Washington Post: Hookup Culture Isn’t The Real Problem Facing Singles Today. It’s Math.

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Tremendous.



What he doesn't mention is the social aspect, to wit, the majority of Silicon Valley guys are nerdy simps with asberger tendencies (truth). If this dynamic changed and suddenly cats turned into say, Chris Hemsworth in Blackhat (guys with extreme confidence in their abilities, their money, and their bodies), women would be getting the same treatment.

Imagine a bunch of hackers running around like:
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No. See above. Getting married to subpar San Francisco women doesn't equal winning. The opposite actually.



This is the first advice all young men should be given, along with essential on talking to women and "game."

Never allow yourself to get washed.

Not cold at all...in any way. It's not cold when Kravitz, Clooney, or Jeter does it. nikkas out here looking, dressing, and being better than they were in their 20's.

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Surrounded by 18 year olds right now (college), before that was surrounded by teenagers. People tend to assume these young dudes have swagger or whatever. Most nikkas aren't even close to interesting before the age of 25.

These young girls are basically enamored with men who are not washed. Even if you are washed, make a change.

You sound 20. Don't get me wrong I'm sure there is truth to what u say among certain demographics but do you really think you're gonna be about that shyt 20 years from now?
 

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Most smart women realize that if they make a high amount of money finding a man that makes more is going to be hard and expecting that is unrealistic.

But nothing is black and white people complain about finding partners but in reality a lot of men and now women aren't interested in marriage because neither side see a benefit. The only issue or problem is most people will say they still want kids. Which raises the question about two parent households and OOW birth rate which everyone stills views as negative (OOW birthrate) and two parent household as positive yet marriage is becoming more so viewed negatively by most.

A lot of women in the past and now married for financial security. That's why men with money have tons of options of women to fukk with :yeshrug:. And men married to have someone raise/take care of their children and do duties at home such as cook and clean.

But in 2015 if you're a woman who has her own money or a man that can cook for himself or doesnt want kids a lot are like whats the point of a serious relationship or marriage :yeshrug:.

I don't see this as a negative to be honest a lot of marriges in the past and now we're based on superficial reasons that had nothing to do with the fairytale love story movies portray.

That said I'd still like to have a traditional family myself but in 2015 the choice is yours.
 

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These women are waiting for some rich, degreed guy to marry them, but yet they are hooking up all the time, and yet they want to settle down at 30 with some rare catch of a guy... some guy who has money, a degree and access to women in their 20s who are all looking for this similar type of guy? These women won't cook and clean, but they expect some guy to ring up a 30+year old whose mileage has been ran up? Come on now. But we'll have a ton of articles telling these women lies and assuring them it will be alright and billy big bucks will be here to scoop them up in their 40s with millions of dollars and a fantasy lifestyle, but until then, all the men are gay or in prison or are too poor and unworthy of them.

I been telling these women, if you want the best chance at getting married, you better do it while you are in your prime and keep your mileage low.
 

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Most smart women realize that if they make a high amount of money finding a man that makes more is going to be hard and expecting that is unrealistic.

But nothing is black and white people complain about finding partners but in reality a lot of men and now women aren't interested in marriage because neither side see a benefit. The only issue or problem is most people will say they still want kids. Which raises the question about two parent households and OOW birth rate which everyone stills views as negative (OOW birthrate) and two parent household as positive yet marriage is becoming more so viewed negatively by most.

A lot of women in the past and now married for financial security. That's why men with money have tons of options of women to fukk with :yeshrug:. And men married to have someone raise/take care of their children and do duties at home such as cook and clean.

But in 2015 if you're a woman who has her own money or a man that can cook for himself or doesnt want kids a lot are like whats the point of a serious relationship or marriage :yeshrug:.

I don't see this as a negative to be honest a lot of marriges in the past and now we're based on superficial reasons that had nothing to do with the fairytale love story movies portray.

That said I'd still like to have a traditional family myself but in 2015 the choice is yours.
Oow both rate being negative is a bunch of horse shyt.

Most people get married and then divorce anyway. 50% after 5 years. I could count on my hands how many people at my school had parents that were still together by graduation

Mine still are, but that's not the point
 

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Oow both rate being negative is a bunch of horse shyt.

Most people get married and then divorce anyway. 50% after 5 years. I could count on my hands how many people at my school had parents that were still together by graduation

Mine still are, but that's not the point
True point but the OOW birthrate is one the top talking points of why the black community is fukked.

The funny part a big part of the divorce rate is from WHITE PEOPLE that get married UNDER THE AGE OF 25. Then have babies in wedlock then the white woman files for divorce at age 27. But hey numbers wise the baby was still born in wedlock and white people look good because they're good at having shotgun marriages/wedding. So many cacs from my high school were getting married at 18, 19, 20 and then having kids. I'm 27 now and yeah I'd say about half of them are now divorced :francis:.
 

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Exactly... These over educated kids on general r suckers...I can b an entrepreneur and make an unlimited amount of money. But ppl r lazy and want comfort

I dont even think it's about being lazy as much as folks just not thinking outside the box and being scared to jump out there. I give a fukk what anybody say, as a Black man I have a better chance of doing this shyt on my own and getting to the top than I do working for someone else and playing the game and hoping the Cac I work for lets me get to the top.

nikkas think this shyt a fairy tale. They don't fukk with us. I've seen too many 40-60 year old Black men get screwed over in their jobs. Passed over for promotions, layed off, fired for BS. shyt happens everyday and it ruins lives and crushes dreams
 

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I keep telling nikkas, chicks are turning 18 everyday. As long as your salary keeps increasing with your age and you stay in shape there's no real reason to settle down before 35 :francis:
I keep telling nikkas, chicks are turning 18 everyday. As long as your salary keeps increasing with your age and you stay in shape there's no real reason to settle down before 35 :francis:
That's old even for a man.
 

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You sound 20. Don't get me wrong I'm sure there is truth to what u say among certain demographics but do you really think you're gonna be about that shyt 20 years from now?

This sounds feminine and lame.

I remember this single mom talking to me about how her ex-husband used to dogg her out with other women. I quote, "We had kids but he wanted to keep messing around with his 18 year olds."

Dude was mid-thirties, in super good shape.

I remember thinking, "that's my kind of guy." :yeshrug:

nikkas think this shyt a fairy tale. They don't fukk with us. I've seen too many 40-60 year old Black men get screwed over in their jobs. Passed over for promotions, layed off, fired for BS. shyt happens everyday and it ruins lives and crushes dreams

Plenty of white boys get laid off too, the American Dream is an antiquated concept and you should be invested in You, all the time. People get complacent and sink.

Stop telling half the story, black people thrive as well. It's a tough world for everyone.
 

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No, hookup culture is the problem. Why would any of these dudes who have it together get married to these women who've been hooking up all throughout their 20s in their prime? And why can't women 'marry down' financially like men have been doing if they want to be married so bad? It's funny how we're in this super sexist patriarchal society, yet not one thing is being done about the lack of men in colleges now.
Are you saying that men don't value commitment/companionship only sex ?
 

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This sounds feminine and lame.

I remember this single mom talking to me about how her ex-husband used to dogg her out with other women. I quote, "We had kids but he wanted to keep messing around with his 18 year olds."

Dude was mid-thirties, in super good shape.

I remember thinking, "that's my kind of guy."



Plenty of white boys get laid off too, the American Dream is an antiquated concept and you should be invested in You, all the time. People get complacent and sink.

Stop telling half the story, black people thrive as well. It's a tough world.
I'm just saying you out here with a damn doctoral thesis on the subject when you sound like a kid fresh outta high school:pachaha:

What to tell young nikkas as a young nikka..hmmm:jbhmm:
 
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