Wanna hit my ex up

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Look we all take L's in life, hell I've taken massive ones when it comes to women. But if there is a few things I've learned throughout the years is if a woman wants to be with you NOTHING WILL STOP her.

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It does not matter how you feel about a woman, if she is telling you point blank/or showing you that she does not want to be with you for whatever reason, then she was definitely NOT meant for you and you need to move on. The right woman for you is someone who WANTS to be with you regardless of the situation you are in currently and is taking concrete steps to build with you.

anyone else :camby:
 

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The crazy part is that when we first met, she played the victim roll. "all nikkas hurt me, blah" and I sadly believed it
:francis: fell for the same once...never again. Matter of fact, the next bytch that comes to me talking anything about her past, im bushin that bytch:camby:
 

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The crazy part is that when we first met, she played the victim roll. "all nikkas hurt me, blah" and I sadly believed it
When a broad is texting and messagin you heavy then suddenly slows down for no apparent reason thats your sign to move on to the next...Honestly chasing her makes it worse,if you just stop and ignore her you actually have a better shot at getting her attention back...bytches hate it when you dont pay them no mind...
 

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she already stood you up so nothing else really needs to be said.
but what I would have done (and have in the past) is try to get her to the house, smash and then try to get her in and out of there like she's a random hoe you don't have the time to be bothered with. she'll feel bad and wonder why that's all she gets and you get some sex and can sit back and chill with that PNC. forget all the movie dates and romantic stuff, reserve that for girls who DIDN'T do you dirty.

lol ONLY try this if you sure you can do it with no feelings involved, don't go in there and then halfway through the night you get smitten and start thinking about ending up with this broad again. fool me once shame on you, fool me twice..........
 
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The crazy part is that when we first met, she played the victim roll. "all nikkas hurt me, blah" and I sadly believed it

but who chose those nikkaz?, the funny thing I'm pretty sure all those nikkaz that hurt her, got an official title and she was prob with them longer than she was with you.

I keep telling brehs when a woman tells you something like that, or a guy has never treated her this well, or a guy has never done this and that, to grab your parachute and EJECT.

Never be the guinea pig, ala the first dude to treat her well.

1. she's going to get "scared", she's only used to be treated like crap and then play you or find it boring because all she knows is emotional rollercoasters

2. Her thoughts will be rewrote and suddenly she will think every guy out there is like you, and will get the grass is greener syndrome.

Not saying all but for most its this script, it's just not worth it and that's not even bringing up that she has piss poor choices in choosing men and relationships, if all someone knows is gruel how can they savour the steak?

Focus on emotional stable women with a past history of being in stable enriching relationships.


These cobras are gonna cobra
 

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Look we all take L's in life, hell I've taken massive ones when it comes to women. But if there is a few things I've learned throughout the years is if a woman wants to be with you NOTHING WILL STOP her.

and

It does not matter how you feel about a woman, if she is telling you point blank/or showing you that she does not want to be with you for whatever reason, then she was definitely NOT meant for you and you need to move on. The right woman for you is someone who WANTS to be with you regardless of the situation you are in currently and is taking concrete steps to build with you.

anyone else :camby:
:wow: Gawd i might screenshot this and post this on facebook my nikka.....Dapped and Repped once again.
 

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:francis: fell for the same once...never again. Matter of fact, the next bytch that comes to me talking anything about her past, im bushin that bytch:camby:

chicks have to sell you a sob story, wah wah my ex cheated on me.

But you stayed right? yeah i forgave and he cheated on me again.

Then you get with this chick and that nikka that cheated on her got a longer relationship with her than you did :heh:


These broken down brehettes are not worth it.
 

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:wow: Gawd i might screenshot this and post this on facebook my nikka.....Dapped and Repped once again.

I have a friend who isn't ugly and makes great money, she went down to jamaica and fell for some guy on a resort. She kept going back every few months, called every day, got knocked up, got married and moved down there.

If a woman really wants you, nothing will stop her, not distance, not your status, not your occupation.
 

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Look we all take L's in life, hell I've taken massive ones when it comes to women. But if there is a few things I've learned throughout the years is if a woman wants to be with you NOTHING WILL STOP her.

and

It does not matter how you feel about a woman, if she is telling you point blank/or showing you that she does not want to be with you for whatever reason, then she was definitely NOT meant for you and you need to move on. The right woman for you is someone who WANTS to be with you regardless of the situation you are in currently and is taking concrete steps to build with you.

anyone else :camby:
so damn factual.
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When a broad is texting and messagin you heavy then suddenly slows down for no apparent reason thats your sign to move on to the next...Honestly chasing her makes it worse,if you just stop and ignore her you actually have a better shot at getting her attention back...bytches hate it when you dont pay them no mind...

Usually another guy has become a priority over you. Some people preach having a roster so you don't develop oneitis etc.

I just preach just cut that chick off and get on with your life, any chick that isn't into me, well thank you for showing your intentions. There's a surplus of women out there of every age, culture, demographic that are single and many are waiting for a man like you.

It's just like food, not everyone likes pizza, if someone hates pizza it doesn't matter how you cook it, doesn't matter how you make it look, it doesn't matter. So why try and force that person to like pizza, when there are tons of other people out there who love pizza.
 

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she's cute but because of that emotional connection you forge you have her on a pedestal.

Cut her off, block on facebook and in a few months you'll look back and laugh at yourself.

I do be laughing breh lol instead of letting it damage me, I wrote a bunch of verses about the situation. Partially how I finished my debut mixtape. I got a song on it called "Miserable" that explains it basically. But yeah I don't be dwelling on it cause for the most part I barely think about her. And when I do I look back on what we coulda been. Then I go back into the real world
 
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