i read this like
man i know what it was like being married and being unhappy then leaving and feeling like a ton of bricks and stress was lifted off your shoulder
but i wasn't 15 yrs in tho
im an ass im not that emotional but i be lying to say that shyt wouldnt hurt me at all i be like

15 yrs 4 kids
getting divorce i dont judge but do you breh i aint even mad but i wouldnt have her do shyt for me for the dating game tho or else
u still hitting it not surprising its more logical and safer but will eventually catch up with 1 of y'all always does
fukk buddies gf/bf husband/wife somebody gonna get the wrong impression always does and get mad and jealous
being deployed tho that shyt is hard
hate to say it THESE HOES AINT LOYAL is an understatement (not referring to ur ex tho just saying military wise since i know it well also)
so many cheating wives and husbands orgies no fukks given
peeps coming back damn near killing their spouses cuz of shyt like that
let alone finding out it be the person u trusted to watch over them while u were gone
either way I'm married I'm simple but complex
treat me good we good

then u get the

kids dont effect my decision on that at all