We need to have a discussion….. because this IS NOT SEXUAL ASSAULT…

[Art Barr]

As I said its not an assault imo

In my case or example I was given Spanish Fly from Dominica and forcefully taken to his home, he also had an axe.
I was then tied up and given crack and heroin before being raped for 48 hours
I spent 5 days in hospital after.

So accusations like this are quite insulting to me she was harassed not assaulted.

she was sexually assaulted.
you can not change the factual definition just because you self equated.
if people were allowed to do that.
the predators would have even more free reign over anyone in the workplace.
plus actual public.
this pos in this story.
tried to orey on this lass.
then tried to hide behind legality of the eeoc and human rights as well.
as the department of human rights and eeoc are there.
to allow the predator to do wtf the really want.
plus get away with it in the tax id corporate work structure



art barr

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

it is sexual assault because he a goofie with n o game.
trying to make a move on a female at work.
which if you thorough.
you should not be shytting where you eat.
unless you live with game to pull it off.
in a pro environment.
you asking to have a social anything is a business proposal.
that if you make an advance. Is predatory in nature.
whether you are cognitive or prescient or not.
Ignorance is not an excuse.

dude is a weak ol buddy system face ass goofie.
who failed to take his ass out and hunt.
then tried some ol Tom cat fiendish laugh goofie shyt and got his issue.

art barr

depends where you work quite as it's kept some workplaces all the brass be fukking each other on the weekends they'll look at you funny if you ain't down with their reindeer games.



i be like no decrepit drawls for me lawd, no sir.

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

this is bullshyt. I wasn't going to even post but, this type of response is bullshyt. People using these "you just have to know" responses when a man makes a romantic move. Sorry, but when a woman comes back to your crib for "coffee" after hours, THAT IS A SIGN OF ROMANTIC INTEREST. When he kissed her and she pushed away, he apologized, STOPPED, and let it go. You using words like "force" and "forceful" is you creating a narrative and framing it in a hollywood movie "predator" way.

Nothing he did was wrong. But yeah, this whole grey area shyt needs to go.

This post is the definition of telling on yourself. You hate to see it. Too many nxggas on this board who've overstepped the mark and don't want to admit it.

 

[8WON6]

This post is the definition of telling on yourself. You hate to see it. Too many nxggas on this board who've overstepped the mark and don't want to admit it.

i'm not telling on shyt.

Like i said, when people like you use "a man should just know and read the signs"...then when a man reads a clear cut sign that the overwhelming majority of adults see as romantic interest, then you're on the other side saying some dumb shyt.

Like others in here had hit on, people like you sound like you've never had actual interactions with women on a romantic level. Using words like "force" and "forceful" is you creatin a hollywood fictional scene.

and even in her story, the exact moment she pushed away and said no, he stopped. you want this to be something it's wasn't.

 

[8WON6]

Also, If this dude's intention was to assault her, why would he stop when she said no? Not to mention she went to his apartment at night for "coffee". It's like when it comes to certain scenarios, women are absolved of all responsibilities and are treated like helpless children.

thank you.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

So he forced himself on her, kissed her with his tongue deep in her mouth, she pushed him away and you don’t think it’s sexual assault?

Does he have to stick his penis in her twat for you to consider it as sexual assault?

wait he tongued her?, nah that's assault b.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

explain how. seriously want to know.
based on what op described sounds like an honest mistake. if it was assault their lips would never have touched. she woulda recoiled and said nah, she pushed him off after the kiss. it doesn't say he grabbed her head and forced it to his

this quick to accuse energy is for fools and trolls which are you sir?

and again i'm basing this strictly off the OPs description of the event.

"if it was assault their lips would never have touched?"


That's like sayung if it was rape the p*ssy would never have been wet

U fukking rapist

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Right. Next time I sit next to a female colleague at work during lunch, I will try to slip my tongue down her throat and when she pushes me away I’ll just say I misread the situation. Dumbass

are you being obtuse on purpose cause i can't tell....did he tongue her? if so that's fo sho assault if she's recoiling back and you slip her the tongue....

 

[Crayola Coyote]

He we go again with the lying

 

[Koba St]

are you being obtuse on purpose cause i can't tell....did he tongue her? if so that's fo sho assault if she's recoiling back and you slip her the tongue....

Yes he tongued her, and she pushed him back and left immediately. Seems like people aren’t actually reading the article and instead going by the OPs casual dismissal of what happened

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

Like others in here had hit on, people like you sound like you've never had actual interactions with women on a romantic level. Using words like "force" and "forceful" is you created a hollywood fictional scene.

It's actually more to the contrary.

Forcing yourself onto a woman when she hasn't given you any indication that she's willing to reciprocate is the sign of a man who's never had any actual interactions with women on a romantic level.

“Then, in an instant, it all changed. He plopped down to my right, put his left arm around my shoulder, and kissed me, pushing his tongue into my mouth, pressing me back on the sofa.

“I was so utterly shocked, I pushed him away. All I wanted was for the last 10 seconds to be erased.”

That is him forcing himself on her. He's not leaning in for a kiss and waiting for her to reciprocate, which any normal-functioning grown ass man would do. He's going right in shoving his tongue in her mouth from the onset, and his body is forceful enough to where she's pressed back on the sofa (keep in mind she was originally just sitting there), for what lasted up to 10 seconds. Regardless, if it was literally 10 seconds or not, it's still a time period in which he should've read her body language.

Now, please, you can stop telling on yourself now.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

As I said its not an assault imo

In my case or example I was given Spanish Fly from Dominica and forcefully taken to his home, he also had an axe.
I was then tied up and given crack and heroin before being raped for 48 hours
I spent 5 days in hospital after.

So accusations like this are quite insulting to me she was harassed not assaulted.

Brehette please tell me this man spent time in prison as a result of this evil

 

[8WON6]

Right. Next time I sit next to a female colleague at work during lunch, I will try to slip my tongue down her throat and when she pushes me away I’ll just say I misread the situation. Dumbass

this happened after hours at his apartment.

 

[Koba St]

Don't play with women on the job if you got shyt to lose. They'll mislead you right to the unemPloyment line

This. I learned the hard bitter way

 

[Koba St]

this happened after hours at his apartment.

What fukking difference does it make?