonderin what happened.

Nikka why should they? Are they average? Would you tell cindy Crawford or adriana Lima to date average nikka walking the street? No but you would tell that to a black supermodel. I wonder why.

 

[LadySimone]

Only a black man who is average in everything thinks a black female supermodel should give him play. He would NEVER expect a white super model to give an average joe like him a second glance but because they are black women they don't deserve anything.

@Neva_Die_Alone

 

[Aphrodite]

I empathize. Shouldn't make her feel inadequate though. Every woman shouldn't be a mother. Some who gave birth failed because they were not maternal at all but could just physically produce kids.

 

[The ADD]

Wow gloves came off quickly in here

 

[Larry Lambo]

Only a black man who is average in everything thinks a black female supermodel should give him play. He would NEVER expect a white super model to give an average joe like him a second glance but because they are black women they don't deserve anything.

@Neva_Die_Alone

C'mon. I know someone said that Vivica wasn't giving the average guy play (which I would not expect from any female celeb), but the reality is she was chasing celebrities that were out of her league. A 40 year old woman that is looking for something serious is playing with fire trying date a 30 year old rapper. There were plenty of male actors/singers/former athletes in the 40-50 year old range that would have been down. But she wanted a hot new boy-toy. Hell, she could have just went the socialite route and met successful lawyers and doctors that would have been close to her level.

 

[LadySimone]

C'mon. I know someone said that Vivica wasn't giving the average guy play (which I would not expect from any female celeb), but the reality is she was chasing celebrities that were out of her league. A 40 year old woman that is looking for something serious is playing with fire trying date a 30 year old rapper. There were plenty of male actors/singers/former athletes in the 40-50 year old range that would have been down. But she wanted a hot new boy-toy. Hell, she could have just went the socialite route and met successful lawyers and doctors that would have been close to her level.

She obviously didn't want a kid that bad and if she did she probably wanted it with a particular man.

She had many opportunities to have kids

She probably wanted a kid with a particular type of dude

She wasn't serious about having kids

Feminism has got nothing to go with thus

Halle berry is older with two kids

If there is a will there is a way

I think it's just fashionable now to be an older woman and talk about wanting children