Was this a valid reason to break up with her?

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Any reason is a good reason, tbh

Relationships are supposed to be partnerships where both partners do their part to ensure both sides are happy and fulfilled. It doesn’t work when one person is asked to do a lot and the other side doesn’t appreciate it, neglects their part or nags about things.

Modern women aren’t built to sustain longer term relationships. They just want the status and benefits that come with it.
 
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i haven't seen this show but if the premise is to get engaged at random then yes..... ANY reason is a good reason to break it off lol
and no, it won't be unexpected. it's actually expected!
 

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Me and my wife try to catch this series. I dunno how to call it cuz they edited out a lot with this couple including an early big fight where he almost left her.

Could be that shes uncooperative or on some diva shyt but tbf for the most part dude just seem like he needs an old, old school yes woman.

Couple times during the season he remind me of my uncle who think whatever he says goes & people are just supposed to shut up and listen to him. Out here makin mountains outta molehills, any slight disagreement or fallin short of what he thinks should happen and its deuces. Just unreasonable 🤷‍♂️

i haven't seen this show but if the premise is to get engaged at random then yes..... ANY reason is a good reason to break it off lol
and no, it won't be unexpected. it's actually expected!

Most men don't break up over one thing but a series of red flags or violations.
Buddy did the right thing, she acts like a diva bust is mad lazy and messy.from the state of her apartment, disrespectful, and the way she treated his parents this was the last straw

Dirty ass apartment. Could be a mental health issue


Can't communicate


Hands in pocket like ahe don't care to meet his parents


Overall this woman is a walking red flag,he made the right decision. After all that women on social media is bashing this man
 
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Most men don't break up over one thing but a series of red flags or violations.
Buddy did the right thing, she acts like a diva bust is mad lazy and messy.from the state of her apartment, disrespectful, and the way she treated his parents this was the last straw

Dirty ass apartment. Could be a mental health issue


Can't communicate


Hands in pocket like ahe don't care to meet his parents


Overall this woman is a walking red flag,he made the right decision. After all that women on social media is bashing this man


At that big age (where you are trying to settle down) there is no reason for a series of red flags. if you know you can't take messy, and you go over there and see messy, there is no need to consider engagement lol. so if that's how "most men" allegedly are then all i can say is blame yourselves.... but i get that this is for clout though.

also that last scene seemed unproblematic and very wholesome. she greeted them with hugs and engaged in the conversation like a normal person. it sounds like you are personally invested in adding red flags to this person lol
 
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This same woman was on DT’s Story series and dropped her friends to travel on a tour bus with some rappers claiming she only cuddled with them, and in another story also ditched her friends and her bf at a club without telling anyone and went awol for the whole night after calling one of her male friends while she had a bf at the time, then chased her bf across a bridge when he tried to leave.
They’ve deleted the videos from their page, which goes to show people try to clean up thier junk when going to find a partner, but leopards don’t change thier spots. @MikelArteta
-edit. The only video of hers they have left up is the one where she talks about how she found out her boyfriend was gay, but they took down the ones where she was the tour bus female and when she left her man and friends at the club. That’s messed up that the only video she’d ask dormtainment to leave up is the one where you’re airing out someone else’s dirty laundry but you want to hide your own under private video.
 
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Look, the honest truth is women are lazy, breh. There is no such thing as 50/50 in a successful relationship. As a man you are going to have to do a bare minimum of at least 60-70% of the work domestically while clapping your hands and celebrating her bullshyt azz 10-20% like she's a toddler learning to shyt in the pot.

I dated a girl like this. Bought the groceries, cooked the food, and gave her the rest of the leftovers. This bih crying about cleaning up the pots and dishes I left in the sink. She spent 10 minutes cleaning and 20 minutes biching about it. Finally I was cleaning the dishes too cuz I just wanted peace and quiet. Of course we didn't last.
nah, I cannot agree with this. My ex cooked every single time, I only ever touched the stove a few times when we lived in separate cities. I would cook for her during her flight so she arrives to a home cooked meal. The rest of the visit would be her cleaning AND cooking for both of us and she would make sure she cooks and leaves me meals packed up in the fridge the night before her return flight. The few months we lived together before our relationship ended, she cooked and cleaned everyday on condition that I do the dishes for supper everyday (which to me was a fair trade for never cooking again). We went half on groceries and rent. The main downside is that she had a young 5 year old son and was always insecure about me leaving her at a moment's notice that it ended up with us having a huge fight were insults were hurled and things we couldn't take back were said. I moved out of the apartment after a month of just "coexisting" and never talked to her again.

A chick's behavior is determined by how she was raised at home. Luckily for me I have never wifed up a chick who won't cook up a storm and clean the place up. Feminine black women exist, you just have to have a keen eye and know what to look for during the "talking" stage.

I would bush this double chinned lazy heifer so quick. I don't blame him at all :yeshrug:
 
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