MalikX
Superstar
And that's crazy because they're perfect for each other
we shouldn't hate on brehs who seriously date single moms ..
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And that's crazy because they're perfect for each other
Not every case of "single mother" happens because of a deadbeat baby father or ain't shyt mother. 
Some couples just don't work out.
Why aren't single fathers seen as damage goods.
We got some half ass daddies out there. Living life, getting chicks pregnant, thinking all he has to do is pay for the kid
Some couples just don't work out.
Why aren't single fathers seen as damage goods. We got some half ass daddies out there. Living life, getting chicks pregnant, thinking all he has to do is pay for the kid
SeveroDrgnfli
Ain't nobody tryin to get indicted.
I prefer dating moms. I want kids. If my partner already has kids and looks good that's a huge plus. Lol I don't gotta knock her up and I don't have to gamble on if I'll still be attracted to her post pregnancy.
I was adopted so I don't believe my kids have to have my genes.
Also, I don't think young people should be punished for being naive or noble. I think it's brave and a little crazy to decide to have a child at a young age knowing that it makes life much harder.
I was adopted so I don't believe my kids have to have my genes.
Also, I don't think young people should be punished for being naive or noble. I think it's brave and a little crazy to decide to have a child at a young age knowing that it makes life much harder.
newworldafro
DeeperThanRapBiggerThanHH
Attractive body and face, universal 7s
Had a decent job making quality livelihood
Personality were aligned for more than just sex
Sex was A1
Own home
Common sense (seemingly)
Basically somebody that if she didn't have a child (in my own funky thinking
) I would have been more serious about where the situationship was heading.
Ok .. I feel u bruh .. I agree with all that especially the bolded.Attractive body and face, universal 7s
Had a decent job making quality livelihood
Personality were aligned for more than just sex
Sex was A1
Own home
Common sense (seemingly)
Basically somebody that if she didn't have a child (in my own funky thinking
I been down this road once but the chick didn't even have her shyt together ..25 w a 5 y/o seed working 30 hrs a week at a call center for 11-12$.. shyt was cool at first but once shyt starting getting serious , I realized her all her liabilities and not having her shyt together was a distraction to me and would only get worse unless she stepped up. She ain't have no trade no college credits no nothing lol..
I would date a single mom but she'd have to be thorough enough to take care of her seed, where anything I did to help would basically be icing on the cake not some shyt that's expected .. F dat.
FukYaFeelings
Superstar
Nah ion ever plan on seriously dating a single mom.
Larry Lambo
Superstar
Not every case of "single mother" happens because of a deadbeat baby father or ain't shyt mother.
Some couples just don't work out.
Regardless of why it didn't work out, a woman with a child is going to be not as desirable for the most part. In a lot of cases you're actually better off if the child's father is dead or a deadbeat because you don't have to deal with him. If he's responsible and involved, there could be some philosophical differences that arise and some low key hating as well. No matter what you'll have to concede her child is gonna take higher priority over you and there will be times where you want to see her but she's got the kid.
Not every man can be with a single mother, it takes special man.
A child should always be first priority, if a mother chooses their man over their child that tells you they ain't shyt.
If I was to ever date a single mother i expect her to put her child above me. If I had a child, I'll make sure my child is first and everybody else second.
nikkas are selfish sometimes. Everything doesn't have to revolve around their needs because someone needs attention more than they do.
Guilting single mothers is corny.
Calling them bottom of the barrel women and damaged isn't the way a parent should be portrayed; especially a good parent.
No shame in being a single mom; Its about how you carry yourself and the effort you put into raising your children.
I'd rather these moms have someone they can build with but i couldn't see myself participating unless i was bringing my own children from a previous relationship.
I'd rather these moms have someone they can build with but i couldn't see myself participating unless i was bringing my own children from a previous relationship.
I don't hate on them brehs that do but I'd never date a single mom myself.
If I did, there's a good chance I'd be reenacting that classic scene from Baby Boy...
If I did, there's a good chance I'd be reenacting that classic scene from Baby Boy...
U foul bruh. I actually liked the chick I was datings son.. Would buy him iron man toys n shyt, even would after we broke up n shyt. Lil homie would always say I was his best friend lol cool dude.The wackest feeling tho was walking around on Halloween at the mall or a restaurant and everybody looking like Awww "he's little iron man, ur son is so adorable "
And you like "thanks!" But u just thinking to ur self
This little nikka ain't mine
BmoreGorilla
Veteran
I have two children by two women so I can't say shyt
I'm starting to get a little serious with a single mother whose situation is similar to mines. She has a daughter same age as mine which is a plus.
I could be looking for a twenty something who has no kids but she will eventually want some. And I can't say that I want anymore
I'm starting to get a little serious with a single mother whose situation is similar to mines. She has a daughter same age as mine which is a plus.
I could be looking for a twenty something who has no kids but she will eventually want some. And I can't say that I want anymore
havoc
Superstar
Some of these dudes are going to grow old and have kids and may experience a bad break up with their spouses. They are going to end up as single fathers chasing single mothers. That's why I smdh when I see a bunch of dudes talking shyt that they will never date a single mom. Their minds are going to change quickly after they enter an older age group that consists of a lot of women with kids.a lot of dudes here get no women yet are the most vociferous about what another man does in his dating preferences.
i can't rock with it because of the potential drama, but if the next man is happy doing that, it's not my business
barackosama
Pro
Somebody got to take care of my problems