Was this Black Male Registered Nurse wrong for this?

[blues_funk_reggae]

Some of those responses are insanely embarrassing.
And a side note, when it comes to the whole "kill them with kindness" thing on social media, it simply does not work.

 

[Dipsey Doo]

Does he really care or he trying to chase views on Tik Tok responding or tagging a very popular Tik Toker?

 

[feelosofer]

He wasn't wrong and he tried to be gentle in his approach but she is basically trading her health for clout and money hell dude himself is a fan. But she is not going to listen to him when her doctors (if she goes to the doctor) have been saying for years. He is attaching himself to her videos to bring some attention to himself. This is basically elaborate concern trolling.

 

[Roger king]

I see nothing wrong with what this brother said, he spoke not out of a place of hate but compassion not out of viciousness but good faith, i am a bit overweight myself and i am trying to eat right and better myself everyday with my food choices to live a younger and better life, i take the advice and hope she does as well

 

[AAKing23]

That's why you let muhfukkas be stupid and kill themselves, has nothing to do with you

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

I’d be surprised if a hospital fired him for telling people to try to be healthy. I mean, it’s literally his job and what they expect him to do. Not to mention he is a travel nurse, so he probably changes employers fairly frequently anyway.

Again, it’s sound advice but hospitals are corporations
Mental illness reigns supreme in this era
Companies don’t want that smoke or to fukk up their bottom line
A hospital has a board and a chain of command
If enough people start some goofy shyt like posted above
Or a overweight patient comes in and starts capping about the care they received afterwards
Welp hes setting himself up for that smoke
And many companies aren’t even truly investigating incidents
They just throw a muthafukka to the wolves with no explanation
And will hide behind “ At Will”
Let’s face it, this is a BLACK MAN, commenting on a woman’s eating habits
IN UNIFORM
I truly wonder what world you nikkas live n to be this naive

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

I'm not religious by any means, but when my Bible thumping parents used to take me to church, I would take lil tidbits here and there.

One of the greatest messages I've heard and took with me is NOT to argue with fools.

The nurse was completely accurate in what he said, but his greatest sin is even addressing this lady in the first place. We've been known that a bad diet kills. I know, even she knows. Why tf are you even trying to talk to this lady for clout?

Black men please value your time and effort. Stop interacting with people whose brains are now part of an algorithm.

 

[maxamusa]

veagan babble.

breh a hater.

you a RN you see types of wild shyt everyday,

why you single her out?

especially considering he an ex-fatso who had to get surgery cause he lacked discipline.

My cousin works in an emergency room as a nurse. She says every week they get TONS of phaggots in there cause they lost something in their a$$hole; pause


if breh wants to call out LGBTQ I'll retract my hate.

 

[maxamusa]

Breh had his ID all out there. We talk about young people doing shyt for clout, but breh was taking a risk with his primary income.



But he wasn't wrong.

he deserves it.

it'd be like a recovered junkie making a PSA on how drugs are bad talking down to J's. This shyt came from an evil place.

fukk this clown.

 

[Ridge Forrester]

Leave this fat bytch alone to eat herself to death. Damn.

 

[Jaguar93]

Homie learned an important lesson today and that’s mind your own business. Even if it comes from a place of love and concern. Some people especially those that’s not family or friends. Don’t want to hear that shyt it is what it is. Especially with the body positivity movement and the popularity of mukbangs.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

He said nothing wrong but he is saying it in uniform
These companies don’t want any smoke
Wearing your uniform makes it easily identifiable
Say that shyt in street clothes as a loophole to them trying to press you about your content on your own social media
It may not be 100 proof but you can at least fight it from an angle of you doing this on your time
The uniform makes it look like you are using THEIR time
It’s a huge difference

You really can't. Some companies own you on or off the clock.

 

[NZA]

black women dont want random critiques. you have to have some kind of relationship with her for that to work

 

[bnew]

black women dont want random critiques. you have to have some kind of relationship with her for that to work

vast majority of people don't' want unsolicited random critiques about something personal as their weight or appearance in general. heck people get in their feelings if you critique their clothes. i'm willing to bet she's received hundreds of DM's with advice but this guy chose to make a video with her as an example and it appears he's made more than one video commenting about her health.

what irks me about the rhetoric used to justify this is that "he's coming from a good place" it's no different from those who proselytize their religion and feel they can speak on something personal without knowing you cause they trying to "save you".

do people who smoke or drank get these unsolicited video responses with them stitched into it about how smoking and drinking are bad for their health?
what about people eating candy and sweets? do they get dental warnings?

 

[NZA]

vast majority of people don't' want unsolicited random critiques about something personal as their weight or appearance in general. heck people get in their feelings if you critique their clothes. i'm willing to bet she's received hundreds of DM's with advice but this guy chose to make a video with her as an example and it appears he's made more than one video commenting about her health.

what irks me about the rhetoric used to justify this is that "he's coming from a good place" it's no different from those who proselytize their religion and feel they can speak on something personal without knowing you cause they trying to "save you".

do people who smoke or drank get these unsolicited video responses with them stitched into it about how smoking and drinking are bad for their health?
what about people eating candy and sweets? do they get dental warnings?

nobody loves unsolicited critiques but i think different communities handle it less publicly hostile than black folk due. these internet gender wars are particular...

considering this is a mukbanger with "fans", i think watching morbidly obese people eat large amounts of cholesterol for money regularly like a circus geek is not exactly the same as seeing a random person eat candy in public once. one looks like it really is going down a dangerous and predictable path, the other is essentially a one-off with no other context known. because of that, i dont doubt his concern is sincere. but still, he should have enough life experience to know that this was not going to go well for him.