We need to have a discussion….. because this IS NOT SEXUAL ASSAULT…

[Vandelay]

Gotta play Russian Roulette with the assault/unwanted advance game.

 

[Koba St]

I've seen this a lot lately.
Brehs are now going super PC and subscribing to women's line of thinking in regards to a few topics.
Especially when it comes to the definition of sexual assault, the concept of toxic masculinity, etc.
Regardless of each individual's guilt or innocence, the public demonization of Cosby, Jackson, Kelly, Weinstein, Lauer, Cuomo, etc, got nikkas shook out here.
Look at Charlamagne, after coming close to the guillotine, he's been the poster boy for intersectionality.

While it's not okay to sexually assault or harass anyone, and unhealthy male behavior must be unlearned, women have to evolve along with us for it work.
It's impractical and more importantly, hypocritical for women to demonize men for their unhealthy behaviors but still defiantly hold on to their own unhealthy behaviors, as if it is their right.
What is the point of demonizing or invalidating certain sexual and social mores and norms as toxic, but still demanding that men still engage in those behaviors when women see fit?
For example, to rail publicly about "toxic masculinty" but then turn around and desire a "thug" for a life partner.
To the extreme of saying publicly, that a man must be a murderer to meet her romantic requirements, or that she has to see has to witness him commit violence to meet her romantic criteria.

We gotta come to an agreement on what's what and it can't be as vague and nebulous as it's been so far.

Not forcing yourself on a woman is pc now apparently

 

[FeverPitch2]

Not forcing yourself on a woman is pc now apparently

That didn't make any sense, nor was it funny.

 

[8WON6]

Randomly kissing a girl is assault

randomly?

you invite a woman to your crib or hotel room at night for "coffee" alone. This is any normal man probing for a romantic encounter. Using "random" is strawmanning what never happened.

Do you see how yall keep framing it beyond what happened? Dudes in here talking about "force" and "random".

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

randomly?

you invite a woman to your crib or hotel room at night for "coffee" alone. This is any normal man probing for a romantic encounter. Using "random" is strawmanning what never happened.

Do you see how yall keep framing it beyond what happened? Dudes in here talking about "force" and "random".

Breh..even if you invite her ..u still cant force yourself on her.. thats what he did

Am i tripping guys

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Oh yeah? And watch that p*ssy dry up.


They are playing a dangerous game. Men are already scared to talk to women.

I’m blaming him though. He shouldn’t have had her no where near him. There’s plenary of p*ssy out there.

Naw if a woman wants you it isn't drying up. Since I have been single this year I have done what I typed with 6 women and it's been a success each time.

 

[8WON6]

Breh..even if you invite her ..u still cant force yourself on her.. thats what he did

Am i tripping guys

force yourself would imply he kept going beyond "no".

when she said no, he stopped and accepted her rejection. that's not "forcing yourself on somebody".

god damn, it's like i said before, some of yall are debating as if he raped her, when he made a move and got rejected. You're arguing a scenario that didn't happen.

 

[Payday23]

She legit sellin her book on this shyt

Bingo

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

This is the exact quote:

But what you said was:

You made it seem like he was merely leaning in going for an innocuous kiss, and she pushed him away, but according to her, he was forceful in how he kissed her [pushing his tongue into her mouth and pressing her back on the sofa], and it was prolonged [10 seconds]. Now, needless to say, that doesn't automatically constitute as being sexual assault, but I don't think one can automatically rule this as a harmless act either.

And whatever you may believe of this "women and this victim shyt" phenomenon, there's at least 10x more cases out there of legitimate sexual assault that isn't reported, so one shouldn't be quick to dismiss anything of this nature, because this type of mentality is the reason why there's women out there who still don't speak up, in fears of their experiences being disregarded, while having to relive it over again, and the stigma that comes with it.

yeah dude misrepresented the situation on purpose. lil prick is a shyt disturber.

that shyt is assault by her explanation.

it's innocent by ops explanation.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I mean, I could see if he grabbed a private part, but we usually don’t ask before kissing. So maybe we need to start asking before kissing.

women would hate this. They want you to be able to read signals and be confident enough to go for it.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Naw if a woman wants you it isn't drying up. Since I have been single this year I have done what I typed with 6 women and it's been a success each time.

yeah ok

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

To avoid any issues..just invite or mess with females who show super high interest


Cause a lot of bros are not calibrated enough

honestly, if you're doing anything other than that you're asking to fail, or at least be used for a free meal/night on the town. if i don't get the feeling she's all the way into me and i have to jump through hoops to illicit interest from her, breh i don't want it.

 

[Mr. Foxx Foxx]

Ain’t this the chick married to Antony Weiner?

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Breh..even if you invite her ..u still cant force yourself on her.. thats what he did

Am i tripping guys

nah you aight. op just misrepresented the facts to get a plat.

 

[IGSaint12]

He apologized and said he misread the situation and she still claims sexual assault. I'm sorry but that is ridiculous to me.