We need to have a discussion….. because this IS NOT SEXUAL ASSAULT…

[Th3G3ntleman]

It is sexual assault. Now she should probably have kept it to herself considering he apologized and IT didn't go any further but the presumption of engagement by just her presence at that location is the issue. You ask first and if she says yes you proceed.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Thread straight rapist babel

 

[El_Mero_Mero]

Alot of y'all would never have been born if your father didn't "sexually assault" your mother.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Still baffled women go back to a man’s living space or hotel and expect not get hit on, or him not to make a move

she got what she wanted...a story

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Thread straight rapist babel

explain how. seriously want to know.
based on what op described sounds like an honest mistake. if it was assault their lips would never have touched. she woulda recoiled and said nah, she pushed him off after the kiss. it doesn't say he grabbed her head and forced it to his

this quick to accuse energy is for fools and trolls which are you sir?

and again i'm basing this strictly off the OPs description of the event.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Don't play with women on the job if you got shyt to lose. They'll mislead you right to the unemPloyment line

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trust and believe king!

lil thot tried me in my office one time years back like i was gon bite.....nah.


so here's what happened.

I was in my office a young lady came in asking about some health and safety procedure for a certain process, this woman a bit of a closet freak.

story on the closet freak energy......a group of us went to lunch one day and we got ice cream for dessert, she purposely ate her vanilla cone so it was all over her mouth like she just got skeeted on. ain't no 20 something eating that sloppy.


and before you think it's innocent, you know that look people give when there's a sexual tension/ she wants you and wants you to know it so she stares at you with lustful eyes.

we all know the look, it's effectively an invite to make a romantic overture. well she makes that look at me and stares for awhile making sure i know what's up.

now all of the guys that were with us sorta looked at one another like "aye did what happened just now really just happen"


back to the story, now we're in my office this is a few days after the lunch, same stare as if to say i need to make a decision and make that move.

anyway, i steer the convo back to the work and she leaves visibly annoyed. I shrug and keep it pushing.

Now mind you this girl is like guyanese or trini slim genuine beautiful, model-like face that said, her energy at lunch and her annoyance with my lack of initiating romance let me know all i needed. i dodged issues. big ones.

 

[Mowgli]

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trust and believe king!

lil thot tried me in my office one time years back like i was gon bite.....nah.


so here's what happened.

I was in my office a young lady came in asking about some health and safety procedure for a certain process, this woman a bit of a closet freak.

story on the closet freak energy......a group of us went to lunch one day and we got ice cream for dessert, she purposely ate her vanilla cone so it was all over her mouth like she just got skeeted on. ain't no 20 something eating that sloppy.


and before you think it's innocent, you know that look people give when there's a sexual tension/ she wants you and wants you to know it so she stares at you with lustful eyes.

we all know the look, it's effectively an invite to make a romantic overture. well she makes that look at me and stares for awhile making sure i know what's up.

now all of the guys that were with us sorta looked at one another like "aye did what happened just now really just happen"


back to the story, now we're in my office this is a few days after the lunch, same stare as if to say i need to make a decision and make that move.

anyway, i steer the convo back to the work and she leaves visibly annoyed. I shrug and keep it pushing.

Now mind you this girl is like guyanese or trini slim genuine beautiful, model-like face that said, her energy at lunch and her annoyance with my lack of initiating romance let me know all i needed. i dodged issues. big ones.

Yup. Sex gives women to much power in the office because they can always hit that switch when you don't take the knee to their demands. Company fukk around and fire both of you just to not deal with the headache. I stopped fukking my coworkers before I hit 30 and it's saved me alot of pain.

Hasn't stopped women from generating sexual tension Though.

It's hard being team handsome and knowing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.


Tread wisely brother

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Yup. Sex gives women to much power in the office because they can always hit that switch when you don't take the knee to their demands. Company fukk around and fire both of you just to not deal with the headache. I stopped fukking my coworkers before I hit 30 and it's saved me alot of pain.

Hasn't stopped women from generating sexual tension Though.

It's hard being team handsome and knowing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.


Tread wisely brother

nikka i hate you! lol stupid ju jitsu fighting brudda.

but as you said they have too much power and they know it with the sex.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Sad that happened to her
Unfortunately the dude is still breathing, he is an old pervert older than my father, preys on women young enough to be his daughter. I paid him as a driver and took advantage of being that close to me.

Shoulda cut his dikk off and fed it to him while he bled out.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

It is sexual assault. Now she should probably have kept it to herself considering he apologized and IT didn't go any further but the presumption of engagement by just her presence at that location is the issue. You ask first and if she says yes you proceed.

in what world you dry dikk wierdo.... wtfffff

breh sex, sexual petting aladat is initiated with eye contact slight movement into personal space with a slight hesitation where she then has opportunity to move towards you as well as confirmation she wants the interaction and you proceed and escalate slowly. this whole ask thing sounds very impractical, it's a quick way to dry up the vagina beloved.

 

[8WON6]

Well, I can only speak from my own experiences, but is it hard to misread signs to the point where you're shoving your tongue down a woman's throat in a forceful manner, pressing her against a couch?

If you're going in with that intent and force, it's usually reciprocated by the woman at the same time, by her being forceful too. If you're just sitting there next to her, putting your hand over her shoulder, and she doesn't reciprocate that energy, you go in slowly do you not? You don't just force yourself on her without reading her body language. If you feel her reciprocating the kiss, then you go for more, but never before.

this is bullshyt. I wasn't going to even post but, this type of response is bullshyt. People using these "you just have to know" responses when a man makes a romantic move. Sorry, but when a woman comes back to your crib for "coffee" after hours, THAT IS A SIGN OF ROMANTIC INTEREST. When he kissed her and she pushed away, he apologized, STOPPED, and let it go. You using words like "force" and "forceful" is you creating a narrative and framing it in a hollywood movie "predator" way.

Nothing he did was wrong. But yeah, this whole grey area shyt needs to go.

 

[Art Barr]

it is sexual assault because he a goofie with n o game.
trying to make a move on a female at work.
which if you thorough.
you should not be shytting where you eat.
unless you live with game to pull it off.
in a pro environment.
you asking to have a social anything is a business proposal.
that if you make an advance. Is predatory in nature.
whether you are cognitive or prescient or not.
Ignorance is not an excuse.

dude is a weak ol buddy system face ass goofie.
who failed to take his ass out and hunt.
then tried some ol Tom cat fiendish laugh goofie shyt and got his issue.

art barr

 

[8WON6]

As far as the elements involved In their linking up…. I agree they are both way out of bounds…. But that’s not my issue here, if we are talking about that then they are both out of line like you said. But I am talkin about simply the interaction between man and woman that has been a norm for years being rewritten in real time by women but on an as needed basis…. And that is my problem.

If the advance is wanted she marries the guy maybe, but if it isn’t wanted it’s sexual assault… that is a problem to me, especially when the unwanted advance apologizes for the advance

well said.

 

[8WON6]

going back to a nikkas crib for "coffee" at midnight yeah okayyyy

yeah, he completely misread that.

 

[Art Barr]

Harassment
Assault involves violence

no assault is physical unwarranted contact.
sexual assault is physical unwarranted contact of an egregious nature.

Ignorance is not an excuse.


art barr