MisterMajesty
All Star
The former. by far. Thems the game tapes. But as with anything long term, if you don't have a plan, discipline and just plain grit. It won't work. You can have Philip Banks for a father and still be hopeless without those traits. Unfortunately, we're in a community that don't champion that type of shyt, its short term gratifications or "the bag" at whatever cost (in this case, "the bag" is easy access to sex, regardless of the cost) and we're at critical mass.You right.
But who do you think it better prepared for the “fight”? Those who watched parents/relatives have healthy marriages that lasted or folks who are the products of babymommas/babydaddies who never saw adults make it work?
Ultimately, i'm not worried, eventually, it will change. It has to, but that process is going to be very painful, and there will be a lot of casualties in the process
