Want to break up with my girl, struggling to find the right time to do it. HELP!!!

[International Playa]

We been dating for 8 months, we are both not happy & forcing things, no one wants to end it because they don't want to be the "bad guy" who ended it.

I'm ready to end things but struggling to find the right timing, I don't want to mess up things going on in her life.

She is preparing for a big 100k+ job interview this week, She got a friend visiting her next week. She arranged for a cookout with another couple we know the week after. Over a month of things planned

When should I end things?

 

[Diondon]

Before Christmas

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

I ended a relationship on Valentine's Day.

FDB.

I value peace over BULLSHYT/stress.​

 

[Sniper]

End it now if you're both unhappy.

 

[Matt504]

"no one wants to end it because they don't want to be the bad guy"

While this is obviously how you feel, isn't it possible that you're projecting this onto her?

The best time to break up with her was yesterday, the next best time is now.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Valentine's Day a while back:

Me: **Calls g/f at the time**
Her: Hello?
Me: Hey, Tasha. Happy Valentine's Day. I got something for you.
Her: Really? What? A bracelet? Some flowers?
Me: Nope
Her: What did you get me?
Me: Your freedom. I don't want to be with you anymore.

**Click**
​

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

I really hate dumping women too because my guilty conscience gets the best of me.

Usually I just become a shyttier and shyttier boyfriend until they dump me.

If I were in your shoes I'd be supportive until she gets her job and then slowly drift away

Btw I'm giving you shytty immature advice but that's just the way I'd handle it

 

[JuvenileHell]

Before Christmas

*on Christmas

 

[Blackrogue]

 

[The Pledge]

ASAP

Pull the bandaid off

 

[shopthatwrecks]

We been dating for 8 months, we are both not happy & forcing things, no one wants to end it because they don't want to be the "bad guy" who ended it.

I'm ready to end things but struggling to find the right timing, I don't want to mess up things going on in her life.

She is preparing for a big 100k+ job interview this week, She got a friend visiting her next week. She arranged for a cookout with another couple we know the week after. Over a month of things planned

When should I end things?

wha she look like
wha city are yall in


ill make the trip infiltrate the friend visiting date..one night her.. n have her sneak off to talk 2 me...for a couple of days

u can fake mad n dump her because she is a cheating slut

normal price for the wreck experience is $375

coli discount ill do it for 30

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Just tell her you found out you have a son from a previous relationship and you need to refocus. He’s your world now.

 

[BronxFleeZ]

It’s gonna be your fault regardless how it go so just be prepare for that

 

[International Playa]

"no one wants to end it because they don't want to be the bad guy"

While this is obviously how you feel, isn't it possible that you're projecting this onto her?

The best time to break up with her was yesterday, the next best time is now.

She has also expressed how its one of the worst relationship she has been too. Both of us things aren't working. We are the wrong fit for each other

 

[LuuqMaan]

It’s gonna be your fault anyways so might as well…

Surprise her with extremely good sex during this stressful time, some expensive dinner then dump her after the couple leave

I remind you, the sex needs to be your best with her