we shouldn't hate on brehs who seriously date single moms ..

[Larry Lambo]

Not every man can be with a single mother, it takes special man.

A child should always be first priority, if a mother chooses their man over their child that tells you they ain't shyt.

If I was to ever date a single mother i expect her to put her child above me. If I had a child, I'll make sure my child is first and everybody else second.

nikkas are selfish sometimes. Everything doesn't have to revolve around their needs because someone needs attention more than they do.

Guilting single mothers is corny.

Calling them bottom of the barrel women and damaged isn't the way a parent should be portrayed; especially a good parent.

All things being equal I'm choosing a woman without a child, and I think most people feel that way. It's not saying it's a bad thing to be a single parent, but the situation is not going to be as desirable as if she didn't have a child.

However, life is about concessions. Nobody is gonna be your perfect mate, so even though that situation isn't ideal, you still may choose a woman based on her other qualities. Maybe her personality/beauty/career combo is so lethal, that you concede an ideal dating scenario.

Now once you decide to be with this woman, you can't complain about being second priority because that's what you signed up for. If it gets serious you will have to deal with being partly responsible for raising the child. That's what you are dealing with.

 

[SheWantTheD]

brehs i ain't saying go date and wife up single moms. i'm saying we shouldn't hate on brehs who decide to seriously date single moms

How are we hating on the dude tho? I give very valid reasons as to why I won't date a single mom and urge other men with no children to not also.

 

[Serious]

I don't really have a problem with it, as long as she got her shyt together.....
Now if she's a single mom who's only brings looks and vagina to the table that's no deal...
I won't even entertain fukking, because I've so many cats go that route only to catch that L train acouple months later when the female turns up pregnant again...

 

[benjamin]

A childhood friend of mine not only just married a single mom but this single mom has 2 children and one is a special needs child in a wheel chair....I got so upset with my friend that I stopped talking to him for a couple weeks, I just couldn't believe he could be that stupid...plus the woman is 40 and he's 32....a special needs child, breh? when the relationship goes bad and he gets divorced, this kids medical bills finna be on his head with his dumb ass...smh

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

no different than girls voicing their displeasure with short guys, broke guys, lame guys, ugly guys

of course you're nowhere to be found then

Short/broke/ugly/lame guys approach women though... single moms are not out hollering at brehs, at least to the same degree So it's clear which one is an actual bigger problem than the other to anyone with some sense.

And yea jumping in women's threads to defend short/ugly/lame/broke dudes isn't how a man should spend his time.... in my opinion. That's some borderline homo shyt.... in my opinion. But do you though, you have all the answers dont you :scumbag:

 

[AAKing23]

We don't hate on them we laugh at them