Wanna hit my ex up

[Tilesp4p]

chicks have to sell you a sob story, wah wah my ex cheated on me.

But you stayed right? yeah i forgave and he cheated on me again.

Then you get with this chick and that nikka that cheated on her got a longer relationship with her than you did


These broken down brehettes are not worth it.

Literally in this thread like .... ReinScarf you my nikka...you dropped some real gems...and just saved me some time playboy...ima pay it forward and help the next man

 

[_Anghellic_]

She has the face of a fox demon. Looks like she gets off on using dudes for materialistic gain.

 

[MikelArteta]

I do be laughing breh lol instead of letting it damage me, I wrote a bunch of verses about the situation. Partially how I finished my debut mixtape. I got a song on it called "Miserable" that explains it basically. But yeah I don't be dwelling on it cause for the most part I barely think about her. And when I do I look back on what we coulda been. Then I go back into the real world

I'm just telling you I've been where you have been. The back and forth, the clinging to the cliff of hope, instead of going through the times, daily news and post, I'd go through her facebook, instagram, twitter for months .

All of this is wasting time, you could have walked past your future wife today but your so caught up on some chick who doesn't even deem you valuable enough that you may have missed out on your opportunity.

The best thing I ever did in life was sever the ties with all my exes, no friends, no checking social media, no nothing each of them is dead to me. All talking to and marinating on thoughts of exes do is carrying baggage around, weigh down your heart and hinder your progress.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

you were never official so she is not your ex, she's just a girl you got so caught up with and put her on a pedestal.

Started talking
finally chilled
basically dated but still didn't have that title.

You were that nikka in 500 days of summer thinking you were something more than you were not.

Stop wasting time, money, thoughts anything on people who don't value it, the bible has a verse stop throwing your pearls before swine. Ala stop throwing what are your pearls before those who don't appreciate it. As a man your time and who you give it to are one of your most valuable assets, yet you are wasting it on someone who doesn't appreciate it.




The old, let me just string along this nikka incase another chick sees his value, so I'll comment on his photos, and still give him hope.

First off this is why if you are "done" with a chick you eradicate her from social media block and DELETE, when you leave holes open the roaches come out. You don't miss talking to her, what you miss is the familiarity, the routine and the highs and lows she brought, trust me she's not special, there are TONS AND TONS AND TONS of women out there who will string you along, flake, give you interest and then go cold.

What you should do is BLOCK AND DELETE, and find a woman that views you valuable. Once you find a woman that is into you the same way or higher than you are into her you will realize how effortless the game is, you will look back and kick yourself for even wasting time thinking thoughts about a woman who does not deem you as valuable.

couldn't have said it better myself. Reinscarf for the win.

Lmaooooooo brehs is roasting me. I know I ain't pose to hit her up but I ain't the type to hold grudges or shyt like that. So If I feel a way then Imma hit you up about it & if you don't feel the same way than fukk it. But that's just me

And yet the simping continues.

















Breh, lemme give you some advice: If you don't wanna hear the truth, then why even ask the question? You already knew that you were gonna be simping again before you even asked this question.

So why create the thread and waste our time? I just wasted 2 min of my time that I'll never get back.

 

[Deathstroke]

Left you on read. Cot dayum these girls are heartless nowadays. So disrespectful, it's not worth it man!Move on.

 

[MikelArteta]

Literally in this thread like .... ReinScarf you my nikka...you dropped some real gems...and just saved me some time playboy...ima pay it forward and help the next man

None of these broads are special.

Think about your mother, the one constant woman in your life, the one woman who has said she loves you and is still around. The one woman who always has time for you and views you as a priority.

Now think of all these transient ass woman, chicks who uttered they love and cared about you, where are they now? Cavorting and canoodling with another nikka, texting another nikka, your probably not even on their mind.

If you are lucky you will be blessed with a special woman who will be your wife, and just think of that, even if you marry thats only 1 woman of possibly the hundreds you talked to or dated, or slept with that was actually SPECIAL enough to go on life's journey with you.

Every other chick is not special, if a chick leaves you, cheats, flakes, discards you, her feelings changed she is not special.

It's crazy how it's just all in our heads, we just need to control our thoughts.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

OP might simp a lil bit, but at least he knows how to do a proper thread



she's cute

lil bit too skinny for me, but trust me when I tell you: She's not worth the time you're spending thinking about her.

There's far prettier women out here, and they won't play you the way she did




I know some posters are telling you to use her for sex, but I'm with Reinscarf. The emotional connection you have with her is too strong, and if you try to hit and quit, it won't work for you.

You're too wrapped up, and you'll wind up taking multiple L's in the long run.

The only way you can win this one is to just cut her off completely. Don't even respond to her stuff. Block her

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I'm just telling you I've been where you have been. The back and forth, the clinging to the cliff of hope, instead of going through the times, daily news and post, I'd go through her facebook, instagram, twitter for months .

sad thing is.... I've been there too

 

[MikelArteta]

Left you on read. Cot dayum these girls are heartless nowadays. So disrespectful, it's not worth it man!Move on.

Better early than late,

It's worst when you are really invested if you have never experienced a woman you love, or who has said she loved and cared about you go cold when yesterday she was hot for you, you won't believe it.

I remember being young and the first time it happened to me I was literally in shock and couldn't comprehend it. I'm not saying I'm perfect but I did nothing wrong. Hell with the few chicks that have discarded me their mothers stayed in touch with me for sometimes even years after, I'm only saying this in terms of me having done nothing wrong. No cheating, no stepping out, no treating them bad nothing, their emotions for me just changed like that. It doesn't matter how you treat them, nothing at all matters. Before I used to get frustrated and try to see what I was doing wrong, the only wrong thing I was doing was choosing women who were not of worth. These same chicks right now are still single, can't hold stable relationships and it just verified it was them not me.

this is why I don't even entertain women with tales, or just broken if they haven't had therapy. I'm like a prestigious law school with the qualifications you need to even step in the door

 

[MikelArteta]

OP might simp a lil bit, but at least he knows how to do a proper thread



she's cute

lil bit too skinny for me, but trust me when I tell you: She's not worth the time you're spending thinking about her.

There's far prettier women out here, and they won't play you the way she did




I know some posters are telling you to use her for sex, but I'm with Reinscarf. The emotional connection you have with her is too strong, and if you try to hit and quit, it won't work for you.

You're too wrapped up, and you'll wind up taking multiple L's in the long run.

The only way you can win this one is to just cut her off completely. Don't even respond to her stuff. Block her

the sex will just make it worse in his case, it will be like an alcoholic just having one drink.

If he just blocked her and got on with his life in a few months he'll probably reach indifference.

 

[MikelArteta]

sad thing is.... I've been there too

I've made every mistake in the book, which is why I know not to make them anymore.

sad thing this dude will probably hit her up, temptation to strong get that little high then deal with the massive low.

 

[Jesus]

Little thotter is a 6.5 at best....nikka move on.

Props for actuallly posting a pic though....

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

sad thing this dude will probably hit her up, temptation to strong get that little high then deal with the massive low.

Yeah, the simp is strong in this one.




he'll have to learn the lesson the hard way

 

[MikelArteta]

Little thotter is a 6.5 at best....nikka move on.

Props for actuallly posting a pic though....

it has nothing to do with looks though

the emotional connection plus rejection will make her seem better to that person than to anyone else.

I've had many beautiful women in my life , but after the fact and looking back sometimes its just , they were just iight, but when I was with them and caught up in the high no one could compare.

 

[Deathstroke]

Better early than late,

It's worst when you are really invested if you have never experienced a woman you love, or who has said she loved and cared about you go cold when yesterday she was hot for you, you won't believe it.

I remember being young and the first time it happened to me I was literally in shock and couldn't comprehend it. I'm not saying I'm perfect but I did nothing wrong. Hell with the few chicks that have discarded me their mothers stayed in touch with me for sometimes even years after, I'm only saying this in terms of me having done nothing wrong. No cheating, no stepping out, no treating them bad nothing, their emotions for me just changed like that. It doesn't matter how you treat them, nothing at all matters. Before I used to get frustrated and try to see what I was doing wrong, the only wrong thing I was doing was choosing women who were not of worth. These same chicks right now are still single, can't hold stable relationships and it just verified it was them not me.

this is why I don't even entertain women with tales, or just broken if they haven't had therapy. I'm like a prestigious law school with the qualifications you need to even step in the door

Bolded part is so true. I've wasted so much time in the past wondering what I did wrong.