Want to break up with my girl, struggling to find the right time to do it. HELP!!!

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Next time she leave the refrigerator door open go off on her

 

[Orange cream shake]

Why don’t you ask her. If both of y’all miserable, this shouldn’t be that hard

 

[LadyJ2]

Cheat and leave your phone unlocked.

 

[Roger king]

I haven't been a such a situation so i cant speak on it to be honest all i will say is nothing is valuable as having a peace of mind and sanity

 

[Menna]

We been dating for 8 months, we are both not happy & forcing things, no one wants to end it because they don't want to be the "bad guy" who ended it.

I'm ready to end things but struggling to find the right timing, I don't want to mess up things going on in her life.

She is preparing for a big 100k+ job interview this week, She got a friend visiting her next week. She arranged for a cookout with another couple we know the week after. Over a month of things planned

When should I end things?

Now...

8 months lol...So you have seen eachother 15x lol...bro let it go...You are internalizing and assuming how she is going to feel...may be she will be happy you break up with her and will be somewhat happy about it...you are assuming she is going to be so upset she does bad at her interview and you care about cancelled plans with her friends and other people more than your happiness...

You prob should of broke it off 6 weeks ago...after all these plans then you gonna say thanksgiving around the corner...then theres christmas...then new years then Vday now we into March lol.....

I know a Wife and husband that deep down aren't the happy last month the wife is talking about we (The husband and her) just booked a cruse in May we need to get away....nikka 9 months from now lol they gonna be sitting around thinking I can't wait for that cruse...its no way to live...Keep kicking the can down the road or you will "feel bad" for 3 weeks...

 

[shopthatwrecks]

Give us her number and we'll tell her for you

he luv that girl i gave him a playa ass coli deal...money back guaranteed

 

[Pseudonym]

Now. Don’t waste her time.

 

[Menna]

he luv that girl i gave him a playa ass coli deal...money back guaranteed

Yes, leave her number I'll text her you boy too scared to tell you he doesn't really like you so you are hearing it from me...Its best if you leave and never talk to him again move on...

 

[Menna]

Some of you guys are online too much (and this is coming from someone who has a billion posts in this forum).

Being apprehensive to dumping someone you've dated for months It's something that happens with both sexes

Yes if you are like 25+ which I assume majority of posters are here. You gone out with a women for like 6-8 months and you are too scared to break it off....No kid with her, not engaged and its just fukking and doing things I think there is a psychological problem or some sort of trauma that stopped proper development as a man IMO... OP you raised by just your mother or alot of women in your life when you young?

 

[ABlackMan]

Fake ass thread

 

[Menna]

Be a man and just end it. Ending a relationship is never easy and there is always blow back from the party that got dumped.

Be prepared for a huge wave of emotion from your girl. It’ll eventually pass.

When I got dumped or if another "does wrong" in a relationship ... I just cut them off cold turkey its actual easier for me and I am absolved from all guilty feelings and I have no problem moving on...

If there was alot of time in and its takes me by surprise well that sucks... but like under a year or so...whatever.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

Two good people but incompatible in so many ways, we tried to force things to work, but it aint

man if u dont get this if ever youre in my arms again peabo bryson ass shyt..

u wanna be there for the job
the friend coming into town
the fish fry...


dont u go nowherrrrrrrre without meeee 4ever muhammad 2 g ass nikka...

 

[Menna]

Or worse. Years ago I told this chic I wanted to end things. She begged me to stay, told me she would be better. A couple months later, she ended it with me


She just wanted to be the one to do it on her terms. Young Neo learned a very important lesson

If a women says i'll do or be better that means they knew who they were before they did the shyt and they still did it...sooooooooo...They just test and see what YOU will put up with...its all disingenuous...They put in the math and say I know I can get my shyt off with other nikkas .... women just want to do their shyt have protection in forms of financial and get emotionally fed ....

 

[Menna]

man if u dont get this if ever youre in my arms again peabo bryson ass shyt..

u wanna be there for the job
the friend coming into town
the fish fry...


dont u go nowherrrrrrrre without meeee 4ever muhammad 2 g ass nikka...

In two months one of her cousins gonna get sick and he will say he gotta stay...You can care about a person and not be with them ya know

 

[Menna]

You could tell her you realized your gay and its not fair to her for you two to be together...