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Aight so last year I met this chick on Instagram. (knew each other for a while but never Spoke to each other :francis:). Started talking in August and got more serious later. Around September I finally chilled with her & bust :wow:. After that we basically dated but still didn't have that title. I was cool with it tho. October was around the time things went downhill :mjcry:. It's like the more I grew feelings for her the less she was interested in the kid. I mean she didn't want to FaceTime anymore. Barely texted back, etc. I'm not mad that she did that, I'm mad she was doing this without letting me know. Made me waste all these damn feelings :scust:.


But anyway, since the beginning of the year, she been comment on my pics trying to get my attention & I kinda got over her. But just now she liked my pic & I ran across her page like "Damn, I kinda miss talking to her :yeshrug:". what should I do brehs? Btw, we stopped talking because of her. We set up a date to the movies & when the day came she stood me up & left me on read. That was November 29 :beli:.


UPDATE : I didn't write her brehs. And wasn't tempted to. It was a thought since I didn't have a convo with her in so long. But yea What I didn't mention is that she deleted me off Facebook WHILE we were talking. I didn't mind it but I never took it into consideration she just wanted to do lowkey shyt. So yea I'm over her.

I been thru situations similar to this so i don't really simp. I just needed a quick reminder why I shouldn't holla at her again or anytime soon.

Brehs you the best! Appreciate the advice. Especially da guy @Emperor_ReinScarf
 
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man leave that hoe alone and move on.
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Aight so last year I met this chick on Instagram. (knew each other for a while but never Spoke to each other :francis:). Started talking in August and got more serious later. Around September I finally chilled with her & bust :wow:. After that we basically dated but still didn't have that title. I was cool with it tho. October was around the time things went downhill :mjcry:. It's like the more I grew feelings for her the less she was interested in the kid. I mean she didn't want to FaceTime anymore. Barely texted back, etc. I'm not mad that she did that, I'm mad she was doing this without letting me know. Made me waste all these damn feelings :scust:.


But anyway, since the beginning of the year, she been comment on my pics trying to get my attention & I kinda got over her. But just now she liked my pic & I ran across her page like "Damn, I kinda miss talking to her :yeshrug:". what should I do brehs? Btw, we stopped talking because of her. We set up a date to the movies & when the day came she stood me up & left me on read. That was November 29 :beli:.

How is this even a question if she stood you up on plans yall made??:rudy:

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Aight so last year I met this chick on Instagram. (knew each other for a while but never Spoke to each other :francis:). Started talking in August and got more serious later. Around September I finally chilled with her & bust :wow:. After that we basically dated but still didn't have that title. I was cool with it tho. October was around the time things went downhill :mjcry:. It's like the more I grew feelings for her the less she was interested in the kid. I mean she didn't want to FaceTime anymore. Barely texted back, etc. I'm not mad that she did that, I'm mad she was doing this without letting me know. Made me waste all these damn feelings :scust:

you were never official so she is not your ex, she's just a girl you got so caught up with and put her on a pedestal.

Started talking
finally chilled
basically dated but still didn't have that title.

You were that nikka in 500 days of summer thinking you were something more than you were not.

Stop wasting time, money, thoughts anything on people who don't value it, the bible has a verse stop throwing your pearls before swine. Ala stop throwing what are your pearls before those who don't appreciate it. As a man your time and who you give it to are one of your most valuable assets, yet you are wasting it on someone who doesn't appreciate it.

But anyway, since the beginning of the year, she been comment on my pics trying to get my attention & I kinda got over her. But just now she liked my pic & I ran across her page like "Damn, I kinda miss talking to her :yeshrug:". what should I do brehs? Btw, we stopped talking because of her. We set up a date to the movies & when the day came she stood me up & left me on read. That was November 29 :beli:.


The old, let me just string along this nikka incase another chick sees his value, so I'll comment on his photos, and still give him hope.

First off this is why if you are "done" with a chick you eradicate her from social media block and DELETE, when you leave holes open the roaches come out. You don't miss talking to her, what you miss is the familiarity, the routine and the highs and lows she brought, trust me she's not special, there are TONS AND TONS AND TONS of women out there who will string you along, flake, give you interest and then go cold.

What you should do is BLOCK AND DELETE, and find a woman that views you valuable. Once you find a woman that is into you the same way or higher than you are into her you will realize how effortless the game is, you will look back and kick yourself for even wasting time thinking thoughts about a woman who does not deem you as valuable.
 

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Lmaooooooo brehs is roasting me. I know I ain't pose to hit her up but I ain't the type to hold grudges or shyt like that. So If I feel a way then Imma hit you up about it & if you don't feel the same way than fukk it. But that's just me :yeshrug:
 

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So she gets dikk from someone else and now that cuffin season is over, she hitting you up. You can hit her up but dont expect anything but more heartbreak and headache. She's not worth either at this point..isn't there some unwritten rule that says "if a chick is on social media, don't fukk with her?" @Emperor_ReinScarf can further expand on this:pachaha:
 

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you were never official so she is not your ex, she's just a girl you got so caught up with and put her on a pedestal.

Started talking
finally chilled
basically dated but still didn't have that title.

You were that nikka in 500 days of summer thinking you were something more than you were not.

Stop wasting time, money, thoughts anything on people who don't value it, the bible has a verse stop throwing your pearls before swine. Ala stop throwing what are your pearls before those who don't appreciate it. As a man your time and who you give it to are one of your most valuable assets, yet you are wasting it on someone who doesn't appreciate it.




The old, let me just string along this nikka incase another chick sees his value, so I'll comment on his photos, and still give him home.

First off this is why if you are "done" with a chick you eradicate her from social media block and DELETE, when you leave holes open the roaches come out. You don't miss talking to her, what you miss is the familiarity, the routine and the highs and lows she brought, trust me she's not special, there are TONS AND TONS AND TONS of women out there who will string you along, flake, give you interest and then go cold.

What you should do is BLOCK AND DELETE, and find a woman that views you valuable.

Deep as hell fam :mjcry: I never looked at it this way
 

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You should have been let that go awhile ago....she was out playing the field and failed now she running back...

So she gets dikk from someone else and now that cuffin season is over, she hitting you up. You can hit her up but dont expect anything but more heartbreak and headache. She's not worth either at this point..

The crazy part is that when we first met, she played the victim roll. "all nikkas hurt me, blah" and I sadly believed it
 
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