Washington Post: Hookup Culture Isn’t The Real Problem Facing Singles Today. It’s Math.

[itsyoung!!]

This is why I've never made getting married or getting a man a priority. Most men are shytty so if you get one, no matter how good you are to him, he will just cheat and treat you like. Even though I'm getting married, It will probably end with him cheating so it doesn't really matter. So I just worry about myself. There's literally no reason to be a "good woman" because men will just use you then throw you away. Biggest reason why I will never let a man lead me, never be submissive, and never depend on a man.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

*sigh*

This country...

1. Hookup culture is due to no one having moral values anymore.
2. Sex is more prevalent because society is driving it that way.
3. No one believes in college anymore except people that don't have any natural ability.
4. Out west you won't find a mate any sooner than back east. It's only a lower level of selection there because people have higher goals besides "gettin dat nuuuut"

 

[Action Mike]

Fair enough... but I'd say the majority of men want to have kids and pass on a legacy. I'd even go as far as to say that educated men skew more towards wanting kids than non-educated men.

Majority dudes don't sit up in night vigils and pray a woman comes, we know we can only kill what we hunt...

 

[KinksandCoils]

Bbbb but women want thugs. She's not expecting you to have a high salary.

Which is it with you men

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

Basically, here is the best strategy for the modern man

Take care of yourself(Gym, dress sharp, grooming, look good and feel)
Stack paper(Degree, trade, small business, whatever method)
Game them without any real intention of settling
Pump and dump these women
Never get married

Cold. But this is the reality these days.

Damn....I hate to admit it. but this is so true.

 

[The_Truth]

These men don't know what they are talking about. Tell women to marry in their "primes" but ignore the high rate of divorce among people who marry so young. They're just too stupid to breathe.

On another note my thread about Kenya Moore exposed all these frauds in here. None of this shyt means anything to black women because we have gone umpteen generations of marrying and dating down. The economic failures of black men have been a noose around our neck for generations. This ain't news to us. They want us to consider blue collar men. Ok. Where are these blue collar men? In the black community even they don't exist.

It's rather interesting that the few black men who do have it together love to celebrate their unicorn status. Enjoy the fruits of the comparatively high number of failed black men who inflate their value.

The black community remains a dangerous place for black women and girls.

Then get the fukk out.

 

[aXiom]

This is why I've never made getting married or getting a man a priority. Most men are shytty so if you get one, no matter how good you are to him, he will just cheat and treat you like. Even though I'm getting married, It will probably end with him cheating so it doesn't really matter. So I just worry about myself. There's literally no reason to be a "good woman" because men will just use you then throw you away. Biggest reason why I will never let a man lead me, never be submissive, and never depend on a man.

God you're annoying with this dumb ass logic. If you decide to let your irrational fear of getting cheated on stop you from being happy then be my guest. There are a lot of good men and women who are perfectly capable of holding up their end of the bargain.

These men don't know what they are talking about. Tell women to marry in their "primes" but ignore the high rate of divorce among people who marry so young. They're just too stupid to breathe.

On another note my thread about Kenya Moore exposed all these frauds in here. None of this shyt means anything to black women because we have gone umpteen generations of marrying and dating down. The economic failures of black men have been a noose around our neck for generations. This ain't news to us. They want us to consider blue collar men. Ok. Where are these blue collar men? In the black community even they don't exist.

It's rather interesting that the few black men who do have it together love to celebrate their unicorn status. Enjoy the fruits of the comparatively high number of failed black men who inflate their value.

The black community remains a dangerous place for black women and girls.

c*nt, why the fukk do you even post here?

Today it's "I love black men, I don't know how I ever could live without them"

Tomorrow it's "Black men are the Achilles heel of the black woman"

Confused ass hoe... you should probably start eating p*ssy

 

[Ensoniq]

this all changes if you want to have kids and have a women raise them accordingly

 

[GunRanger]

Real talk, so many black women now look down on guys without degrees. It's like you can see the disgust on their faces, especially the 30+ ones

 

[NoirDynosaur]

What if I told you the real hookup era was the free love movement and the modern era is just a revisit of that?

The biggest difference is lack of technological presence and more face to face communication in the 60s and 70s, even the 80s.

Free Love | American Experience | PBS